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Turning straight men gay

iswallow69 said:
If a guy still claims he's 100% straight and there is no chance he might lean to women but i still think there's a chance.
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There is often a chance. With some men, there's no chance, they simply would not do it. With many who identify as straight, I suspect what holds them back is not the idea of the act itself, but of being found out. Or of how they might see themselves. Straight men (and I was one, I know) pin their entire social identity, reputation, and values on their straightness. The fear is very strong of losing that, of being labelled by others, or of betraying a self image that they've created around themselves.

This is why I straight guys need to feel they can trust you to keep their secret before they'll even contemplate taking that next step. Or they hang out at cruising areas looking for anonymous strangers, often too shy to go through with anything. I've have several straight suck-buddies who kept coming back once they know I wasn't going to publish their name and details of what happened in the local paper.
 
BiBtm64 said:
There is often a chance. With some men, there's no chance, they simply would not do it. With many who identify as straight, I suspect what holds them back is not the idea of the act itself, but of being found out. Or of how they might see themselves. Straight men (and I was one, I know) pin their entire social identity, reputation, and values on their straightness. The fear is very strong of losing that, of being labelled by others, or of betraying a self image that they've created around themselves.

This is why I straight guys need to feel they can trust you to keep their secret before they'll even contemplate taking that next step. Or they hang out at cruising areas looking for anonymous strangers, often too shy to go through with anything. I've have several straight suck-buddies who kept coming back once they know I wasn't going to publish their name and details of what happened in the local paper.
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I'm a straight older guy a would love to have a guy fuck my butt, perhaps two guys to really fill me.
 
I personally think everyone is a little gay if the opportunity is perfect. I had an older good looking neighbor, and he would eye fuck me. One time I went over to get him to suck my dick..he pulled down his shorts and showed his big white cock. I just got on my knees and started blowing him. Eventually we went to the bed and he bent me over and fucked me. Like fucked me gay. Pounded me and dominated.

Obviously I went back for more. One time my then ex girlfriend showed up unexpectedly knocking but I was one floor below swallowing cum :)
 
Jaimee Adele said:
Hi guys! I wanted to confess that I absolutely love being responsible for seducing a straight man, and permanently turning him gay! Is it wrong to love this so much?? Tell me if I’m a good girl, or a bad girl, and why!!
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Would love to hear all about that
 
Please, would someone fist me, truly straight guy. I SIMPLY LOOVE LOVE and have Gigantic buttgasms.
 
Jaimee Adele said:
Hi guys! I wanted to confess that I absolutely love being responsible for seducing a straight man, and permanently turning him gay! Is it wrong to love this so much?? Tell me if I’m a good girl, or a bad girl, and why!!
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Once converted to gay can a straight dude convert back to straight.
 
Tscoocho said:
Once converted to gay can a straight dude convert back to straight.
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I don't think so, and why would he want to. He might identify as straight, and then find he's discovering what his attractions are really about, doesn't mean he was converted. , If he has good experiences with men that affirm his gayness, or bisexuality, he might not want to turn back. He might feel shame of confusion about what he's doing, maybe from internalised homophobia or societal conditioning, then he might try to put his feelings aside and go back to women, but the feelings and experiences will still remain. Sexuality is a scale for many, even fluid over time.

Are you asking this out of your own experiences or what you be considering trying out?
 
I’m not sure how that happens. If the so-called straight guy wants to do things with another guy, is he really straight? He may want to hide it from others that don’t know what his true desires are as far as his business life or circle of friends. But, I don’t think you can call yourself straight if you have sex with another guy. You may be bi, or you may be gay and running from it.

I know many here are tired of my story. But, there has to be others in my situation. I’ve always portrayed myself as straight and used to have straight sex. So, I lived in that world and hid my true desires. I really wanted to have sex with guys. I just didn’t want others to know.

Over time I’ve completely changed my thought process as far as what others will think of me. I’ve yet to have sex with a guy, but I am gay. That realization took time to wrestle with and finally admit.

I’m not saying that some guys can’t be curious without being gay. I guess bi is a real thing too. But, if you are having gay sex with someone, you are not straight. You may choose to hide it and live your life as a straight guy, or be in the closet.

I’ve been in the closet forever and now I’m out of that closet, kinda. It’s taken me way too long to find a guy to have sex with. But, I’m not fooling myself anymore to please others around me. My situation is obviously different in that I know I’m gay and I’m finally open and honest with myself enough to say it. A lot of guys just live in denial as I did for a long time.

I’m not willing to stay there anymore. I’m a gay man with no experience. I’m working on changing that to experienced. Because living in denial is not healthy in the long run. Once I do, I’m not going back.

Sorry to bore some of you over and over. I’m coming…
 
firsttimeagain said:
I’m not sure how that happens. If the so-called straight guy wants to do things with another guy, is he really straight? He may want to hide it from others that don’t know what his true desires are as far as his business life or circle of friends. But, I don’t think you can call yourself straight if you have sex with another guy. You may be bi, or you may be gay and running from it.

