Threesome with my boyfriend

[Kyanimal]

Huntneo and soreknees ...

Both of you are exactly right! A "Relationship" does depend on the people involved. And, the answers for some may not be the answers for others. Everyone needs to find their own paths, and lead their Lives in the ways they are most comfortable with.

I'm not trying to "recruit" anyone into exploring an "Open Relationship". I am simply presenting mine, as it currently is, as an example of one that began as "Closed", but changed over time.

We never did pick out a china pattern, but we have had pets, melded into each other's families, and even helped raise three of Kev's young nephews, with their Mom, here in our home, for a "temporary" six years. We have built a long, varied, History together. And, we are hoping to build even more.

And, no, we do not exactly have "carte blanche". There have been situations that we've discussed and decided against. We conduct ourselves through mutually considered options. We don't simply do things without the other knowing about it.

As huntneo said ... communication IS the Key!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[future_retro]

The gay argument against gay marriage and the one the Bette Midler used against it was this very notion of the difficulty of sexual exclusivity. In July my partner and I will be together 28 years. We needed to be exclusive to bond the way we wished to bond.

Are you saying that you have both always been exclusive? That in 28 years, you have not had sex with anyone other than your partner? Not judging either way, just interested. I have honestly never heard of such exclusivity for this long in the gay world.