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Valentines Day... alone.

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I just texted the only friend I have left (who is single).... I asked him out for Valentines Day.

He said he will 'THINK about it'

whatever the fuck that means.

I am so sad of being alone. I think that I will end it all if I am alone one more holiday.

Life sucks so bad when you are alone. REALLY alone. I wouldn't wish this life on anyone soul, thru out eternity.

I don't know what I am doing wrong. But I must not know the 'social secret' that all the other fags in so. cal. know.

I am going to be 25 this year.

Never been in a relationship. Not a real one. life just sux.

Can anybody tell me what the fuckin secret is.
please?
 
I'm 22 and have never had physical contact with another human being in my life :D

You're not alone
 
What you need to do is become proactive in seeking out new friends. Find gay groups with interests similar to your. For example, I belong to an outdoors group. I have met many very good friends through the group. Many of the guys in the group are in relationships with other guys they met in the group. Once you develop more gay friends, your chances for relationship will be greatly increased.
 
Homie I know what your feelin, I have been alone for every V dayfor as long as I remember. Yeah it sucks, but you know what? It's all gravy, relationships are overrated and such a hassle anyway. I bet you'll find that when you start focusing on your self and what you like to do, you'll be much happier and who knows you may bump into someone that'll like the same shit you do. Good luck and keep doin you.
 
LuckyK87 said:
Homie I know what your feelin, I have been alone for every V dayfor as long as I remember. Yeah it sucks, but you know what? It's all gravy, relationships are overrated and such a hassle anyway. I bet you'll find that when you start focusing on your self and what you like to do, you'll be much happier and who knows you may bump into someone that'll like the same shit you do. Good luck and keep doin you.
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thanks LuckyK87
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Sorry for being blunt, but you have to like yourself first. Screw eveyone else. When you think you need someone because it's a holiday, then you're forcing the situation.

I've been with my partner for 18 years. We don't do anything for these ridiculous holidays. And that doesn't mean we love each other any less. We realized a long time ago, you have to love someone for whom they are.

Once you get the confidence in yoruself, it will show and the whole world will open up to you.

You can't go around being a victim. Take charge; be true to yourself, and everything else will fall in place.
 
Rimmer said:
Sorry for being blunt, but you have to like yourself first. Screw eveyone else. When you think you need someone because it's a holiday, then you're forcing the situation.

I've been with my partner for 18 years. We don't do anything for these ridiculous holidays. And that doesn't mean we love each other any less. We realized a long time ago, you have to love someone for whom they are.

Once you get the confidence in yoruself, it will show and the whole world will open up to you.

You can't go around being a victim. Take charge; be true to yourself, and everything else will fall in place.
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I don't know why you think that I don't love myself... but I do!
Good advice tho. I hope others will take it to heart.
nice screen name btw
 
Don't give up. At 50, I finally met someone, and without going into a lot of detail, who is spending St. Valentine's day with his ex-wife (anniversary of their first date) and his kids, leaving me alone. Don't sweat the date on the calendar - enjoy the days you have together. You have your whole life ahead of you:D
 
On Valentines day be prepared to break out the champagne and start the campaign! I'm planning to attend a "grown and sexy," elegant dress-up event for Valentines--where you don't need a valentine to get through the door! You only require optimism and some flashy gear!
 
I finally got laid at age 25.
I finally got a boyfriend (not much of one) at age 26.
I finally got a good boyfriend at age 27.

I don't regret it at all.

You're almost certainly not going to be the only single person in your town on February 14th. Why not invite some over to your place for a "single on Valentine's Day" mini-party? Men, women, gay, straight - all welcome. :)

Lex
 
Valentines Day can be a cruel holiday for those alone, and alone-not-by-choice.

I hope your friend comes through. If not, vow to head out and not stew alone in your home. Sometimes there are bashes of sorts for Everyone Without Someone. Sometimes, just heading to a sports bar for dinner or drinks can lift you up and I guarantee you those there will be in the same boat. If you have a gay place like that, so much the better.

Good luck and hang in there. Hopefully, the day will pass quickly.
 
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