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First off just want to sorry about this post, it’s more of a rant than anything and just feel the need to get things off my chest…
I’ve been seeing this guy for 11months now, and for the past 3months it’s been a long distance relationship. For the first 2months of the three things between us seemed good, we both missed each other and made an effort to talk at least every other day but it always ended up being every day. We got to see each other pretty frequently so all was good. But in the past month to 6weeks things have seemed different. We don’t talk as much, he doesn’t reply to my texts, he no longer says “I love you” etc and it’s beginning to hurt. We just spoke on the phone for two hours talking about the relationship and what came out of the conversation is that he can’t say he loves me because he no longer does in the same way. He can’t even explain why he no longer loves me in the same way, or even what it means.
Now I just don’t know what to do. I love him more than anything, and had every intention of spending my life with him etc, but now I just don’t know. Am I being unreasonable? Is it wrong that if things don’t get better soon then even I will begin to lose feelings and any hope of a future with him? I feel like I’m trying but it’s now beginning to hurt.
Grrrrr long distance sure blows =(

p.s. sorry and the whiney nature. Just needed to vent somewhere
 
Is this long distance thing a permanent thing? Or are you eventually going to be back in the same town together?

Lex
 
there's nothing certain at the moment. it will all depend on whether i can get a job in the area that he's living, and sadly the chances of that aren't high.
 
Well, then, to be brutally honest, I wouldn't knock myself out looking for a job in his area.

He may have found someone else, and this is his way of letting you down easy. That's not certain, but it IS possible. But it would appear the relationship is now his to make or break. Ask him if he has any interest in attempting to rekindle the romance. My guess is that he doesn't, and that'll be your answer.

Sorry. (*8*)

Lex
 
emboi,

I think Lex has read the situation well. I too wish you the best and urge you to move on and find someone closer that you can love and in which a real relationship can develop.

Best of luck, and please do celebrate your life

Rand
 
well i took the advice and talked to him about everything...turns out he was drunk when i spoke to him last night. but talking to him today we got through a lot. he assures me that there is no-one else and that he still wants to be me with me; it's the distance that's bothering him. we've agreed to now just take things as they come and to try and see each other a bit more. so fingers crossed =)

cheers for the advice guys, it helped. i doubt i would have asked him this stuff if i hadn't been encouraged to

thanks again *hugs*
 
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