Tried a dildo for the first time… low-key loved it. Now what?

[TonyTone666]

I’m m a straight guy, and today, out of curiosity, I decided to try a dildo for the first time. Not gonna lie, I kinda loved it. Didn’t t expect to enjoy it this much, but here we are.

Now i’m sitting here like what does this mean? Do I just keep going down this road? Any other straight dudes out there who’ve had a similar experience? Would love to hear thoughts, advice, or just someone to tell me this is normal lol.

 

[seven2go]

Welcum to JUB.
I think your ship has sailed.........be safe.........

 

[BiBtm64]

Hi Tony, and welcome to JUB.

I started out in exactly your situation, so I can tell you about my experiences, and maybe this will help you understand where you're at.

First of all, I want to say up-front: there will be the inevitable troll who will reply "ya must be gay, lol" or some variant of that. By definition, you're straight if you're solely attracted to women. You're gay if you're solely attracted to men (i.e. the thought of pussy disgusts you - yuck, how could you go there? Is that you? No? I didn't think so). Poking something in your ass has nothing to do with attraction to men or women. For many of us, there's a curiosity about what it would feel like, and you went ahead and found out. Good for you! Now, what does this mean, you ask?

There are many straight men who enjoy anal stimulation, simply for the feeling, and would not entertain the thought of having sex with a man. Many enjoy anal penetration from their wife or partner. I have. A Google search such as "do straight men enjoy anal stimulation" will point you to those sorts of discussions.

You ask the questions "Now what?" (in the title) and "do I just keep going down this road?". Down what road? There's no harm in continuing to enjoy your dildo You haven't suddenly switched sides just because you enjoyed sticking a dildo in your ass. Whether you go down some other road, such as taking a real penis up your ass, is entirely up to you. It's not an automatic, inevitable progression. Let me ask you to imagine something: you're bent over, on all fours, ass in the air and a man is behind you with a hard cock and is about to fuck you. Are you excited for what will happen next? Only you can answer that (and you don't have to do so here). Enjoying a dildo does not mean you're on a journey of no return to the point of being fucked by a man.

I hope that helps you to think things through.

Next, since you asked to hear from guys with similar experiences, I long considered myself straight. At an early age I discovered that poking small things in my ass felt nice, starting with a finger in the shower, various household items (yeah living in a small town, pre-internet and pre-online shopping was hard). When I moved to a city I bought a dildo I got to the stage you're at - I thought "wow, that feels nice" but still thought "sex with a man? Yuck. I like women". Many years layer (in my 30s) curiosity got the better of me and I experienced the real thing, I had sex with a man. It went on for several men for a time, and I have to say it felt great. I was never attracted to men, in the way I am to women though. I don't eye off men in public like I look at women. At an older age now, I'm glad I had the experience of being fucked. I consider myself bisexual but straight-leaning, kind of "cocksexual", if you like - I'm not attracted to men as such, just cocks.

You might go down that route, you might not. You don't have to, and it's not inevitable. When you say "Now what?" and "Do I keep going?" - sure, why not keep enjoying a dildo if it feels good. Whether you go further at some stage in your life is entirely up to you. Good luck and keep enjoying those feelings.

 

[ricksvca]

I’m m a straight guy, and today, out of curiosity, I decided to try a dildo for the first time. Not gonna lie, I kinda loved it. Didn’t t expect to enjoy it this much, but here we are.

Now i’m sitting here like what does this mean? Do I just keep going down this road? Any other straight dudes out there who’ve had a similar experience? Would love to hear thoughts, advice, or just someone to tell me this is normal lol.

I think you should try the real thing You don't say whether you have had any kind of sexual experience with another man. If you haven't I think you should work up to actually having anal sex as a bottom By that I mean being naked with another man and giving and receiving a blowjob with another man. If you enjoy that kind of experience and you find someone that you are comfortable with then I would progress onto anal sex as a bottom. I would also tell the man that you are going to do this with that it is your first time trying anal as a bottom.

This is my story regarding anal sex.

