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Trouble getting off with a partner

HunterM

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Can you get off by yourself alone? If so, what turned you on when you do that alone?
 
The pure simplicity of your situation is the difficulty...

Hopefully, you guys get along well enough, to where you can ask him to just COMPLETELY take care of YOU!!!

Then you can kick back and just ENJOY the sensations...

You ALREADY KNOW -- that you're "worried" and "over thinking" things...

It might not actually be as easy as it sounds -- but if you can accomplish it -- I'll bet it solves the problem...

:):):)
 
I had the same problem when I was your age Ceri. It will pass. I remember the first time I came with my first guy. I cried, lol. I really did. We had dated a while before it happened, but he stayed with me. He just held me when it happened. I think mine problem was mental like someone else mentioned. I was raised to believe it was wrong so it has been had dealing with it.
 
Stop masturbating when you know you are going to be with the BF. Take the easy steps first. If you still can't get off then there is something else at work.
 
This sounds like me. I over think what's going on and how I'm doing. Do you guys ever kiss with eyes opened? I think it's hot to communicate by kiss with eye contact with no talking.

Masturbate less. Masturbate differently when you do masturbate. Have him tie you down and tease you. Role play. Use dirty talk. Put his underwear over your head and line up the fly, hopefully there is one, with your mouth and have him face fuck you. Don't keep flipping back and forth during the same session. When he's blowing you suck on his fingers or thumb. Watch him masturbate with your mouth open wide the entire time. Whoever is being top can do some ordering around and dirty talk. Give your bf a shower, a hand or foot massage. Suck him to sleep some nights.

Oh my. I just gave away family secrets. Well, not all of them. ;) (Like the Duchess of Windsor, I'm taking the Chinese thing to my grave). I never tried it, but I was told sex therapy could help with over thinking during sex.
 
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