PrettyWings
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A little lengthy. I did not want to leave out any details.
Not to worry. It is interesting - very interesting. Which is why I'm confused.
I work in retail at a woman's clothing store as a cashier. Recently, we just hired this new - very cute cashier. Let's call him Chico. Chico is very good looking, very outgoing, very charismatic, and always smiling. So on his first day, as I'm ringing on one of the registers, a manager comes over and introduces Chico and I to one another and asks me to train him for a while on the registers. I casually oblige, but of course I couldn't be happier on the inside.
and We hit it off right away.
(Just an FYI we have 5 registers and they are all side by side next to one another)
Now, where I work the staff is dominated by woman. The male to female ratio is roughly 1:5. All the girls, even some of the managers (we have a few), were like "OMG, the new guy is so cute," "Is he straight?" "OMG who is that?" blah blah blah etc. etc.
So over the next few days, I'm totally looking forward to seeing and working with him everyday. Whenever he comes in, the first thing he does is come right over to me at the register and says hi with his beautiful smile. He doesn't speak to anyone one else at the register at this time. Just me. This is like clockwork. Never changes. He routinely does this every time before going to the back to get ready for his shift - and others have noticed o_o
After he gets ready he comes to the Cashwrap (registers) gives me another "hi" and as he walks past me he always gives me a "friendly?" stroke on my arm. Pretty much rubbing it up and down. He then converses with the other cashiers. At this point I'm like okaaay that's really forward of him, but I guess we have something here. So he elects to ring right next to me and we bond throughout the day yet again. especially since he was standing very closely to me. Almost too close. I certainly didn't mind, but again, everyone else was noticing us being comfortable with each other, always talking to one another, and standing so closely. Some people have grown suspicious of him being so friendly with a gay guy. Needless to say I'm happy camper.
BUT
as he began to ring, I noticed something. He has good customer service - REALLY good customer service. He flirts with almost every customer (woman) that pays. At this point I'm like "huh?" Just confused. So I say to him "These women are something else. They are shamelessly throwing themselves at you" He just smiles and laughs. One of these girls even took his number and texted him before his shift was even over (He showed me the text)
The next day he comes, in does his routine, and when he starts his shift (next to me, of course) he tells me about his meeting with the customer who he gave his number to. I reluctantly entertained it with a smile asking where did they go, did he have fun, and ultimately did he screw her. He didn't. Thank goodness.
So fast forward throughout the week we became very close at work. Always together, always talking, I've gotten him food for lunch, he's gotten me food for lunch, exchange numbers, etc. Sometimes when I'm on my break in the backroom, he leaves the cashwrap (while other cashiers are there of course) and just comes to the back to sit and talk to me... on the clock. lol He's bad. But Again people notice.
One day he asked me what time my shift was over, in which I told him 8pm and he said "okay. I will take my break at 8". As 8 arrived I went to the back to change. I like to change before I leave work, to be comfortable. He sat at the table near the restroom and says to me "hurry up. you're worst than a woman". I forcefully laughed and didn't responded. I was a little bothered. after I was all done I walked out and he gets up and says "Sheesh, come on, woman". Call me sensitive but I was really bothered at this point. As we were leaving the store together people were literally looking at us like "woah. Something is going on." him in his tanktop and sweats and me in my t-shirt and shorts.
One of my good friends at work (cashier also) told me she thinks he likes me. I told her "no, he's straight. He's just a nice guy. A friendly guy." She insists that he's gay, but he's always telling me about the girls he used to date. And he even likes one of the girls at work. So I just don't know.
A few nights ago, I had a closing shift. Around 12:30 am he text me asking if I was still at work. I told him I had literally just left and was walking to my car. He replied "stop by my apartment. I just woke up" . When I read that I was like
. After I got the directions from him and went over, he made me tea and we pretty much talked for a couple hours before a left.
Someone please tell me if this guy is into guys and is he into me? It's hard to get a read on him. Awesome personality and very attractive.
Should I make a move next time I'm in his apartment? I really like him, pero, I don't know. Thanks.
