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trying to figure it all out

G-Lexington

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If you're good buddies, then you can talk to him. So talk to him. Ask him. Outright. "I'll be honest. I thought I had good gaydar, but with you, I just can't get a good bead. You're not gay, are you?"

Lex
 
be carefull with co-workers. Just keep as a good friend.

Real friends are hard to come by, so you may not want to cross the path into a relationship, sex. You may find the you come out to him and he will be fine with it. So testing the words slowy may be best.

I have alwways found that when it comes to co-workers, just leave it at that>> co-workers. When shit goes wrong all hell breaks loose at work.. Not a good site sometimes.
 
move on. just stay friends. don't concider a relationship or hooking up untill you two work at diffrent jobs. He seems like a textbook closet case to me so just stay good friends, trust me you don't want to mess with a closet case let alone a co worker
 
>>>We're going to some remote location next month where we'll work together for six months.

>>>I'll try the friends thing rather. It's painful but I'm hoping it will pass.

Good luck.

Lex
 
revan7 said:
All of these questions are driving me mad.
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Well, you realize that if you don't get this under control, this will end badly?
 
We're going to some remote location next month where we'll work together for six months. I heard myself say today, it doesn't matter if he's straight, the company will be great - because he is SO nice to be with and look at. But I have that inner acidity which wants that extra step and is so desperate for it. And of course I need to get over this... it's ridiculous... I can't sleep and when I do I dream about him all night. The usual infatuation thing.
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Until then, get your rest. When you are together for that much time, you'll have lots more opportunities to explore the situation. Then you can decide how to handle it. Remember my first rule about fucking co-workers though.
 
This is why I do not make friends with other men. Just in case.
 
I would not ask him if he is gay. If you want the possibility of things going further, drop a couple of hints that you are gay. Let him pick it up from there. It is possible that he is having the same feelings about you, but I think that you stand a big risk of being hurt. Good luck, bud.
 
Um... why don't you just ask him out to see a movie, or grab beers, or both? You know.... as friends. Two guys can go out for a few beers to shoot the shit, and not be sleeping with each other. Then you can ask him more personal questions like how he grew up, where, does he have a girlfriend/boyfriend, where'd he go to college.

Why would you decide to agonize over this for a few months instead? Ask him out.
 
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