I know many here are tired of my story. But, there has to be others in my situation. I’ve always portrayed myself as straight and used to have straight sex. So, I lived in that world and hid my true desires. I really wanted to have sex with guys. I just didn’t want others to know.

Over time I’ve completely changed my thought process as far as what others will think of me. I’ve yet to have sex with a guy, but I am gay. That realization took time to wrestle with and finally admit.

I’m not saying that some guys can’t be curious without being gay. I guess bi is a real thing too. But, if you are having gay sex with someone, you are not straight. You may choose to hide it and live your life as a straight guy, or be in the closet.

I’ve been in the closet forever and now I’m out of that closet, kinda. It’s taken me way too long to find a guy to have sex with. But, I’m not fooling myself anymore to please others around me. My situation is obviously different in that I know I’m gay and I’m finally open and honest with myself enough to say it. A lot of guys just live in denial as I did for a long time.

I’m not willing to stay there anymore. I’m a gay man with no experience. I’m working on changing that to experienced. Because living in denial is not healthy in the long run. Once I do, I’m not going back.

Sorry to bore some of you over and over. I’m coming…
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You are not the only one. We are many.
 
I dont think someone turned me gay, I turned myself. Or, rather, removed my denial. It took about two years, and I sometimes stop myself and just take in how things have changed lately. Two years ago all my sex partners after I was 18 had been women. But last Thursday I was at a gay cinema, sitting naked in a chair in a cabin with a gloryhole on each side of me. I had closed the hatches as I was watching a gay porn vid for buildup. Some men in the booths beside med tried to open the hatches. After a while I opened them and I saw a guy watching me through one if the gloryholes. He was jacking off like I was. When he made a move towards the hole I grabbed his cock as I was jacking off too. I stroke both of us, I cum first and he withdrew and cum a min later. He got out quickly but I stayed and just felt amazing. When I came here to this forum I had no experience with men. Now I do and I m never going back.
 
I am gay but to be honest I don't like labels. But I have a hard time believing some of these "straight" guys are straight to begin with. I love flirting with men period, gay or straight. Yea babe you want to kiss me, suck me, fuck me, cum inside me? and your straight? Total denial.
 
tabby82 said:
I am gay but to be honest I don't like labels. But I have a hard time believing some of these "straight" guys are straight to begin with. I love flirting with men period, gay or straight. Yea babe you want to kiss me, suck me, fuck me, cum inside me? and your straight? Total denial.
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I agree. Total denial. You are not straight if you are thinking about it or doing it with another guy. You are bi or gay. I guess I was in denial, or. I just didn’t want others to know. So I eep it to myself. Now that I finally said to myself I am gay it’s incredibly exciting. I finally said I want to kiss a guy passionately and share all f those things. I’ve always wanted it. Suck cock fuck a tight ass and cum inside and I’ve always wanted it both ways. Yeah that’s not straight. I can’t believe it took me so long to start the coming out process. If it’s all I want then I’m just fooling myself trying to hide it.

Some might be bi, but not me. I’m all in. I’ve turned down sex with women years ago, even in the heat of the moment decided I didn’t want to. And didn’t. Only slept together but didn’t do anything. That happened more than once. Later on I looked back at that part of my journey and realized a straight guy would not have do that.

I found out that I preferred playing with my cock and fantasizing about being with another guy. Even playing with toys fucking myself was more satisfying. Yea a straight guy doesn't think like that. At least I’m honest with myself now. So, when I do it all with a guy, I’m never going to say I am straight. I’m probably going to say, why did I wait so long? Why did I hide it and why did I struggle so long admitting it?
 
Well it's not easy, we are all on different journeys in life. I agree it's exciting, I think the word I would use is empowering. Give me a tall, handsome 100 percent gay guy over straight anyday. I have been there too (slept with guys who say they are straight and married, after the fact) and I know some gay guys get off on it. I don't find it attractive, I just like men. But you want to be real and no BS then stay away from these "straight" guys x
 
I have not taken much notice when I had guys say they are straight. I still get what I want and I let my cock sucking do the talking. You won't want to be straight when I finish with you😊
 
sisgaz said:
I have not taken much notice when I had guys say they are straight. I still get what I want and I let my cock sucking do the talking. You won't want to be straight when I finish with you😊
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This has happened to me, and I think it's pretty sad when a guy says he's straight when he has his cock out, and hard, and is about to get it sucked. I think "yeah whatever dude". Who's he trying to convince, and who cares? It's only a blowjob. He's about to have fun, and so am I.
 
I don't care how a guy identifies, straight, bi or gay - I'm satisfying his needs and getting some fun from it, not trying to change his life.

I think to myself "yeah sure dude, you're straight... when I've finished and swallowed your load, you can go back to your wife who won't suck your dick", lol.
 
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