Trying to figure out a friend I sucked off...

[aznchris]

I have a straight friend that I pay money to suck his cock. He's always been OK with bi/gay guys as long as they don't "push" their views on him.
Least to say he is usually in a tight spot for money, so I offered him a good amount if he'd let me the first time and less the 2nd. He was very apprehensive at first and took quite awhile to consider it, some prodding and reassuring, but finally agreed to let me do it.

He's 30, good looking kinda-bad boyish, has 2 kids and he doesn't have sex with his wife hardly at all, they argue all the time so it's a rarity anymore. The first time he hadn't done anything with her for 2 months, and the 2nd time was a month he said.

I have an Internet connected TV so I gave him the keyboard and told him to put on whatever porn he wanted. He got hard really quick as I was rubbing his dick and he blew without issue a few minutes later. Afterwards he exclaimed with a smile "My homie!" and told me my future BF would love me. And just kept kinda smiling and said wow a few times as he was leaving. A second time around he had pre cum oozing on his dick and blew pretty quick. Pretty sure he has Low T too, and I'm not sure that played a role or it was a combination of not getting off for so long and he was really excited that caused him to blow quick. What do you guys think?

Even though he's definitely straight, I told him he likes it and he knows it, but he still has this hangup it seems, keeps saying he isn't gay but it's obvious I changed his opinion of getting head from a guy. I'm not trying to change the guy, I'm basically just providing a "service" I guess. If the dude has precum on his dick and is pushing my head up and down the 2nd time, asking me how if it tastes good, etc. he must like it I'm assuming but just doesn't want to admit it. I think he is scared I'm going to tell his wife or anyone he is around if I get mad or something, despite my reassurances it is always going to stay between me and him and goes to our graves.

When we are around everyone else of course I say nothing and we act totally normal just like regular friends as it should be.

What's your guys thoughts on what's going on in his head too? Any suggestions?

 

[Ambition92]

I think you've already answered it. You provide him with good head, he likes it, but isn't willing or ready to acknowledge he might be into dudes. You're also paying him so there's that caveat as well. If you're enjoying it as much as he seems to be then just roll with it. Sounds like a win/win in that case. However, if you're really hung up and want to see if this goes past your "arrangement" maybe stop offering him money so you can blow him. If you're that good and he wants it then he won't give a shit about the payment aspect. If he comes back and insists on some sort of monetary payment then you know it's more of a business exchange.

 

[Cormac135]

He's playing you.

Good head and getting paid, shouldn't it be you getting paid for the service.

 

[Newmercedes]

He's playing you.

Good head and getting paid, shouldn't it be you getting paid for the service.

Well I don't mind to pay if He is hot. I would love to pay to play with straight guys.

 

[MusicMan321]

It sounds like you two have some fun times together but I don't think I would pay for having fun with a guy just to make him happy

 

[Pierresro]

Id never pay espeically a friend recently in on a tri in a European country . I had breakfast brought to my room by the hottest tight suited room service guy 19. I asked him as I handed him a tip of 5 euros if I write a tip do you get the whoe amount he said no pointed to a 10 an said for 10 I would do anything. I askd if hewas str8 showed me a pic of his hot GF. He sadi for 10 he would hsow me how he fucks her. Me onmy back nude him on top I came 3 times nice!

 

[Newmercedes]

Id never pay espeically a friend recently in on a tri in a European country . I had breakfast brought to my room by the hottest tight suited room service guy 19. I asked him as I handed him a tip of 5 euros if I write a tip do you get the whoe amount he said no pointed to a 10 an said for 10 I would do anything. I askd if hewas str8 showed me a pic of his hot GF. He sadi for 10 he would hsow me how he fucks her. Me onmy back nude him on top I came 3 times nice!

Damn Hot. I am jealous. I would pay him $ 20.00 or more. Did he send you the pic? Nice one?

 

[Newmercedes]

Me onmy back nude him on top I came 3 times.

- - - Updated - - -

What you were trying to say?

 

[funsicles]

I wish that I could say that I've never paid for sex, but we all have in one way, shape, form, or another! I enjoyed 14 months of mutual head with my married best friend. I swallowed constantly and sucked him back to hard, but I had to warn him whenever I was about to cum, because he's "straight, and doesn't do that gay shit."

Our demise came when he continually wanted to fuck me without allowing me to fuck him, so it was a no go.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Married besties are the best.....for all the reasons below in bold.

I enjoyed 14 months of mutual head with my married best friend. I swallowed constantly and sucked him back to hard, but I had to warn him whenever I was about to cum, because he's "straight, and doesn't do that gay shit."

... he continually wanted to fuck me without allowing me to fuck him.

 

[funsicles]

I have been out for years. One short hottie with a massive 5.5" inch cock wanted $20 to blow him. Lol ... I paid it!

