Ug! Conflicted

[lambdaboy]

Do what I did after being married a 8 years and having 2 boys. Gwet a hair in your ass comeout to her het a divorce so she can live her life and you yours. To have inprotected sex with anyone male or female and chance infecting your partner is disgustingly selfish.

By the way my sons are str8 as arrows and my partner and I both get Fathers day cards and are called dad

 

[spunk-junky]

Doesn't matter if you are into girls, guys or both. If your marriage sucks, get out of it. You are cheating on your wife and nobody deserves that.

 

[bananas15]

Agree with the guys above. It sounds like you and your wife clearly aren't even happy together to begin with (you have sex to keep her happy? It's usually the other way around! ) It sounds like your burgeoning appreciation and attraction towards other men needs to be explored and it's not fair that you do that while she's in your life. Either explain to her the situation and hope like Hell that she allows you to explore this side of your curiosity (while being completely safe!), or just seek a divorce. Either way, she needs to live her life without this happening behind her back.

 

[Asenath]

Be honest & open, or break up. You may not be able to help who you're attracted to, but you can always prevent being a cheating bum.

 

[cocksucker4use]

JEEZ, a lot of judges in here! The Supreme Court of fuckin around, and the verdict is GUILTY! To the question at hand: A lot of guys, gay or straight or bi are not into connecting the way you're thinking. You may actually hook up with these five (prolly at least two of them are not single, one way or the other, as well), and not see four, or even five of them again. Any chance of hookin up with a similarly situated guy and explore your deal before you pull the plug on your marriage? How do you honestly think your wife would react to your exploration? If you fuck her to make her happy, and you don't get alot out of it, you prolly should cut her loose. In any event, I wouldn't base my decision on the remarks of some of the boy scouts here.

 

[Curiosity69]

IF you don't see your relationship with your wife repairing then just end it. Cheating on her is extremely rude and cruel. Finish that relationship before you start getting with other people.

If you end it with her then she will no longer have any right to know about your personal life anyway, so she'll likely never find out you get with guys after her.

Don't do anything while you're still married to her, it's just wrong.

 

[bananas15]

JEEZ, a lot of judges in here! The Supreme Court of fuckin around, and the verdict is GUILTY! To the question at hand: A lot of guys, gay or straight or bi are not into connecting the way you're thinking. You may actually hook up with these five (prolly at least two of them are not single, one way or the other, as well), and not see four, or even five of them again. Any chance of hookin up with a similarly situated guy and explore your deal before you pull the plug on your marriage? How do you honestly think your wife would react to your exploration? If you fuck her to make her happy, and you don't get alot out of it, you prolly should cut her loose. In any event, I wouldn't base my decision on the remarks of some of the boy scouts here.

Says the gay guy in an open relationship. Sorry, but some of us "boy scouts" have some morals when it comes to fucking around on the woman we pledged to spend the rest of our lives with.