Turned off by cum?

[thenewestguy]

I've posted a few times, but not really about my sexual capabilities and whatnot. So I'll do a bit of backstory first, lol.

I'm 19 and live in Los Angeles. In elementary school people would always tell me 'you're gay' or harass me by calling me a 'faggot,' which while hurtful, wasn't something I really put much thought into; at the time, I actively liked girls and had no intentions of being with a guy. It seemed like bullying and the like... I've been very straight 'acting' and not particularly feminine.

Towards the end of middle school/beginning of high school, I started taking more of a liking to men. It started off as 'ooh, that guy on TV is cute!' and then started working its way towards classmates and guys I would come into contact with. I would fantasize, but never initiate dates. High school was a bit of a rough time for me and it probably was in my best interest to stay single.

Now I realize that I really do like guys. I've done a few hookups and identify as a top, with the urge to bottom. I'm 6 feet tall, 165lbs, and with a 7"cut. I really enjoy topping but I have one problem...

as soon as I cum I get completely freaked out and turned off. Once I ejaculate, all thoughts about sex go out the window and I have to leave and be nowhere near my sexual partner. I'm not particularly fond of the texture of look of it, and as gross as it may sound, it makes me completely against milk or any other white foods, lol.

Is this normal? I LOVE sex. It's fun and really one of the greatest experiences, but the whole semen/cum thing ruins it by night end.

 

[icepopcola]

It's a natural reaction. There is an actual scientific reason for this. I am not a scientist or else i would explain but I think it has something to do with the hormone levels after ejaculation. I act almost the same way. Also from LA btw

 

[Audio Tech]

It's a natural reaction. There is an actual scientific reason for this. I am not a scientist or else i would explain but I think it has something to do with the hormone levels after ejaculation. I act almost the same way. Also from LA btw

I'd like to know more about that....

I'm not at all turned off by cum, but once I do cum, I'm done. I instantly loose all interest in sex. Always wondered why. Though I can be ready again in about 20 minutes. Weird....

 

[darkdreamerx]

I'd like to know more about that....

I'm not at all turned off by cum, but once I do cum, I'm done. I instantly loose all interest in sex. Always wondered why. Though I can be ready again in about 20 minutes. Weird....

I'm pretty much the exam same way, and I think its due to the expelling and use of hormones at climax.

 

[Nice Boy]

I think that reaction is pretty normal...

 

[elektrik]

I've posted a few times, but not really about my sexual capabilities and whatnot. So I'll do a bit of backstory first, lol.

I'm 19 and live in Los Angeles. In elementary school people would always tell me 'you're gay' or harass me by calling me a 'faggot,' which while hurtful, wasn't something I really put much thought into; at the time, I actively liked girls and had no intentions of being with a guy. It seemed like bullying and the like... I've been very straight 'acting' and not particularly feminine.

Towards the end of middle school/beginning of high school, I started taking more of a liking to men. It started off as 'ooh, that guy on TV is cute!' and then started working its way towards classmates and guys I would come into contact with. I would fantasize, but never initiate dates. High school was a bit of a rough time for me and it probably was in my best interest to stay single.

Now I realize that I really do like guys. I've done a few hookups and identify as a top, with the urge to bottom. I'm 6 feet tall, 165lbs, and with a 7"cut. I really enjoy topping but I have one problem...

as soon as I cum I get completely freaked out and turned off. Once I ejaculate, all thoughts about sex go out the window and I have to leave and be nowhere near my sexual partner. I'm not particularly fond of the texture of look of it, and as gross as it may sound, it makes me completely against milk or any other white foods, lol.

Is this normal? I LOVE sex. It's fun and really one of the greatest experiences, but the whole semen/cum thing ruins it by night end.

God that's crazy I'm the EXACT same way! Whenever I look at gay porn or something, the second I cum, I get disgusted by it!

 

[Seasoned]

OK, guys. You CAN train yourself out of the habit of cumming and running of you want to or have a bf that wants to be more than a cum dump. Otherwise, I think it's pretty normal to be done and want to leave. It's fine for most hook ups but not so good for an intimate relationship.

 

[62624rd]

It's normal; i am the same way.

 

[TX-Beau]

OK, it's NOT normal to "freak out" over semen and immediately have to get away from your partner.

 

[Atzesp]

OK, it's NOT normal to "freak out" over semen and immediately have to get away from your partner.

Totally agree.

What leaves me wondering more and more... Some guys don't freak when their cocks come dirty after pumping up (yeah, that's what you thought), but freak out when they touch cum. How can that be possible?

 

[Telstra]

"I'm not particularly fond of the texture of look of it, and as gross as it may sound, it makes me completely against milk or any other white foods, lol."


Maybe try to eat food that look like cum.
Drink milk and make the milk abit thinker.
Use flour to make cum porridge and mix with meat balls, vegetables and other nice ingredients .... etc.

 

[chance1]

OK, it's NOT normal to "freak out" over semen and immediately have to get away from your partner.

Whew ..... Thought it was me for a minute

 

[vforvendetta]

I lose interest in sex after cumming like most other guys, but freaked out by cum? Honestly the idea of my partner cumming while I'm bottoming is one of the BIGGEST turn-ons. I don't think that bit is normal....but to each his or her own I suppose.