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uncomfortable eye contact

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I hate eye contact for some reason, but I get it and don't know what to do. I like to wear sunglasses when I can, so I don't have to worry about it. Anytime someone catches my eye, I get confused.

I don't get out much and the most uncomfortable is at home. I lock eyes with my teenage nieces a lot. I don't want to give the wrong impression to them, but I don't know what it is, I can't stop looking.

If I check out a guy on the street and he sees me, I look away, but then I look again and try not to be too obvious.

I don't know, eye contact is just intimidating and I don't like it. But I can't stop it. I avoid talking to some people because I don't want to make eye contact.
 
i love eye contacT! always make it with hot guys on the street. most of the time they have friendly eyes even if they're straight.
 
im kinda drunk but....

just feel comfortable with yourself. coming out helps. i think i had this feeling once but it's just paranoia, just forget about it and make eye contact during or before talking

hope this helps..
 
It depends on the type of eye contact. Eye contact with my boyfriend makes my dick jump. Eye contact with a hot guy when i'm walking or driving is fun, i just don't act on it now. When i was single, and the guy looked friendly, i would go up to him smiling and start a conversation. It's pretty easy to know if a guy is gay from eye contact, staright guys won't have the same response. You'll know it when it happens! Then there is the uncomfortable type of eye contact. A lingering glance from Charles Manson would fall into this category.
 
You can't control another person's eyes. You can only control your own.

If you're getting the eye, I've found the best thing to do is to meet his gaze, smile a bit, and then look away. This seems to say, "Hi. I've noticed you're looking at me. It's cool." Staring back intently can be interpreted as a rather hostile thing, and even if you're smiling, it can look more threatening than appreciative. (Of course, that might be what you're going for!)

As I've said in roughly 187 other threads, I'm very much NOT a visual person. As such, I tend not to eye anybody for any reason. When I'm talking to someone, I have the worst time making eye contact. I usually end up turning my head somewhat to the side and looking at them...well, not exactly out of the "corner" of my eye, but let's say "at an angle". This seems to work for me, for some reason. I've since heard that it weirds a couple people out. Sorry.

Lex
 
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