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took a straight guy's virginity

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I figure I may as well share this story since I get to read everyone else's. Be forewarned that there will be mention of drug use, alcohol, and sexual situations. For those of you this may offend, your further reading is at your own peril.




I lived with a really hot straight guy in 1999. He was about 6'3, weighed about 180 lbs, short black hair, brown eyes (I can get a picture of him now, or direct you to his MySpace, but only upon request)...and I'd say about 7.5 x 5 cut. One night a few of my friends and I decided to take a little ecstasy and hang out around the apartment. He wasn't home at the time, but did arrive a while after. He was hammered to the wall drunk when he did get home, saw all of us rolling, and decided to play with us (back rubs, glowstick stuff, you know). Eventually he started to crawl towards his room (I told you he was shitfaced). I, thinking this was hilarious--and the carpet felt good--decided to crawl after him. He laid out on the floor on his back, so I put my head on his chest. He started rubbing my head, which in my state of mind felt fucking awesome. We started chit chatting about all kinds of stuff. Next thing I know he picks my head up and starts making out with me. Part of me wanted to stop him because he was drunk, but I was in an everything-feels-good mood, so I went with it. After a bit he decided to finish his crawl to his room to go to bed, and I rejoined my friends in the living room rolling. They being all gay guys decided to rib me a little bit for playing with the drunk straight guy, with some admonishment.

The next day I talked with him about it, largely because he was my roommate and good friend and I didn't want there to be any tension or unease between the two of us. He assured me that there wouldn't be any sort of drama, and even kissed me again just to prove the point. That for me was somewhat of an invitation to put my hands in his pants, and I wound up giving him a blowjob. He signaled his approval by forgetting to tell me when he was coming, so I wound up with a mouthful of boy juice (I swallowed). After that, we just started talking about whatever, as though nothing happened. (I may have even gone to do the dishes and start cooking dinner; that part's fuzzy.)

A couple of days later in the middle of the afternoon, he'd come home from school and I'd just woken up. He laid on his bed, and I went into his room and started chit chatting with him about school and his day and what would become my day. I started giving him a back massage. He was a long-distance runner in high school, so he was still pretty lean and muscular. I then flipped him over and started rubbing his chest; he grabbed my head and started making out with me. This deteriorated into me giving him head for a little bit. I then took out a condom, put it on his hard shaft, and slid him inside me. He fucked me pretty good for a bit, then came inside me (the condom). He then told me that's the first time he'd ever had intercourse with anybody. Part of me felt accomplished, part of me felt like somewhat of a thief, mostly because I knew his primary attractions were to females.

That was the one and only time we'd ever fucked like that, but we'd done the head giving (and eventually receiving thing) on and off for a bit until he started dating a girl. Over the years we messed around here and there, but he primarily maintained relationships with girls. To this day we're still really good friends, but he's decided he's not playing with guys anymore.

I know some of you guys are going to say "he's not straight if he plays with you like that", or something to that effect. Those are merely semantics, labels and such. He knows what he likes emotionally and sexually. We talk about it sometimes, along with other stuff. I just saw him last weekend over Mardi Gras. He's still really fucking hot. Hope that was good reading for you guys.
 
i turned 22 a few weeks ago and i'm still a virgin. i don't see that changing anytime soon nor do i care. i love making out so i can enjoy that for as long as i want.

i blame the lack of sex thing on the slight social phobia i have and the fact that i don't really know how to talk to girls :)

life's tricky sometimes, but i hate when people can't caught up on how old someone is and still being a virgin.
 
Well man, take it all in stride on your own time. Sometimes people can be hard to approach, but as long as you aren't as hard to approach, then things will work out well for you. I commend you for your choice to remain a virgin until you decide with whom you choose to share that part of yourself, but beware of the flood of sexual activity you may desire after your first encounter!

I actually know another dude who's just turned 21 and is still a virgin. I mean, that's cool and all, because it allows you to go through life without concentrating so much on the lower "brain" as much, but I'm going to warn you that sometimes thinking with that brain will get you in a world of trouble. Don't let him lead the way and you'll be good from day to day.

Take care man, and always feel free to chat me up whenever.

-c


P.S. To anyone I may have directed towards my boy's space, please do me the favour of not contacting him or asking him anything about those experiences or hoping to hook up yourselves. Despite how cool we are with one another, it's still something I look at as a treasure and I'd like it respected. Since I'm good at maintaining friendships through some troublesome situations, I'd like to keep my track record as fresh as possible. Hell, feel free to attack my space as much as you'd like; feedback is always welcome and sometimes I could use a little guidance as far as how to "dress it up" or whatever...oh, and enjoy the music. It's a little sample of my style, but I didn't get to put up any classical, blues, or other genres I love so much.
 
you were in the right place at the right time...
the guy did it out of convenience, not out of preference...;)
 
you were in the right place at the right time...
the guy did it out of convenience, not out of preference...;)

I'd think twice about this...

