Thinking With The Wrong Head

[LoveMen]

Okay,

I have known this guy for a year and a half and we finally started dating in November. I love him more than I have loved anybody. However, lately I have been looking at other men in a sexual way. My current boyfriend pleases me very well in that area but I don't know why I keep looking at these other men. He also hates when I look at porn when he's gone but I still do it sometimes. I feel very guilty. Anyone know what I'm going through?

 

[Lube]

You're young & horny. What else is new?

Sex is never as interesting as it those first few weeks or months.

Do you guys have a vow of monogamy? Do you still love him with all your heart? How much sexual experience did you have before you met him?

Our advice depends a lot on the answers to the questions above. More detail, please.

 

[byro]

My boyfriend (of 28 years) once said, "I may be married, but I'm not blind." I took no offense because I knew exactly what he meant. We're faithful to each other, but we're not so unloving as to expect that the other should never check out or fantasize about a hot guy.

 

[G-Lexington]

"I like to read the menu, but know I'll always eat at home." - Jon Astley

I guess it'll all depend. Do you jerk off to porn INSTEAD of having sex with your boyfriend? Or just as an adjunct? My boyfriend and I both look at porn, and neither of us has a problem with it.

Lex

 

[KaraBulut]

I don't know why I keep looking at these other men.

Because you're gay and they're men.

I love him more than I have loved anybody.

Let's put this problem in perspective.

You have each other. You love each other.

Stop worry about this petty stuff and enjoy each other while it lasts.

 

[LoveMen]

You're young & horny. What else is new?

Sex is never as interesting as it those first few weeks or months.

Do you guys have a vow of monogamy? Do you still love him with all your heart? How much sexual experience did you have before you met him?

Our advice depends a lot on the answers to the questions above. More detail, please.

I would never cheat on him, and he would never cheat on me. I do love him with all my heart. I haven't had that much sexual experience. Well, fooled around but not actual sex.

 

[FunDude]

I don't see the problem.. We can't look at porn too?
Porns educational though.. You can learn tricks!
The relationship should be all fun.
I think thats normal stuff..

 

[G-Lexington]

Invite him to watch some porn with you. Show him what stuff turns you on, and ask him to pick some stuff that turns him on. It's fun.

Lex

 

[Lube]

I would never cheat on him, and he would never cheat on me. I do love him with all my heart. I haven't had that much sexual experience. Well, fooled around but not actual sex.

Well, everyone's different, but my own personal experience was that after having sex a lot with my first bf, I got curiouser and curiouser about other guys. It wasn't the only thing that broke up the relationship (not by a long shot!) but it was a contributing factor.

 

[landers]

He gets mad at you for looking at porn when he's not around?

Ask him to make you a video so you can watch that instead of internet porn then.