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Threesome Confusion

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your relationship with your mate can only be ruined if you let it .... you say you enjoyed yourself and your mate and his girlfriend would like to have an encore so they must have enjoyed it as well .. so what's the problem ... if you enjoyed him more than her that's okay .., guys don't always know what turns on a bird but you do know what turns you on so that knowledge might just be what tipped the scales at your threesome since both you and your mate probably did to each other what you knew felt good ....does it make you gay or bi .... probably didn't make you one way or the other... why not just consider that it was an experience and simply figure out if it was one that you would like to do again ... only this time why not drink less so that you don't feel like you did it 'cause you were drunk rather than because you wanted to give it a go...
 
Hey you may find him the only male you lust for in life. Maybe you'll find other males that you like to have 3 somes with. Maybe you'll be gay. Or straight.

I've had sex with a woman before. Does that make me str8? Enjoy yourself. What could be any healthier than enjoying your friend's body? Str8 men too often don't realize that they share intimacy with a mate or two. You can feel an emotional bond with them. Enjoy that bond. Now you two have something in common.

Don't try to "label" yourself. You had sex, with people you cared about, and everyone enjoyed it? Where's the harm?
 
what do you mean by having sex, where you penetrated, did you traded oral, some 3ways are not as touchy between guys, what is it that you like?

Another point. Maybe you enjoyed him more than her, because of your friendship this experience made you come even closer it's kinda wierd but sometimes it never happens again sometimes it does but you can even consider it bonding.
 
PlayingAway said:
Thanks for people's replies. I've always tried to keep sex and friendships seperate and is why I don't have more than 1 or 2 female friends. This is because it is always weird for me, so it's easier.
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I think you'll find having sex with men is much different in dealing with the "emotional" side of a relationship. Especially if he has a girlfriend, it will be mainly about you and he hanging out and doing what you always did, and oh by the way, some sex thrown in.

Women are built differently when it comes to sex, and the day(s) after.
 
im going to go ahead and throw it out there. what if your friend is Bi and wanted the 3sum also? if he asked you to do it again, then he has no problems with touching you and you touching him, which means he could some what enjoy being with you"that way" which could work out for both of you. if you choose to be in the 3way with him, or maybe a 1/1 with him later.
 
Sex is fun. You only live once. Explore your mate. He's the one inviting you!
 
Does it make you gay/bi? Maybe.
Does it make you horny? Yes.
Don't worry about the label. Go enjoy it. :)

Lex
 
>>>I still stick to that because we generally tell each other everything.

He may not be able to admit it to himself yet. But you should worry even less about his label than you should about your own. :)

Lex
 
PlayingAway said:
Well thanks for your help. I am going to just see how it goes and have fun. I think next time (possibly tonight) i'll definately stay sober to see if I feel the same way.
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A lot of guys think of themselves as heterosexual. The truth of the matter is that most guys are just sexual.

If this 3 way is working for you, then just enjoy it for what it is. Just because you enjoyed a little play with another guy doesn't mean that you're suddenly going to turn gay. Nor will it provide you the ability to decorate rooms, cut women's hair or offer witty critique of the latest Madonna album.

You are required to wear 2xist or GinchGonch underwear, however. :D


PlayingAway said:
mascbiguy said:
im going to go ahead and throw it out there. what if your friend is Bi and wanted the 3sum also? if he asked you to do it again, then he has no problems with touching you and you touching him, which means he could some what enjoy being with you"that way" which could work out for both of you. if you choose to be in the 3way with him, or maybe a 1/1 with him later.
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Interestingly about a year ago there was a rumour going around that someone caught him kissing another bloke on a night out. He denied it and being his best mate believed him mainly because I thought there was no chance of him being gay. I still stick to that because we generally tell each other everything.
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It's interesting that you were so worried about your own sexual preference that you didn't comment upon your friend's sexual preference.

Your friend is gay or bi. He and his wife have reached a compromise in their relationship that allows both of them to have a little fun with the boys.

The big deal isn't that you enjoyed experimenting with a male-female couple. The big deal here is that they are your friends. Fuckbuddies are complicated but manageable but when there are 3 people in the fuckbuddy relationship, things can get emotionally complicated. Whoever said "Sharing is caring" had never done a 3-way.

Enjoy but beware of petty jealousy and the "two-some on the side".
 
I agree with everyone else. Just enjoy the sex. Maybe, you're just a sexual person that enjoys amazing sex.
 
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