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toywifme

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the thing is, i'll be moving away from my state to study in another state. and the guy that i like, says that we can't start a relationship because of this.

i try to assure him that we could, but i think it's the trust between us that complicates things. I've always had my eyes on him, and on new year's eve, he's proven that he has the hots for me too.

we were at our local mall when they did the countdown, and after the countdown, he dragged me to the toilet and we went into a cubicle (is that what you call it?) together. he wanted to give me a kiss, but before that, i asked if he really liked me, and he said yes.

i was overwhelmed, and we kissed after i asked him to confirm that statement. :D

but after that kiss, and after he confessed, when we left for home saperately, he told me that we should not start a relationship. :( all because i'm moving away to study.

is there any way to prove to him that we can start a relationship? or am i being too selfish:confused:
 
Too selfish. All you did was kiss.
 
I would not say you were selfish. You need to be friends first before you can start a relationship however!

You do not say when your going to school out of state. Depending on the amount of time between now and when you leave you could work on your friendship together.

Can't is not a word I like. Two people can have an open mind and make things happen. Distance does make it harder, but it is doable if both people WANT IT TO!

Life is to short NOT to THINK of the POSSIBILITIES rather than the impossible!
 
we're friends, for about 4 years now. he confuses me with his actions and words, till i'm really uncertain of the messages that he's sending.
 
I have that same problem as well. Im studying far away (halfway across the world!!) and thats the reason im not getting into a relationship now.

I can easily understand his pov why he doesnt want to start one though. If you are leaving in a month or two for a long period of time, he probably doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship or rather make the effort to do so.
 
It is very difficult to create a relationship that will start out being long distance.

Obviously I don't know the situation very well but I don't blame him for not being interested.
 
toywifme said:
we're friends, for about 4 years now. he confuses me with his actions and words, till i'm really uncertain of the messages that he's sending.
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you've known each other for four years, you do not understand him, and you've had one kiss

I don't think you two could have a relationship if you stayed there and I don't mean that in a negative way - it's simply just not happening

and you are going away - you have so much living to do - go live it - go and enjoy all he possibilities - if by some chance you and this dude are meant to be together, it will happen after you both live and experience apart from each other - if you were to be "in a relationship" while you are away you'd be never trusting him and never understanding his texts anyway - so just so and enjoy and experience and forget the trying to tie things down that cannot be tied
 
thanks for the advice guys. really appreciate it. i understand know.:(
 
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