First let me say that I am bisexual. When I first started having sex with men (age 22) I had no desire to have any kind of anal sex. I told who ever I was having sex with upfront that I was into giving and receiving hand jobs and that I really loved giving and receiving blowjobs, I would also tell them I loved sucking a man's cock and having him cum in my mouth and swallowing his cum.
Years later (age 26) when I became involved with a very good friend who was gay. Having regular sex with him changed the way I felt about anal. One time he was giving me one of his always excellent blowjobs when he suddenly lifted both of my legs up in the air (I was sitting on his couch with him kneeling on the floor in front of me). He took his mouth off of my cock and started licking my asshole. I was startled but I decided to let him lick and kiss my asshole because it felt absolutely amazing. This went on for a good 30 minutes. It was pure ecstasy. and in some ways was more pleasurable than having him suck my cock. He didn't need to ask me if I liked it because my groans and squirming told him that I loved it.

After that session I started thinking about having anal sex with him. The more I thought about it the more I knew I wanted him to fuck me. Because we were friends and he knew I was an anal virgin I knew he would be gentle. I had absolutely no interest in being a top so I focused on being a bottom. Could I actually let another man fuck me? It was one thing to give a BJ or HJ to a man and have him reciprocate but letting another man put his cock in my ass was a huge step in my bi-curious experiences.

As time went by I became more comfortable with wanting to find out what it felt like to be fucked by a man. One night, after many very hot BJ/HJ sessions over the previous months I came right out and told him I wanted him to fuck me. We were both naked when I said this so he got up and came back with some lube and began preparing his very large (8-9 inches) and very thick cock to penetrate my ass. Terry had a very large mushroom cock head and I knew it might be difficult for my ass to accept his cock. He told me that it might be painful but he would be as gentle as possible. I got into the doggy position and he rubbed some of the lube on and around my asshole. I felt one, then two and finally three of his fingers enter me in an effort to loosen me up. It felt really good having his fingers in me. He then told me he was going to put his cock in me. All of a sudden I felt an excruciating pain shoot through my lower body. I immediately made him stop but I still wanted his cock in my ass so we tried again a couple of more times but I was just too tense and inexperienced to relax and let him enter me.

Many years went by and whenever I was with a man it was always just blowjobs and hand jobs, always where I had the guy cum in my mouth and I would swallow him. Then I met a gay couple on the internet and we started e-mailing each other. I told them I wanted to suck them both off and have them cum in my mouth. I also told them that if the chemistry was right they could fuck me with the condition that they would not cum in me so I could suck them both off after they were done fucking me...

Well, the chemistry was right and when one of them said "Let's have some fucking". I asked the other one if he wanted to fuck me and he said yes and I said OK and he went to get some lube. I wondered if he would also bring back condoms with him.

While he was gone, I started sucking his partners cock to get him ready to fuck me. When the other man returned to the living room with the lube he did not have condoms. They were going to bareback me. After all these years I was going to finally find out what it is like to have a cock in my ass and I was going to do it bareback.

We had exchanged pictures and I knew I could handle the size of these two men's cocks (both about six inches or so and cut) if they decided they wanted to fuck me.. I got in the doggy position and spread my legs. I wanted it to be easy for him. I felt him put his hand on my hip and his lubed cock slid right into my ass with no resistance. He wasted no time in getting into thrusting his cock into me repeatedly and after getting used to the sensation of his cock in me I started to really like the feeling of being fucked, of knowing the cock I had been sucking earlier was now in my ass.

After about 20 minutes it was time for the other man, the one who had said "Let's have some fucking" to take his turn.. I was actually attracted to this man and not just his cock. This was very rare for me. Only three times in my life was I actually attracted to the man and his cock and this was the third time. He was a tall, lean athletic man and doggy would not work for him so he had me get down on all fours and bend at the waist so that my head went down to the floor and he entered me. .

By now I was really enjoying it. I started making noises, saying "fuck me, fuck me" and moving my ass back and forth on his cock He kept fucking me for another 15 minutes or so and then he pulled out. It was time for me to suck them off and have them cum in my mouth.

