Very Curious

[SLCBiGuy]

I don't think you need to label yourself unless you feel the need to. You sound bi to me, but who am I to judge, you know? I know how you feel though at least, I'm married and have been for about 3 years and still cannot deny my love of cock!

Just be honest with yourself and most importantly BE YOURSELF and don't worry much about what others have to think about your orientation, afterall it's nobody's business but your own.

-KJ

 

[steve621]

I have to agree. I 've been married for over 25 years. Wouldn't trade it for anything. I also don't want that kind of relationship with a man. But I cannot deny my love for cock and the male form. Love the body contact. Guess I'm just a sex addict.

 

[SLCBiGuy]

Yeah gloryholes are a big no-no at least for me. I have done the craigslist thing and have heard others getting good responses and what not. I did get a few good responses from hot yet flakey people, but for the most part it was people well beyond my age and creepy.

It really depends on your situation as far as how to go about finding a guy friend to try stuff out with. If you're attending school (high school, college, etc) see if you can find someone like-minded and whatnot.

My wife still insists I try craigslist or AdultFriendFinder if I look for a guy, cause you can really get to know each other beforehand that way. Causes less awkwardness if you aren't interested in the person.

 

[biguy732]

Buddy - before you start assigning labels to yourself, you gotta take your cock out and let it experience some things first. You can be curious - but you gotta get out and see if you can get laid first - preferably by both a man and a woman, just not at the same time Try going to a local bar to meet a woman, and then try a gay bar to meet a guy and see what happens. Craigslist, from what I have read about peoples experiences, is not a very good source for meeting people. One place that you may want to look, and I am not guaranteeing anything is www.squirt.org - it is a pretty good source for me.

Just remember this - ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM!!!!!!

 

[conrad]

Let your curiosity blossom in the most promising environment. That means: right where you are. Surely, you come into contact with other persons, both male and female and, since you are still unsure about your sexuality let it reveal itself in the normal give and take with others.

Believe me, there are others, both male and female, who are not unlike yourself. When you allow friendship to happen, you will find that friendships have a way of deepening and becoming more than just friendships. You may also find that the vibes sent your way by the other person will free you from some of your shyness. Friends find they need ways of showing their regard for each other with hugs, kissses and the like; it builds slowly sometimes and then sometimes in sudden impulsive spurts. Yes, that's the way sexual contact comes about; it has happened that way for millions over thousands of years. Do keep yourself open to it. The wonderful thing about the sex that happens this way is that it both confirms and has a way of strengthening the bond that has already come to be.
Both parties want and need it.

By the standards of this site, I am old. In my life I have had few sexual partners: three males and three females and all in long term relationships. Today I can honestly say that my journey into the fulness of my sexuality has been a happy one. I am quite happy as a married man, but I can also say of my former partners that they were persons I loved then and love still. The beauty and mystery of human sexuality is such that, if one is so inclined, one can find fulfillment on the gay side or the straight side of one's sexuality. One's relationship to one's partner is what counts, much more than the gender of the partner. Build a good relationship and the sex will happen.

 

[heat10]

I've connected w/some good guys on craigslist for just JO. It does take some time and energy, but it's been good. There are some weirdos on CL though....I think you can get a pretty good vibe from e-mail exchanges. Some people don't have the patience for e-mail exchanges, but I'd rather be safe than sorry.

 

[sensual365]

Hey there everyone, I have been a lurker here for a few months now. I am confused at this point if I am gay or if I am bi or just like cocks. I do not wish to really have a relationship with a man other than to suck a nice cock honestly. I love women, their body's are amazing and I love a nice set of tits. I am a virgin so it is hard to really say what I like more, for all I know I could be totally gay and since I haven't done anything, I can not say I don't like something.So if anyone can please tell me if I am gay, bi, or what.

Thanks

This is cool. I know exactly what you're going through. I'm a young virgin myself wondering the same thing. I recently broke up with my first girlfriend and we got close to having sex but we didn't go all the way. I mean we got really close, i got to sucking on her tits and she was grabbing me and i was CREAMING really fuckin hard!!!! We probably would've gone all the way , but we ran out of time.

So, i loved the passion, the rush, and the feeling of us on top of each other, and i know i'm gonna be a strong, fiery lovemaker and i would totally eat her out intensivele, and i'm attracted to women, but at the same time i jack off to nothing but gay porn and i love fingering my ass and experiencing the pleasures of what i could get from a guy, and i really wanna suck a dick and eat an ass.


...so i question myself a lot too, but i know i still like girls, but i think it could just be some bi-curiosity, but then again i haven't experienced anything yet.