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Time Crunch- Help!

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Hey guys,

First off the age displayed here is a few yrs off, so please don;t bash me as to why I am not out, etc. etc.

I met a guy online and we talked for a long time one night (IM, then Phone). He is really, really cute, definitely my type. I'm really attracted to him. He seems like a nice guy too. He lives in my hometown.. where I am for break. We planned on meeting up but since then I have had nothing but cold feet.

I am staying w/ my parents who I am very close with but I am not out. To anyone. I've accepted it but I am not ready to tell anyone. So naturally, I am nervous about that. Second off, it's pretty much just for a hookup. I'm nervous about anal sex and plus he keeps on insisting how much better it is w/out a condom. He told me "I can't wait to release my hot cum in your tight hole"... lol. I don't think I should do it without a condom. He lives in a "very gay" area, has been out for a long time, is very hot... I know he has had many partners. Oh and plus, he wants to go to a gay club and while I want to, I'm not ready, not in my hometown.

So, It is almost time to head back to school and I don't know what to do. The guy is a hottie but I am nervous about too many things. I feel once I get back to the Univ., my opportunity is lost. ](*,)
 
You already know the answer, don't you? You just don't like it.

As for the time crunch, desperation and sex are usually not a good combination.

Use your head and not your dick to decide.

No glove, no love, dude.
 
If you know he has had a lot of partners, who I am sure also share his bareback fucking, why would you even for one minute think of having anal sex without a condom ???? You are a young guy, think of your future, the quickie wont be worth a long life of sixness.
 
I am not sure I would want to go with a guy who, in this day and age, wants to go bareback. To me, this just shows a lack of responsibility, both to you and himself. If he wants to take risks with his life, then that's his decision. To take risks with your life is a situation I would simply not entertain.

Even if he were to relent and say he would use a condom, it would only be to get his rocks off. I would want to go with a guy with that attitude either.

I think the answer is pretty obvious - give this one a miss. Believe me, there will be others..... others who respect you a little more.
 
Dude, we are talking about a life and death situation. I don't care how hot the guy is, don't do it. Find someone that respects you. This guy is using you for a cum dump. If he cared about you, he would respect your wishes. I would run in the other direction!
 
If he isn't interested in wearing a condom and you feel even slightly uncomfortable about the situation, I'd say it's a no go.
 
If he really cared about you, he wouldn't pressure you to have sex without a condom. Tell him to keep a helmet on that soldier, or he can just keep it in his pants.

Lex
 
i say if you are worried dont use a condom but only blow him and such dont have anal sex. Also if he is soo hot get drunk and see where that leads
 
Txgoodoldboy said:
Dude, we are talking about a life and death situation. I don't care how hot the guy is, don't do it. Find someone that respects you. This guy is using you for a cum dump. If he cared about you, he would respect your wishes. I would run in the other direction!
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Sure, we are entitled to some fun in our lives. Having sex with no strings attached is one of the fun things, for many people, as we all know. Nope, he does not have to make to a BF or buddy or anything... nothing wrong with a hot hook up either, in my books, that is...

HOWEVER, A CONDOM IS A MUST.

Do not even consider negotiating or debating the point.

A BB dude with lots of experience is potentially a ticking bomb. You want to be smart about thism because your life and your well-being depend on it.

What, if he has nothing to lose anymore and is having BB fun at the expense of the others? A possibility you want to consider very seriously.

SC
 
Thanks guys, for your words of wisdom.

I thought about it even more, it would be crazy to do it without a condom. After all, I met him online (he responded to a craigslist) and of course says disease free, etc. But what does he have to loose if he is already infected? It's just a random hookup.

I never said he cared about me or anything like that. We are just turned on by each other, and that's that so it would just be a hookup. But again, thanks and I will still stay safe if anything happens.
 
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