This was my first and only time in all male threesome so I was really excited about getting to suck two cocks off and swallow their cum in one night.. The first guy who fucked me said he wasn't ready yet so I told the second man I would do him first. I really like to suck cock, taking my time and exploring the man's cock and balls, finding the more sensitive spots on both when I give a blowjob. I give a really long and sensuous BJ and while I was sucking this guy off it struck me that we had gone straight from him fucking me to me taking his cock into my mouth and that this was my first ass to mouth blowjob. It wasn't long before he was cumming in my mouth with me savoring his cum, the texture and the taste. After I took my mouth off his cock I squeezed his cock and a large droplet of cum appeared on the slit at the end of his cock. I put my mouth around his cock and sucked all the cum that had not already cum out. I then did his friend and got my second load of sweet cum to swallow..

 

[magicdick]

I’m m a straight guy, and today, out of curiosity, I decided to try a dildo for the first time. Not gonna lie, I kinda loved it. Didn’t t expect to enjoy it this much, but here we are.

Now i’m sitting here like what does this mean? Do I just keep going down this road? Any other straight dudes out there who’ve had a similar experience? Would love to hear thoughts, advice, or just someone to tell me this is normal lol.

It is as normal as breathing. Most of the straight guys known and unknown to you have contemplated bisexuality and wondered what sucking dick and getting fucked would feel like. If you have such thoughts and get a burning, yearning sensation in your loins, go for it, bro. (I went for it, am now a happy bisexual, can't imagine my life with my male lovers.)

Men and women have been in homosexual relationships for millennia.

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABNORMAL OR IMMORAL ABOUT IT.

 

[magicdick]

I’m m a straight guy, and today, out of curiosity, I decided to try a dildo for the first time. Not gonna lie, I kinda loved it. Didn’t t expect to enjoy it this much, but here we are.

Now i’m sitting here like what does this mean? Do I just keep going down this road? Any other straight dudes out there who’ve had a similar experience? Would love to hear thoughts, advice, or just someone to tell me this is normal lol.

And welcome to JUB. It's the most supportive and loving place for a newbie to land. Obey the rules (e.g., no underage stuff) and you'll be fine.

 

[ricksvca]

Hi Tony, and welcome to JUB.

I started out in exactly your situation, so I can tell you about my experiences, and maybe this will help you understand where you're at.

First of all, I want to say up-front: there will be the inevitable troll who will reply "ya must be gay, lol" or some variant of that. By definition, you're straight if you're solely attracted to women. You're gay if you're solely attracted to men (i.e. the thought of pussy disgusts you - yuck, how could you go there? Is that you? No? I didn't think so). Poking something in your ass has nothing to do with attraction to men or women. For many of us, there's a curiosity about what it would feel like, and you went ahead and found out. Good for you! Now, what does this mean, you ask?

There are many straight men who enjoy anal stimulation, simply for the feeling, and would not entertain the thought of having sex with a man. Many enjoy anal penetration from their wife or partner. I have. A Google search such as "do straight men enjoy anal stimulation" will point you to those sorts of discussions.

You ask the questions "Now what?" (in the title) and "do I just keep going down this road?". Down what road? There's no harm in continuing to enjoy your dildo You haven't suddenly switched sides just because you enjoyed sticking a dildo in your ass. Whether you go down some other road, such as taking a real penis up your ass, is entirely up to you. It's not an automatic, inevitable progression. Let me ask you to imagine something: you're bent over, on all fours, ass in the air and a man is behind you with a hard cock and is about to fuck you. Are you excited for what will happen next? Only you can answer that (and you don't have to do so here). Enjoying a dildo does not mean you're on a journey of no return to the point of being fucked by a man.

I hope that helps you to think things through.

