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Verbalizing in bed with my men

magicdick

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A lot of the men I make love to don't verbalize or indulge all their senses. Why? When I'm sucking cock, I tell the guy how beautful his cock is and how I love deepthroating him. When he cums in my mouth, I make sure he knows how much I love the taste of his cum. When he gives me a facial, I rub his cock all over my face and tell him, "Nice hot creamy load, baby. Keep it cumming!" When he's fucking my brains out, I TALK AND SCREAM AND MOAN NON-STOP. They love it, but many don't reciprocate. I know it's just not their style. I'm cool with that. But how can you enjoy something so deeply and not verbalize? And I use my sight and taste and touch and smell (LOVE THE SMELL OF BALLS!!!) - IT ENHANCES EVERYTHING. Just thinking out loud.

Your thoughts?
 
50% of the experience is the other person. If they enjoy guys who are verbal, then everyone gets something. If the other person isn't into the verbal stuff, then you have a dilemma. Are you there just for you or are you there for both of you?
 
Magic... I would say I am a vocal partner and my husband of 25 years is not so much. I had the same thought-stream as you expressed, and it is just a personal, individual thing, I think. I simply expressed to my partner that I appreciated hearing from him. Let me be honest, his reciprocation had some awkward moments, I am inclined to be an expressive person anyway, and at the start, my partners vocalization came across a bit forced, and stunted and occasionally, as funny. It didnt often detract from the glorious fuckery; it was and is a 'work-in-progress' you know 'cause we're always learning and growing together... Sex isn't a static venture with us. So much to explore, right?
 
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