Well, it wouldn't really be an invasion of privacy since you are being invited. How does your friend's boyfriend feel about this? I don't think it would mess you up if you choose to participate, but it would be less "special and romantic" if your the type of person who treasures their virginity and wants their first time to be meaningful relationship-wise. I would personally just choose to watch. Have fun and be safe!
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thoughts about watching a couple have sex
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It kinda boils down to what your values are.. If you are waiting for the "special and romantic" experience, i would suggest not going. However if you are interested and the both of them are interested in having you, talk with them about your concerns first... Good Luck..
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Go fo it. You were invited, so there is no privacy being invaded.
They may actually get off on being watched.
You've watched gay porn right? Does watching that prevent you from having a special first time? It shouldn't.
So watching two other guys have sex live shouldn't be either.
I'd consider you lucky.
They may actually get off on being watched.
You've watched gay porn right? Does watching that prevent you from having a special first time? It shouldn't.
So watching two other guys have sex live shouldn't be either.
I'd consider you lucky.
I don't see how it would mess you up. Both of them care about you, right? Just make sure all of you set ground rules before things get hot and heavy. I know guys who have been punched in the face for crossing lines that were never set in these types of things. Is it just his idea, or is it his boyfriend's idea too? I would make sure everyone was really okay with it first. Other than that, I don't see a problem. Watch, have fun, be safe, be safe, and be safe.
I'll echo the previous posts
If they've invited you and you're comfortable I say go for it. Its only a 3-some if you're asked to participate
This old Mod finds the scenario kind of hot
If they've invited you and you're comfortable I say go for it. Its only a 3-some if you're asked to participate
This old Mod finds the scenario kind of hot
G-Lexington
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The only caveat I'd toss in is this - participating in (even watching) sex can alter a relationship in unforeseen ways. Let's say, for instance, you join in. And you and your friend do OK. But when you're messing around with his boyfriend, things get uber-hot for the both of you. Can you handle that? Can you handle it if you start developing feelings for either of them? For both of them? If you know there's a good chance you won't be invited back?
I won't say "don't do it". But I do think it needs a good deal of thought.
Lex
I won't say "don't do it". But I do think it needs a good deal of thought.
Lex
I question your friend's motives. He's more interested into doing something hot for himself and his bf than helping you with your coming out. In other words, he's taking advantage of you.
As long as you understand that this isn't likely to improve your relationship with them as friends and you're ok with that, you should go ahead.
Threesomes in my limited experience usually turn into a two on one. Totally hot when you're the one and that's very likely the way it will play out, with them being a couple.
As long as you understand that this isn't likely to improve your relationship with them as friends and you're ok with that, you should go ahead.
Threesomes in my limited experience usually turn into a two on one. Totally hot when you're the one and that's very likely the way it will play out, with them being a couple.
Yeah, I was thinking what 3 nipples said. I would bet next month's rent that he's not doing this "so you feel more comfortable about gay sex." I would bet the real motive is that he's an exhibitionist, or he really wants you to join in, because he wants to get in your pants, and this is an elaborate scheme to do that.
Whether you do it is up to you. It's all probably harmless as long as his bf is cool with it and you aren't inhibited by it. By the way, watching doesn't necessarily mean participating, even though they've invited you. You could be a passive bystander, which would drive your friend nuts if his real motive was to have sex with you.
Good luck. Let us know what you do!
Whether you do it is up to you. It's all probably harmless as long as his bf is cool with it and you aren't inhibited by it. By the way, watching doesn't necessarily mean participating, even though they've invited you. You could be a passive bystander, which would drive your friend nuts if his real motive was to have sex with you.
Good luck. Let us know what you do!
I agree that you are most likely being used to fulfill his (and possibly) his bf's sexual fantasies. If you're OK with that, then it's just a matter of whether you want to join in or not. I have no moral hang-ups about three-somes, but there is ample psychological evidence that it is often (not always) destructive to a genuine relationship.