Not to worry. It is interesting - very interesting. Which is why I'm confused.
I work in retail at a woman's clothing store as a cashier. Recently, we just hired this new - very cute cashier. Let's call him Chico. Chico is very good looking, very outgoing, very charismatic, and always smiling. So on his first day, as I'm ringing on one of the registers, a manager comes over and introduces Chico and I to one another and asks me to train him for a while on the registers. I casually oblige, but of course I couldn't be happier on the inside.
and We hit it off right away. (Just an FYI we have 5 registers and they are all side by side next to one another)
Now, where I work the staff is dominated by woman. The male to female ratio is roughly 1:5. All the girls, even some of the managers (we have a few), were like "OMG, the new guy is so cute," "Is he straight?" "OMG who is that?" blah blah blah etc. etc.
So over the next few days, I'm totally looking forward to seeing and working with him everyday. Whenever he comes in, the first thing he does is come right over to me at the register and says hi with his beautiful smile. He doesn't speak to anyone one else at the register at this time. Just me. This is like clockwork. Never changes. He routinely does this every time before going to the back to get ready for his shift - and others have noticed o_o
After he gets ready he comes to the Cashwrap (registers) gives me another "hi" and as he walks past me he always gives me a "friendly?" stroke on my arm. Pretty much rubbing it up and down. He then converses with the other cashiers. At this point I'm like okaaay that's really forward of him, but I guess we have something here. So he elects to ring right next to me and we bond throughout the day yet again. especially since he was standing very closely to me. Almost too close. I certainly didn't mind, but again, everyone else was noticing us being comfortable with each other, always talking to one another, and standing so closely. Some people have grown suspicious of him being so friendly with a gay guy. Needless to say I'm happy camper.
BUT
as he began to ring, I noticed something. He has good customer service - REALLY good customer service. He flirts with almost every customer (woman) that pays. At this point I'm like "huh?" Just confused. So I say to him "These women are something else. They are shamelessly throwing themselves at you" He just smiles and laughs. One of these girls even took his number and texted him before his shift was even over (He showed me the text
)The next day he comes, in does his routine, and when he starts his shift (next to me, of course) he tells me about his meeting with the customer who he gave his number to. I reluctantly entertained it with a smile asking where did they go, did he have fun, and ultimately did he screw her. He didn't. Thank goodness.
So fast forward throughout the week we became very close at work. Always together, always talking, I've gotten him food for lunch, he's gotten me food for lunch, exchange numbers, etc. Sometimes when I'm on my break in the backroom, he leaves the cashwrap (while other cashiers are there of course) and just comes to the back to sit and talk to me... on the clock. lol He's bad. But Again people notice.
One day he asked me what time my shift was over, in which I told him 8pm and he said "okay. I will take my break at 8". As 8 arrived I went to the back to change. I like to change before I leave work, to be comfortable. He sat at the table near the restroom and says to me "hurry up. you're worst than a woman". I forcefully laughed and didn't responded. I was a little bothered. after I was all done I walked out and he gets up and says "Sheesh, come on, woman". Call me sensitive but I was really bothered at this point. As we were leaving the store together people were literally looking at us like "woah. Something is going on." him in his tanktop and sweats and me in my t-shirt and shorts.
One of my good friends at work (cashier also) told me she thinks he likes me. I told her "no, he's straight. He's just a nice guy. A friendly guy." She insists that he's gay, but he's always telling me about the girls he used to date. And he even likes one of the girls at work. So I just don't know.
A few nights ago, I had a closing shift. Around 12:30 am he text me asking if I was still at work. I told him I had literally just left and was walking to my car. He replied "stop by my apartment. I just woke up" . When I read that I was like
. After I got the directions from him and went over, he made me tea and we pretty much talked for a couple hours before a left. Someone please tell me if this guy is into guys and is he into me? It's hard to get a read on him. Awesome personality and very attractive.
Should I make a move next time I'm in his apartment? I really like him, pero, I don't know. Thanks.