Next, since you asked to hear from guys with similar experiences, I long considered myself straight. At an early age I discovered that poking small things in my ass felt nice, starting with a finger in the shower, various household items (yeah living in a small town, pre-internet and pre-online shopping was hard). When I moved to a city I bought a dildo I got to the stage you're at - I thought "wow, that feels nice" but still thought "sex with a man? Yuck. I like women". Many years layer (in my 30s) curiosity got the better of me and I experienced the real thing, I had sex with a man. It went on for several men for a time, and I have to say it felt great. I was never attracted to men, in the way I am to women though. I don't eye off men in public like I look at women. At an older age now, I'm glad I had the experience of being fucked. I consider myself bisexual but straight-leaning, kind of "cocksexual", if you like - I'm not attracted to men as such, just cocks.

You might go down that route, you might not. You don't have to, and it's not inevitable. When you say "Now what?" and "Do I keep going?" - sure, why not keep enjoying a dildo if it feels good. Whether you go further at some stage in your life is entirely up to you. Good luck and keep enjoying those feelings.

It took me some time to even want to have anal sex. as a bottom. I loved giving and receiving blowjobs and hand jobs but having a man fuck me was a whole other experience. You can read about my anal as a bottom experiences in my post on this thread (February 22, 2025). .

 

[magicdick]

I think you should try the real thing You don't say whether you have had any kind of sexual experience with another man. If you haven't I think you should work up to actually having anal sex as a bottom By that I mean being naked with another man and giving and receiving a blowjob with another man. If you enjoy that kind of experience and you find someone that you are comfortable with then I would progress onto anal sex as a bottom. I would also tell the man that you are going to do this with that it is your first time trying anal as a bottom.

This is my story regarding anal sex.

First let me say that I am bisexual. When I first started having sex with men (age 22) I had no desire to have any kind of anal sex. I told who ever I was having sex with upfront that I was into giving and receiving hand jobs and that I really loved giving and receiving blowjobs, I would also tell them I loved sucking a man's cock and having him cum in my mouth and swallowing his cum.
Years later (age 26) when I became involved with a very good friend who was gay. Having regular sex with him changed the way I felt about anal. One time he was giving me one of his always excellent blowjobs when he suddenly lifted both of my legs up in the air (I was sitting on his couch with him kneeling on the floor in front of me). He took his mouth off of my cock and started licking my asshole. I was startled but I decided to let him lick and kiss my asshole because it felt absolutely amazing. This went on for a good 30 minutes. It was pure ecstasy. and in some ways was more pleasurable than having him suck my cock. He didn't need to ask me if I liked it because my groans and squirming told him that I loved it.

After that session I started thinking about having anal sex with him. The more I thought about it the more I knew I wanted him to fuck me. Because we were friends and he knew I was an anal virgin I knew he would be gentle. I had absolutely no interest in being a top so I focused on being a bottom. Could I actually let another man fuck me? It was one thing to give a BJ or HJ to a man and have him reciprocate but letting another man put his cock in my ass was a huge step in my bi-curious experiences.

As time went by I became more comfortable with wanting to find out what it felt like to be fucked by a man. One night, after many very hot BJ/HJ sessions over the previous months I came right out and told him I wanted him to fuck me. We were both naked when I said this so he got up and came back with some lube and began preparing his very large (8-9 inches) and very thick cock to penetrate my ass. Terry had a very large mushroom cock head and I knew it might be difficult for my ass to accept his cock. He told me that it might be painful but he would be as gentle as possible. I got into the doggy position and he rubbed some of the lube on and around my asshole. I felt one, then two and finally three of his fingers enter me in an effort to loosen me up. It felt really good having his fingers in me. He then told me he was going to put his cock in me. All of a sudden I felt an excruciating pain shoot through my lower body. I immediately made him stop but I still wanted his cock in my ass so we tried again a couple of more times but I was just too tense and inexperienced to relax and let him enter me.

Many years went by and whenever I was with a man it was always just blowjobs and hand jobs, always where I had the guy cum in my mouth and I would swallow him. Then I met a gay couple on the internet and we started e-mailing each other. I told them I wanted to suck them both off and have them cum in my mouth. I also told them that if the chemistry was right they could fuck me with the condition that they would not cum in me so I could suck them both off after they were done fucking me...

Well, the chemistry was right and when one of them said "Let's have some fucking". I asked the other one if he wanted to fuck me and he said yes and I said OK and he went to get some lube. I wondered if he would also bring back condoms with him.

