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Threesome proposition from a roommate

wonderfulwilkinson

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To start, I'm a college student living with 5 guys in one of the residence hall and we're all somewhat close, with our individual relationships. One roommate and I, in particular, are close. I don't consider myself incredibly hot, but I've been getting into shape more and more as the semesters have gone along. I have one roommate, in particular, a former swimmer with a swimmer's body. While I suspected he was gay when I met him, he recently came out and revealed, also, he was in a relationship with our gay neighbor and mutual friend.

One night last week, my roommate was pretty drunk, as was his boyfriend. They were actually making out in the center of the floor of our living room-type area. I've always been very cool around them and, by this point, I'd not only taken pictures for them, of them kissing, I'd also been to a gay club with them and some of my other straight friends. To be clear, I identify as "straight", but, lately, have been thinking about being less private with my sexual identity which is, essentially, open to guys and girls (probably, if anything, I'd say I was 60 or 70% straight, as oddly as that's phrased).

Anyway, as I walked into the room with them kissing, my roommate, straddling his boyfriend (essentially just a hook-up, rather than an emotional relationship) and kissing him, offered me a threesome with the two of them. I wasn't sure how to react and I think I told them "no". Later that night, they asked me again, about 5 or 6 times and I kept saying "no", though, since, I've thought about it a little. I definitely would do it.

The next day, when he was sober, my roommate started to playfully caress my chest and I let him and we shared a few flirtatious looks, even talking about the night before. My own thoughts are that, probably, he thinks I'm into guys also (lucky guess!) and he's interested.

Being supposedly "straight", how do I approach this situation? For the record, I'm not worried because he's my roommate; the way our relationship is, I don't think it's a factor. Give me your opinions, advice and similar stories. Have you been in this sort of situation? :-)

(By the way, let me be clear. I'm not one of these "super-straight" men. I've spoken numerous times about my open views toward sexuality, in general, and my open views toward gay marriage, relationships, sexuality, and issues.)
 
I have trouble with you referring to yourself as "straight" and not just coming out and saying straight, without the quote/unquote crap. What's with that?

Anyway, shame on you.

Act on your real impulses and stop denying yourself.
 
i just spotted your post , haven't had time to check out your history but ! your sort of " straight " but you've made a shitload of posts on a gay forum ?
Unless you are worried about them " outing " you i'd get my gear off and and get a cock down my throat etc , get into it and have some fun.:D
 
You're clearly interested in taking up the proposition. Just do it and have fun.
 
"Hey remember the other night when you asked me if I wanted to join in with you guys? Well I've been thinking about it and that does sound like fun."

Easy as pie.
 
You're clearly interested in taking up the proposition. Just do it and have fun.

Let me clarify. I'm NOT straight, but lots of people, who I'm not close with and who I am close with, think I am. I would describe myself as bi, though I believe sexuality should be free from labels like the rest of society should be (how hippie of me!).

People often perceive me as straight, but I know I'm not.
 
^Well if you do go for it, take pictures. There's a good lad. ;)





Worth a try, I thought, eh?

-d-
 
I just wanna second the 'take pictures' aspect ;) (sorry i know thats so pervy heh)

Just go for it and if anyone does ask tell them your 'curious', 'bi', 'dont believe in labels', whatever u want
 
Hey

Have you ever tried anything with guys before? If not maybe you should try one on one before you have a threesome with gay guys.
 
I kind of see how this applies, but I don't think I necessarily agree. Relationships vary, even between roommates. Some of very close and others aren't. Some are "too" close. I'm more afraid of regret than anything.

Trust me on this ... After 60yr. on this planet, I can definitely state, without doubt, that most regret comes from what we DIDN'T Do! #-o ](*,)

You know your roomies. The opportunity has been made very clear. You are certain of your own feelings about it. Follow your Heart! Do what YOU want to do! ..|

I'm not entirely sure what the real question is here. Are you concerned about others finding out, word getting around? Are you worrying about possible "feelings" developing, then not being realized? Are you afraid of the relationship dynamics changing? :confused:

You seem to be in a situation that many others have faced, but, in your case, a lot of the doubts (Does he? Doesn't he?) have been blatantly erased. I'm not sure about your hesitation in making up your mind. :cool:

I'm sure I'm missing something. If you could be more direct about your concerns, perhaps we can be of more assistance. (group)

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
... I can definitely state, without doubt, that most regret comes from what we DIDN'T Do! ...

So true! There is some good advice in this thread, so I'm not adding anything else.
 
Trust me on this ... After 60yr. on this planet, I can definitely state, without doubt, that most regret comes from what we DIDN'T Do! #-o ](*,)

You know your roomies. The opportunity has been made very clear. You are certain of your own feelings about it. Follow your Heart! Do what YOU want to do! ..|

I'm not entirely sure what the real question is here. Are you concerned about others finding out, word getting around? Are you worrying about possible "feelings" developing, then not being realized? Are you afraid of the relationship dynamics changing? :confused:

You seem to be in a situation that many others have faced, but, in your case, a lot of the doubts (Does he? Doesn't he?) have been blatantly erased. I'm not sure about your hesitation in making up your mind. :cool:

I'm sure I'm missing something. If you could be more direct about your concerns, perhaps we can be of more assistance. (group)

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:

Thanks! First of all, I was saying that I'm afraid of having regret in not doing it. I posted this to get responses and opinions from everyone who could give me their own experiences and tips, so I could learn from them.

To be fair, while I'm very comfortable with my sexuality, I haven't been with a guy. It's good that I'm not all that nervous or confused about it.
 
If you've never been with a guy before, I'd agree with the post above suggesting a man to man encounter prior to a 3some.

Maybe you should approach your roommate and let him know that you are curious to know what it's like to be with men, but do not feel comfortable being with more than one man at the same time to begin with. Let him know that you were flattered by their suggestion of a threesome, but that you would like to try something with him alone first and then take it from there.

It doesn't sound like your roommate's relationship with the other guy is a committed one so I don't think that would create an issue, but this might be more comfortable for you as a "first time."

Good luck and keep us updated as to how it goes...
 
Don't overthink it. Sex is sex. If you want it, then go for it.
 
Tell him your considering his offer but first you'ld like to watch them together and take it from there.
 
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