Unprotected sex with my boyfriend.

[Appleman34]

Just a quick question...

So I'm a virgin, but my boyfriend is not. However, he's gotten tested and he's completely clean. I don't see a problem with not wearing a condom, but would you suggest I still wear one ?

 

[altlover85]

Just a quick question...

So I'm a virgin, but my boyfriend is not. However, he's gotten tested and he's completely clean. I don't see a problem with not wearing a condom, but would you suggest I still wear one ?

Unless you were with him when he went to get his results and/or you've been together for a while, I would use protection.

 

[Appleman34]

We've actually already had sex (I was a virgin until I had sex with him) and didn't use one, I'm just thinking that wasn't smart.

On the other hand, my boyfriend is very very smart about sex and is always talking about how he always uses a condom... especially if the other guy isn't his partner. He even wanted to use one with me, but I said we didn't need it and he only agreed because I was a virgin and we have been together for a while.

I trust and love him, but I think I'll wear one from now on just so I don't have to worry.

 

[Appleman34]

Unless you were with him when he went to get his results and/or you've been together for a while, I would use protection.

We've actually already had sex (I was a virgin until I had sex with him) and didn't use one, I'm just thinking that wasn't smart.

On the other hand, my boyfriend is very very smart about sex and is always talking about how he always uses a condom... especially if the other guy isn't his boyfriend. He even wanted to use one with me, but I said we didn't need it and he only agreed because I was a virgin and we have been together for a while.

I trust and love him, but I think I'll wear one from now on just so I don't have to worry.

 

[tonyboy]

Just a quick question...

So I'm a virgin, but my boyfriend is not. However, he's gotten tested and he's completely clean. I don't see a problem with not wearing a condom, but would you suggest I still wear one ?

Guys can have sex with out fucking... Sucking dick, mutual jack off.. stuff like that..
That does not require a condom... even rimming is pretty safe..
If you want to do anal sex use a condom... but know that there are many other ways to have sex that don't require a condom... it's up to you.
But trust no one.. He says he's clean.. well he may say so.. but how do you know?

 

[mbamike]

It takes about six weeks for the HIV antibodies to show up in a blood screen. So, a guy can test negative, but be positive.

Both of you should go get tested now and again in three months. If all tests are negative, then be thankful and learn from this experience.

 

[EphGuy]

at some point trust has to kick in. If you don't feel like you can take him at his word, you probably need to find a new boyfriend.

Requesting that you witness his test results is . . . way over the top. if a guy pulled that on me, i'd show him the door!

 

[M4P]

It takes 6 months to know 99.99% for sure you are negative - so that means the test needs to be done now, both of you have to be 100% monogamous and then get tested again in 6 months

Bottom line...wrap that rascal otherwise you're taking a risk

 

[NewStart]

Unless youre 100% committed over the long term, and you've had several months to test that commitment, I'd go with the condom.

 

[nafhoosier]

at some point trust has to kick in. If you don't feel like you can take him at his word, you probably need to find a new boyfriend.

Requesting that you witness his test results is . . . way over the top. if a guy pulled that on me, i'd show him the door!

....And I'd walk right through it.

HIV is an incredibly serious disease that isn't worth any risk to me.

Yes, I'd be cautious.

Use the condom until your truly committed and in a monogamous relationship.