While he was gone, I started sucking his partners cock to get him ready to fuck me. When the other man returned to the living room with the lube he did not have condoms. They were going to bareback me. After all these years I was going to finally find out what it is like to have a cock in my ass and I was going to do it bareback.

We had exchanged pictures and I knew I could handle the size of these two men's cocks (both about six inches or so and cut) if they decided they wanted to fuck me.. I got in the doggy position and spread my legs. I wanted it to be easy for him. I felt him put his hand on my hip and his lubed cock slid right into my ass with no resistance. He wasted no time in getting into thrusting his cock into me repeatedly and after getting used to the sensation of his cock in me I started to really like the feeling of being fucked, of knowing the cock I had been sucking earlier was now in my ass.

After about 20 minutes it was time for the other man, the one who had said "Let's have some fucking" to take his turn.. I was actually attracted to this man and not just his cock. This was very rare for me. Only three times in my life was I actually attracted to the man and his cock and this was the third time. He was a tall, lean athletic man and doggy would not work for him so he had me get down on all fours and bend at the waist so that my head went down to the floor and he entered me. .

By now I was really enjoying it. I started making noises, saying "fuck me, fuck me" and moving my ass back and forth on his cock He kept fucking me for another 15 minutes or so and then he pulled out. It was time for me to suck them off and have them cum in my mouth.

This was my first and only time in all male threesome so I was really excited about getting to suck two cocks off and swallow their cum in one night.. The first guy who fucked me said he wasn't ready yet so I told the second man I would do him first. I really like to suck cock, taking my time and exploring the man's cock and balls, finding the more sensitive spots on both when I give a blowjob. I give a really long and sensuous BJ and while I was sucking this guy off it struck me that we had gone straight from him fucking me to me taking his cock into my mouth and that this was my first ass to mouth blowjob. It wasn't long before he was cumming in my mouth with me savoring his cum, the texture and the taste. After I took my mouth off his cock I squeezed his cock and a large droplet of cum appeared on the slit at the end of his cock. I put my mouth around his cock and sucked all the cum that had not already cum out. I then did his friend and got my second load of sweet cum to swallow..

I'm jerking off to this beautiful account of deflowering. Isn't getting fucked a beautiful experience? You and I have so much in common, even down to not usually being attracted to men. (The only thing I'm eternally attracted to is cock. I see a nice cock and i fuckin' want it!)

 

[magicdick]

It took me some time to even want to have anal sex. as a bottom. I loved giving and receiving blowjobs and hand jobs but having a man fuck me was a whole other experience. You can read about my anal as a bottom experiences in my post on this thread (February 22, 2025). .

Hi Tony, and welcome to JUB.

I started out in exactly your situation, so I can tell you about my experiences, and maybe this will help you understand where you're at.

First of all, I want to say up-front: there will be the inevitable troll who will reply "ya must be gay, lol" or some variant of that. By definition, you're straight if you're solely attracted to women. You're gay if you're solely attracted to men (i.e. the thought of pussy disgusts you - yuck, how could you go there? Is that you? No? I didn't think so). Poking something in your ass has nothing to do with attraction to men or women. For many of us, there's a curiosity about what it would feel like, and you went ahead and found out. Good for you! Now, what does this mean, you ask?

There are many straight men who enjoy anal stimulation, simply for the feeling, and would not entertain the thought of having sex with a man. Many enjoy anal penetration from their wife or partner. I have. A Google search such as "do straight men enjoy anal stimulation" will point you to those sorts of discussions.

You ask the questions "Now what?" (in the title) and "do I just keep going down this road?". Down what road? There's no harm in continuing to enjoy your dildo You haven't suddenly switched sides just because you enjoyed sticking a dildo in your ass. Whether you go down some other road, such as taking a real penis up your ass, is entirely up to you. It's not an automatic, inevitable progression. Let me ask you to imagine something: you're bent over, on all fours, ass in the air and a man is behind you with a hard cock and is about to fuck you. Are you excited for what will happen next? Only you can answer that (and you don't have to do so here). Enjoying a dildo does not mean you're on a journey of no return to the point of being fucked by a man.