 

[MoaningMike]

It sounds like he loves the "service" you offer! As long as you two enjoy each other, and nobody finds out, why stop? You love to suck and he loves to get blown, as long as you two are okay with that arrangement, keep at it.
His shooting off to quickly is not all that uncommon. Lots of guys have a short fuse, the question of why is more complicated. If he's not fucking his wife he must be jerking off like a teenager! If he's not jerking off, and you're his only outlet, he would likely be ready to blast off any second. Some guys shoot too fast because of they're nervous, while other guys who are nervous can't get hard. He might feel guilty cheating on his wife, regardless of how much they fight. One thing you shouldn't do is ask him why he cums so fast, that won't help him any.
He might be just horny as hell and wants nothing more than blow jobs. He might be bi, he might be gay. He certainly wouldn't be the first self described straight guy who is in the closet. You can only find out by talking to him....just wait a while to do it. In the meantime, keep sucking him. Instead of going right to a blow job, take your time. Hang out, have a great meal, watch a movie. Give his crotch a feel while he's fully dressed. Tease him a bit. When his cock finally gets exposed feel him with your hands. Lube him up with some oil based lube (buy some Albolene, it's the ultimate jerk off lube) and give him that best hand job he's ever had. Let him shoot off without using your mouth. Tell him you want to blow him and wait until he's hard again, however long it takes, don't rush him.
Ask him to fuck you. Tell him you really want to get fucked badly, if he wants to. Just make sure you tell him it's totally fine with you if he doesn't want to. He might be hesitant at first, but eventually all guys love to fuck. Once he finds out how superior a hot tight ass is compared to a sloppy and smelly cunt he will be hooked.
The trick with guys like this is not to rush or pressure them. If he says he never wants to do something you need to be okay with that. You don't want to lose him as a friend either, so that's where these situations can be tricky. You also better hope his wife isn't a psycho.

 

[funsicles]

Thanks for the blow job advice, but I'll take the blow job as is, but I am looking forward to tonight as is. If it's just blow jobs, so bi it. If we fuck, maybe I'll share.

 

[SidRikkart]

I'm really glad I stumbled across this thread. Maybe my perspective will help.

To be honest, I felt like a voyeur reading the op's post. I could be the straight guy, in that scenario - meaning, I completely get that the guy can compartmentalize his homosexual behavior, and resist 'joining up', as it were. I'm in a similar (but not, really) situation.

I'm lifelong straight, and married. My first sexual experience, however, was with another male my age (very brief and mutual, and I guess I was the 'top' (?) in it).

For my entire sexual maturity, I've conducted myself in a hetero way, but about halfway into it, I found my early focus shifting from my adolescent obsession with my own dick, to dicks in porn, and later to transsexuals, and more recently, cuckold-oriented and "forced bi" themed porn. Clearly, I have an impulse to be sexually involved with a dick that is not my own. Still, at this point, my arousal seems to be predicated on no faces (excepting trans and very very fem/trap sorts). However, I do love dicks penetrating everywhere, and there are at least 3 scenes that I can think of that were entirely gay, and yet I was riveted by the passion of the two of them (but mainly the dicks, and vigorous penetrating).

In summary, gay for dick, but not for two dudes fucking. Now, that makes tons of sense, right? So what we're going to do is put that right over here, in this compartment.

I think dude has a refuge in your mouth, so to speak, and he's happy to compartmentalize the experience. The only distressing thing that I hear is the quid pro quo of it - I agree with what another person said: lose that, and you'll find out whether and how much he needs the time he's with you. He may learn something, too.

Anyways. Hi everybody.

 

[jumpup2]

I know this may sound crude, but he's
1 - gay for pay
2 - literally your prostitute
3 - it's anybody's guess what's going on in his head
4 - If you're enjoying the setup, good for you and don't disrespect yourself

 

[sixthson]

You basically talked your friend into letting you do this with the added inducement of cash to seal the deal and now you want to believe he is not fully straight. This is more about you than him, don't you think?

 

[funsicles]

In college, I had a supposedly straighter than straight buddy that I would flirt with outrageously, but I always respected his boundaries. One night after bar time, he came over for a few drinks. I didn't pay him per se, but I did get billed $29.95 for 6 hours of straight porn. Lol, after I saw his raging hard-on through basketball shorts, I did earnestly offer to help him with that. It didn't take that much encouragement or cajoling ... just repeated promises to keep it between us. I only got 3 loads out of him and savored every delicious, salty drop.

It was almost a weekly thing after that, even if I wasn't out drinking at the bar; he'd stop over at midnight, 1, or 2am. Sadly, being in college, I couldn't afford that $30 porn charge every week, and thankfully, he didn't keep up the premise of being resolutely straight. The first 4 times, he'd just pop his delicious cock out of his waist band. After a month, I finally got him totally naked in my bed. He loved that I always awoke before him, and if he had morning wood, I was so there to attend to its needs.