I don't really know where to start. So. This guy who is friends with a bunch of my friends who I see everyonce in a while I think is super cute. If we're in a group together I always used to overly flirt with him and just be all googley eyed...I thought he was uncomfortable because he doesn't really talk much about his sexuality...he's totally gay, but he says he still likes girls...but it's not true. Anyways, I was mainly just playin around not really thinking much of it. One of our friends even told me to back off a little, even though she knew I was just playin around with him...other people told me he talked about how I flirt with him all the time. So I got kinda embarassed and decided to back off...and it wasn't even like I had feelings or anything, cuz I didn't expect anything to happen. So then this weekend I went to go see a show he was in. My best friends were in it too, so that's why I went. I noticed throughout the whole performance he kept on like staring at me...and then after the show he was like "did you see me do the splits?? I did them for you tonight!" ...just so you know, it was a musical and during his number he did the splits hahaha...but so I was like oh...and then we all went out to dinner and he kept on like staring at me and then after some people left he sat right next to me and was like "so how are things? tell me whats new about you" and stuff..."aren't you moving?" (I'm moving to LA in the spring) and i was like yeah...and then he goes "i'm gonna move there too! we should get dinner!" and then we just kept talking and he totally flirted back and like we swapped numbers and then i gave him a ride home and we were just totally chatting and talking about hanging out a lot and then he told me to call and text him...so I was like..what is going on?!?!? and then i hear that he has been talking about me all the time from my other friend...and so I am just way confused!!! What is this??? we usually text like twice a day. usually it's me starting the conversation. but yeah. it's just really confusing because I never thought anything would ever happen...I don't even know if I actually like him....or if he actually likes me. so i invited him to a gathering this weekend...and then my friends and i are hosting a christmas party next weekend. and i am inviting him as my guest. am i doing the right thing? I mainly want to get to know him more...I don't want to try to rush into anything because I don't even know if there is anything yet, but yeah. I tend to rush and get clingy and screw things up, and I don't want this to happen with this guy at all. I think that if there is something going on then I really want this to work!!!! What should I do??? What does it sound like to you??? I'll give some updates in the near future if anything happens!!!!!
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Very confused...but not in a bad way...
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DiverDude
Sex God
I think things are moving in a good way for you. He may not be confident enough to start a convo with you, but longs for you to send him a message so he can hear from you.
I think it's great that you are getting to know him. Those relationships that start because both of you like each other, but neither really know it are always the most fun.
I think it's great that you are getting to know him. Those relationships that start because both of you like each other, but neither really know it are always the most fun.
yeah. I mean he's a little younger than me, and we are friends, but not like super close...I'm just gonna take it slow..and hope for something good...and if there isn't any chemistry, then I will be happy to have a new friend.
SilverRRCloud
I'd rather be a Sexgod:)
Hey,
You have been flirting with him for a while, rite?
He is returning the favor. That's all.
You are kinda confused in a good way, and so, he may be, too.
You txt and talk online or something? Cool. Most people do these day.
You are starting to take him around, invite him? Great. Let's see, how this goes.
Lighten up. Take it one thing at a time. DO NOT explode the Big R-word at him right away. Enjoy your space and grant him his.
And you'll, where it all leads to.
SC
You have been flirting with him for a while, rite?
He is returning the favor. That's all.
You are kinda confused in a good way, and so, he may be, too.
You txt and talk online or something? Cool. Most people do these day.
You are starting to take him around, invite him? Great. Let's see, how this goes.
Lighten up. Take it one thing at a time. DO NOT explode the Big R-word at him right away. Enjoy your space and grant him his.
And you'll, where it all leads to.
SC
Hey 1208Rob,
I don't think you need us here...lol. The advice you have given yourself is the best around. You've got your head screwed on right buddy... thats a mature and respectful attitude that will take you a long long way in life!
Sometimes we as gay men forget that we dont have to shag every guy that bats an eyelid at us. Some of the most important people in our lives are strong friends that offer us truth, support and honesty.
Right now as you sort out what you do and don't feel and what this might be, you have shown those traits that will stand by you forever. This guy is lucky to have you around and will be lucky to have you in his life... you are not only respecting him..but yourself, with your patience and understanding.
Keep doing what your doing. Take it steady, pace yourself. If things are meant to be they'll be. If its a solid freindship thats bloody terrific. If its more then cross that bridge as you come to it. Dont rush it or force it...that only causes you to miss out on both counts.
You're in a win win here mate. And your posts tell me that you know what your doing - just beleive in yourself! Good luck!
I don't think you need us here...lol. The advice you have given yourself is the best around. You've got your head screwed on right buddy... thats a mature and respectful attitude that will take you a long long way in life!
Sometimes we as gay men forget that we dont have to shag every guy that bats an eyelid at us. Some of the most important people in our lives are strong friends that offer us truth, support and honesty.
Right now as you sort out what you do and don't feel and what this might be, you have shown those traits that will stand by you forever. This guy is lucky to have you around and will be lucky to have you in his life... you are not only respecting him..but yourself, with your patience and understanding.
Keep doing what your doing. Take it steady, pace yourself. If things are meant to be they'll be. If its a solid freindship thats bloody terrific. If its more then cross that bridge as you come to it. Dont rush it or force it...that only causes you to miss out on both counts.
You're in a win win here mate. And your posts tell me that you know what your doing - just beleive in yourself! Good luck!
Wow, thank you very much! It means a lot! Yeah, I mean, I think I would like there to be a little something, and if there is then great! But if not, I am glad to have him as a friend. Thanks again.
^ I'm guessing she meant for him to tone down the flirting.
Yeah. Our friend I guess got the impression that he was getting uncomfortable and so she told me to back off a litttle bit with the flirting...but then another friend said he wasn't uncomfortable at all...I mean I was just being goofy. He knew that. There was flirting on both parts. whatever haha.