I hope that helps you to think things through.

Next, since you asked to hear from guys with similar experiences, I long considered myself straight. At an early age I discovered that poking small things in my ass felt nice, starting with a finger in the shower, various household items (yeah living in a small town, pre-internet and pre-online shopping was hard). When I moved to a city I bought a dildo I got to the stage you're at - I thought "wow, that feels nice" but still thought "sex with a man? Yuck. I like women". Many years layer (in my 30s) curiosity got the better of me and I experienced the real thing, I had sex with a man. It went on for several men for a time, and I have to say it felt great. I was never attracted to men, in the way I am to women though. I don't eye off men in public like I look at women. At an older age now, I'm glad I had the experience of being fucked. I consider myself bisexual but straight-leaning, kind of "cocksexual", if you like - I'm not attracted to men as such, just cocks.

You might go down that route, you might not. You don't have to, and it's not inevitable. When you say "Now what?" and "Do I keep going?" - sure, why not keep enjoying a dildo if it feels good. Whether you go further at some stage in your life is entirely up to you. Good luck and keep enjoying those feelings.

Damn well said, BiBtm64! A User's Manual.

Tony should also realize that whom you enjoy in the bedroom is not a moral issue. It is for the typical evangelical, killjoy moralist; it is NOT for the rational person. How could bringing pleasure and happiness and contentment into the world ever be immoral? (For those who want to go "philosophical" on me, don't bother. Philosophy compromises questionable answers to unanswerable questions.)

I love women. I am not attracted to men. I am, however, extremely attracted to cock and cum and getting fucked up my ass. The wet blankets out there can label me with any pejorative they want... cuz I don't care. Sucking cock, cum, and getting fucked in my pussy by men is the best "non-decision" I ever made.

P.S. BiBtm64, you and I could have so much fun in the sack. Go at it like a couple of cock-crazy sluts. Then invite the spectators, wife and girlfriend, to join the fun.

 

[ricksvca]

I'm jerking off to this beautiful account of deflowering. Isn't getting fucked a beautiful experience? You and I have so much in common, even down to not usually being attracted to men. (The only thing I'm eternally attracted to is cock. I see a nice cock and i fuckin' want it!)

Glad you liked the "account of (my) deflowering". I really did enjoy being fucked in the ass, especially by the second man, the one who I was attracted to. I came very close to telling him he could cum in my ass but I really wanted to suck him off and have him cum in my mouth. I take pride in my BJ skills and I wanted him to see just how enjoyable and satisfying a blowjob from me is. Just before he came he managed to say "I can't believe you're going to let me cum in your mouth" A few seconds later he said .."I'm cumming" and as I always do when a man cums in my mouth, I kept sucking and stroking him until he was done cumming.. His partner never let him finish in his mouth so what I did with the BJ I gave him was a real treat for him. Giving him an ass to mouth BJ right after he had been fucking me really turned me on.

I think we are very similar in our attitude about sex with a man. Our love of the cock, of giving BJs, of having a man cum in our mouth and then swallowing his load, being fucked in the ass and being "aggressively submissive".

 

[BiBtm64]

It took me some time to even want to have anal sex. as a bottom. I loved giving and receiving blowjobs and hand jobs but having a man fuck me was a whole other experience. You can read about my anal as a bottom experiences in my post on this thread (February 22, 2025). .

I couldn't care less. A guy questioning his sexuality came here asking for advice, and you turned it into the ricksvca show. It's little wonder he hasn't posted again.

 

[ricksvca]

FYI

BiBtm64​

- He and I have been e-mailing back and forth ever since I posted that. That would explain why he hasn't posted.

 

[BiBtm64]

FYI

BiBtm64​

- He and I have been e-mailing back and forth ever since I posted that. That would explain why he hasn't posted.

