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I am a little nervous because this is my first time posting. I am a college student and I know that I am bisexual. There is this guy that I have known for several years, and he is gay but I think I may be developing feelings for him. This is weird for me because I have never felt an emotional connection to a man before. Prior to now and still continuing, I have emotional feelings for women. The only thing is that most of the people I meet do not believe in bisexuality and say that it is a phase. I am unsure how he will react and I am not sure if I can tell him because I have not told anyone that I am bisexual. Being completely honest, I don't think that I have the strength or courage now to be open and fully comfortable with it. So I don't know if I should tell him or not?

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fates17, If he is truly a friend, tell him what you've told us.
 
I am just a little anxious because I don't think he knows that I am bi.
 
Welcome to JUB. This is a great place to get support. We really do care about you!

I'd say talk to your friend first as a friend. Ask him about HIS experience and how he "figured out" his feelings. If he feels comfortable talking to you about his experiences, that's your cue to share yours. And I'll bet you'll find out that he's very sensitive to your situation.

Let us know how you're doing. And don't forget to study, too ;)
 
First, Welcome to the posting portion of the JUB Experience.

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Okay now...

Your friend is Gay, This you know as incontrovertible fact?
You're BI. Same Question.

Now, as to liking who/what and Bi being something you grow out of.

I can only offer you my experience and let you make up your own mind.

1. I have children older than you.
2. My penis has a mind of its own...the right guy or girl and it is going to
do what it wants to do.
3. I have claimed bi for almost ever.
4. Str8, Gay, Les, Bi are just words that indicate a preference...

Example, You have a Steak (SEX) on the grill...

Some people are going towant theirs...
rare, medium, well or some combination.
Maybe even a couple will be Vegetarians...
all think their way is the best way.

Its your steak man...

Cook it your way or
try others til you find what you like.

Now, about your friend...
TALK...
Tell him you have some inner conflicts and
you respect him so would like benefit of his counsel...
it is not as tough to do as it sounds,
the first step is the tough one.

BTW, Its been many years and I haven't grown out of the phase yet.

again, welcome...come play, a few bite...but most JUBBERS just gum:badgrin:
 
Unless you are pre-planning on cheating on him, being Bi shouldn't be an issue.

I'm not Bi, but when I'm in a relationship, yes, there are other guys I'm attracted to (in your case, women as well) - does that mean you will ACT on it???

Hopefully not!!!!

Having other attractions has no basis on how YOU act while within the relationship you've committed yourself to, be it with a male or a female.

( I had all this explained to me by a very wise Bi-guy recently, and it made a LOT of sense - I just hope I described it as well as he did.)
 
Thank you for the support and thanks for all of the advice. I really do appreciate it!
 
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