How are you supposed to have sex with someone, unless you are with him at a certain place and at a certain time. (Let's discount the cyber and the phone sex for a moment, shall we?) Making it very inconvenient would stop even the most determined of the partners...

Sure, you developed a casual sexual relationship. Men do that apparently more often than they are willing to admit it here.

See, he has been your friend all the way through. He has not treated you differently in any respect. Given the chance, he has stuck with opposite sex, since this is what apparently does it for him, more than anything else. He does not play around any more, or so he says.

Someone must have said this before:

Men do not have to be madly in love with anyone in order to have sex with them. It is just the way it is...

SC
 
You might think that he's heterosexual but he's not if he's had sex with you.

Just because someone doesn't want a relationship with a man that doesn't make them heterosexual or just because they just want sex or have sex with a guy it doesn't either.

Lots of guys will have sex with men and then claim that they were drunk, high, or it was "experimentation" but that's a product of how homophobia has distorted our society in particular, and if they were really comfortable with themselves they'd identify as bisexual even if deep down they know they're not heterosexual.

Anyway, if he really WAS heterosexual why did he do it more than once? If he truely were straight he wouldn't have done it at all or just tried it once and not enjoyed it.
 
There's a word for men who are really bisexual and say that they're heterosexual, it's CLOSET CASE.
 
I thought I specifically said not to pass judgment on him. Might have been something I didn't word as appropriately as I may have meant, but DO NOT PASS JUDGMENT ON HIM. What we did was what we did. He acknowledges it as such. He also has decided he will not do things with males anymore. That's his decision to make. For the love of [insert deity here] will some of you quit with the passing judgment? Remember that whole "he without sin cast first stone" thing? Yeah. Whether or not you believe that, it's true.
 
You might think that he's heterosexual but he's not if he's had sex with you.

Just because someone doesn't want a relationship with a man that doesn't make them heterosexual or just because they just want sex or have sex with a guy it doesn't either.

Lots of guys will have sex with men and then claim that they were drunk, high, or it was "experimentation" but that's a product of how homophobia has distorted our society in particular, and if they were really comfortable with themselves they'd identify as bisexual even if deep down they know they're not heterosexual.

Anyway, if he really WAS heterosexual why did he do it more than once? If he truely were straight he wouldn't have done it at all or just tried it once and not enjoyed it.

I totally agree with your post. But I STRONGLY agree with what is bolded.
 
I thought I specifically said not to pass judgment on him. Might have been something I didn't word as appropriately as I may have meant, but DO NOT PASS JUDGMENT ON HIM. What we did was what we did. He acknowledges it as such. He also has decided he will not do things with males anymore. That's his decision to make. For the love of [insert deity here] will some of you quit with the passing judgment? Remember that whole "he without sin cast first stone" thing? Yeah. Whether or not you believe that, it's true.

Don't get so worked up. ^_^
 
People experiment. Plenty of gay guys have sex with women. Does that make them straight?

People are rarely 100% gay or 100% straight. This was a situation where Fireside's friend felt comfortable having sex with him. It was fun, but it doesn't make him gay. Just curious
 
You might think that he's heterosexual but he's not if he's had sex with you.

Just because someone doesn't want a relationship with a man that doesn't make them heterosexual or just because they just want sex or have sex with a guy it doesn't either.

Lots of guys will have sex with men and then claim that they were drunk, high, or it was "experimentation" but that's a product of how homophobia has distorted our society in particular, and if they were really comfortable with themselves they'd identify as bisexual even if deep down they know they're not heterosexual.

Anyway, if he really WAS heterosexual why did he do it more than once? If he truely were straight he wouldn't have done it at all or just tried it once and not enjoyed it.
There's a word for men who are really bisexual and say that they're heterosexual, it's CLOSET CASE.
:##: Yeah, that's real nice. And also useful.

The guy played around with same-sex pleasure. Big deal. I don't care. Well, sctually I do, because it pleases me a little that at least someone out there is getting a little hot man-on-man action. But whether he calls himself gay or bi or a ham sandwich doesn't really seem important to me. He, fireside, and most of the other folks involved, all knew the score: casual sex with little to no chance of a long-term commitment. No-one else's business.

Now he's decided to stop having sex of any sort with men. Again, I don't care. Or rather, I only care as much as there's one less attractive man I can set my sights on. His decision to have sex with a man didn't seem to make him any more gay-friendly, and his decision to stop having sex with men didn't seme to make him any less gay-friendly.

Labels exist for utility. They articulate desire, intent, and perhaps allegiance. If he's only pursuing heterosexual relationships right now, why not let him call himself straight? It's certainly a more efficient term than "Non-practicing bisexual." Heteroflexible, maybe?

If he's honest about his sexual history, none of this makes him a closet case - he's just a guy who made the choice to stop having casual sex with men and exclusively pursue more serious relationships with women. No matter his actual "true" orientation it might be most useful to go ahead and call him straight.
 
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