LOL cool story bro

 

[magicdick]

Glad you liked the "account of (my) deflowering". I really did enjoy being fucked in the ass, especially by the second man, the one who I was attracted to. I came very close to telling him he could cum in my ass but I really wanted to suck him off and have him cum in my mouth. I take pride in my BJ skills and I wanted him to see just how enjoyable and satisfying a blowjob from me is. Just before he came he managed to say "I can't believe you're going to let me cum in your mouth" A few seconds later he said .."I'm cumming" and as I always do when a man cums in my mouth, I kept sucking and stroking him until he was done cumming.. His partner never let him finish in his mouth so what I did with the BJ I gave him was a real treat for him. Giving him an ass to mouth BJ right after he had been fucking me really turned me on.

I think we are very similar in our attitude about sex with a man. Our love of the cock, of giving BJs, of having a man cum in our mouth and then swallowing his load, being fucked in the ass and being "aggressively submissive".

I, too, give a pretty good blowjob. There are three driving forces.

Fist, I just enjoy having a man's cock in my mouth. Period. Simple as that. It is one of life’s deep pleasures. When I am actively sucking a cock, I think to myself: “Hey, I’m not supposed to be doing this and I am. I’m not supposed to be enjoying this and I am—immensely. I am not supposed to want this and I do! Not only do I want it, I need it!” Forbidden fruit is always the sweetest.

Second, I do not close my eyes and bob up and down boringly on his cock until he cums. I mix it up. I use all my senses. I make love to his cock. I lick it. I kiss it—loudly. I slurp. I use my tongue to caress his shaft and tease the precum out of the hole. I nibble the head and the frenulum. I caress and sniff and suck his balls. (An oft overlooked pleasure. My lovers are eternally grateful and show it by moaning loudly, “That feels so fuckin’ good, baby!”)

Third, I ask him what he likes. Then I practice it until he screams his delight.

We differ in a couple ways.

I need my lover to cum in me when he fucks me. The act is incomplete unless he does. I get plenty of cum in my mouth as things stand so that is not a problem. Besides, when he cums in my pussy, I get to scoop and savor it as it drips out.

I tell my men not to tell me when they’re about to cum. I love the surprise of that first small taste of cum followed by the flood. Drives me fuckin’ crazy! Like you, I keep sucking until he goes soft. Then I squeeze his dick like a tube of toothpaste to get that last drop. (I have a lover who upon first seeing me squeeze his dick said, “You like that white stuff, don’t you?” I said, “Baby, I don’t just like it, I crave it. I need it to live!”)

Baby, I just made myself so fuckin’ horny. The only person available early this Sunday morning is my gf. And she don’t have a dick.

Finally, you’ve got to try lying on your back legs up in the air with a pillow under your ass as he fucks you. I’ve done all positions and this is my go-to one. I can see his face. I can kiss him. I can hold him close and whisper in his ear what a great fuck he is. (Sometimes I lie to stroke his ego. Men love to have their egos stroked.) I can hold him away by his arms and scream. In the heat of the moment I sometimes scream my love for him and beg him to never leave me. Afterwards I renege. Can’t love a man the way I love a woman.

Sorry. I didn’t mean to write a novel. Hope you didn’t find it TL;DR. Also hope you’re getting fucked and sucking cock and cum on a regular basis. Peace.

 

[ricksvca]

I, too, give a pretty good blowjob. There are three driving forces.

Fist, I just enjoy having a man's cock in my mouth. Period. Simple as that. It is one of life’s deep pleasures. When I am actively sucking a cock, I think to myself: “Hey, I’m not supposed to be doing this and I am. I’m not supposed to be enjoying this and I am—immensely. I am not supposed to want this and I do! Not only do I want it, I need it!” Forbidden fruit is always the sweetest.

Second, I do not close my eyes and bob up and down boringly on his cock until he cums. I mix it up. I use all my senses. I make love to his cock. I lick it. I kiss it—loudly. I slurp. I use my tongue to caress his shaft and tease the precum out of the hole. I nibble the head and the frenulum. I caress and sniff and suck his balls. (An oft overlooked pleasure. My lovers are eternally grateful and show it by moaning loudly, “That feels so fuckin’ good, baby!”)

