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Unfortunate Attraction to a Hookup

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Last night (or rather very early this morning) I had a hookup with a very cute latino guy from Boston, who was here in Dallas visiting family near where I live.

Anyway, after we 'met' and went our seperate ways, I find myself constantly thinking about him - the guy had a great personality, intelligence, and a very good looking guy.

Anway, is it normal to feel something like this or am I just flat out weird?
 
I'd say you're normal. Hooking up was never my thing, i always want seconds. And thirds, fourths....well, i have needs! The way i see it, there had to have been an attraction to him in the first place to make me want to bed him.
It has to be more than just a pretty face or a big boner, i would'nt be interested in an obvious asshole. And if the hookup went well, who would'nt want more? Maybe even a relationship? Who knows. Of course, if the hookup was lousy, then i'm glad i won't have to see him again!
 
Men are a lot like busses... if you miss one, there'll be another one before long...
 
you're totally normal. I normally chat them up first to vet them, so I don't end up with a wacko. Sometimes I get really nice guys. But I try to be pragmatic. Don't want your heart broken too often!
 
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you're totally normal. I normally chat them up first to vet them, so I don't end up with a wacko. Sometimes I get really nice guys. But I try to be pragmatic. Don't want your heart broken too often!
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Well, he was very nice - we had a conversation (in brevity) before and after our 'meeting'.

But I miss him now.
 
Zildjian said:
Well, he was very nice - we had a conversation (in brevity) before and after our 'meeting'.

But I miss him now.
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Well, if you don't have any contact info, you have no choice but to let it go. Look for other hookups. Try going to a hookup/chat site so that you can develop (at least minimal) relationships with local guys who might just be fuckbuddies or might develop into something more.

But if you go on craigslist or some other site where everything is completely anonymous, you will break your heart over and over again. Don't go there.
 
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