Third, I ask him what he likes. Then I practice it until he screams his delight.

We differ in a couple ways.

I need my lover to cum in me when he fucks me. The act is incomplete unless he does. I get plenty of cum in my mouth as things stand so that is not a problem. Besides, when he cums in my pussy, I get to scoop and savor it as it drips out.

I tell my men not to tell me when they’re about to cum. I love the surprise of that first small taste of cum followed by the flood. Drives me fuckin’ crazy! Like you, I keep sucking until he goes soft. Then I squeeze his dick like a tube of toothpaste to get that last drop. (I have a lover who upon first seeing me squeeze his dick said, “You like that white stuff, don’t you?” I said, “Baby, I don’t just like it, I crave it. I need it to live!”)

Baby, I just made myself so fuckin’ horny. The only person available early this Sunday morning is my gf. And she don’t have a dick.

Finally, you’ve got to try lying on your back legs up in the air with a pillow under your ass as he fucks you. I’ve done all positions and this is my go-to one. I can see his face. I can kiss him. I can hold him close and whisper in his ear what a great fuck he is. (Sometimes I lie to stroke his ego. Men love to have their egos stroked.) I can hold him away by his arms and scream. In the heat of the moment I sometimes scream my love for him and beg him to never leave me. Afterwards I renege. Can’t love a man the way I love a woman.

Sorry. I didn’t mean to write a novel. Hope you didn’t find it TL;DR. Also hope you’re getting fucked and sucking cock and cum on a regular basis. Peace.

We are exactly alike with our approach and attitude about the way we give a man a BJ. To be honest I was also surprised at how much I enjoyed touching and sucking a man's cock and balls from the very first time I gave a man a BJ. I wanted to experience it all that first time and I had no reservations at all about having him cum in my mouth and swallowing his cum. My love of sucking cock only increased as the number of cocks I sucked grew and I learned new techniques etc. I do not mind if a man tells me he is about to cum. I can almost always tell when this is going to happen anyway because most men's cocks get a little bit harder just before they cum. Their breathing and sighs and groans of pleasure are also a telltale sign. A steady leakage of pre-cum is also an indication most of the time that a man is about to orgasm.

I do want to try the missionary position as a bottom and the cowgirl position as well as a bottom with the man cumming in my ass. Ideally I would like to do both of these bareback without a condom but .we don't live in a world where that is a safe or smart choice unless you really trust and know your partner is STD free.

 

[HornyHippy420]

I had all sorts of things up my ass when I discovered my Pspot!! One time I let a guy fuck me and it was sooo much better!! I could still feel him in me the next day!! Forget about labels. If your curious and no one gets hurt, try it once and go from there!!

 

[magicdick]

I had all sorts of things up my ass when I discovered my Pspot!! One time I let a guy fuck me and it was sooo much better!! I could still feel him in me the next day!! Forget about labels. If your curious and no one gets hurt, try it once and go from there!!

Dildos are nice, but hard to work what with all the lube. The real thing... I let him do the driving and he will drive me fuckin' crazy with pleasure. I LOVE GETTING FUCKED!!!

 

[bi4you]

I’m m a straight guy, and today, out of curiosity, I decided to try a dildo for the first time. Not gonna lie, I kinda loved it. Didn’t t expect to enjoy it this much, but here we are.

Now i’m sitting here like what does this mean? Do I just keep going down this road? Any other straight dudes out there who’ve had a similar experience? Would love to hear thoughts, advice, or just someone to tell me this is normal lol.

I'm bi, but never really been with a man. I used to have two dildos that got frequent use. One was on the average side as far as thickness, but it was long. That one was for my ass. I loved fucking myself with that thing. It didn't take long before I was able to take the whole rubber cock in my ass. Getting fucked is one of the best feelings ive ever experienced.
The other one was nice and thick. I practiced giving head with it. They say practice makes perfect and I want to be great at sucking cock. I look forward to the day a guy tells me that I gave him the best blow job that he's ever had.
Dildos are a lot of fun and feel amazing. I need to replace the ones I had and get back to work. What I really need is the real thing.