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Hi im Danny

Im 19, throughout my life ive always fansied girls, in fact i think there hot, however over the last few years ive been having wild dreams about having Gay sex and meeting men. Ive also purchased a Dildo to experiment and i just love it.

But every night i go to sleep i just think about being fucked, then i wake up and cum, now recently ive been wanting to go to a bar and experiment and see how it goes.

I even find myself going on gay porn but the worrying thing is i dont find any man attractive, i find the large dominant men (chubby ones). As i am slim i just get alot of kicks from the thought of a large man entering me.

I dont think about fucking others just having it done to me.

The other night i was led on my bed naked while the house was empty playing with my Dildo just thinking and dreaming it was My dream man.

I dont know what it is but the thought of being dominated turns me on.

But i still have feelings very strong ones for girls.

I feel helpless and need advise please help.


TY
 
Go with what feels right...guy or gal...just so long as you're satisfied and happy!
 
Hi Danny!

Of course you are confused about these new feelings that you have... To be honest, I would not bother trying to categorise yourself by a straight, gay or bi label just yet... It doesn't really matter.

From what you have posted you do seem to be into guys. It is not easy to accept this. Also, there are many younger guys that are attracted to older or bigger men. Nothing wrong with that at all!

You are only 19 and your exact sexuality and preferences will become more clear over time. There is no rush, things will come naturally. Experiment, explore and have fun! Just be sure to be safe in whatever you do... Chose your partners (male or female) carefully and use protection.

..| Welcome to JUB ..|
 
first, i dislike the term bi sex. i consider it to be equal opportunity sexual ..|

second, a very warm (*W*)(UU)(*W*) hope jub can help you resolve any questions and show you a good time as well.
 
baxtor said:
Seriously, Senator Craig is this YOU?!?!?
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lol

OK, I didn't want to come across like that :)

What I meant to say was - Should Danny want a cock up his ass he should not just go to a bar and grab any random one, but find a guy that he likes and trusts...

Regarding the labelling comment: Just go and have fun. With time you'll find out what gives you most pleasure, so no stress...

Better?
 
Thank you very much for your advice and help so far, it has really helped to re assure me, i guess there is no right or wrong when it comes to sexuality and as you say im only 19 so ive plenty of time to find my true self =)
 
SJB69 said:
Go with what feels right...guy or gal...just so long as you're satisfied and happy!
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This could very well be the best piece of advice anyone's ever given on this subject.

I remember telling people I was bi when I first came out because I thought it was somehow more acceptable than being gay. Then a friend of mine offered to hook me up with a girl he knew and I knew right then and there that I didn't want to date a girl. And it helped my make that decision to just admit I was gay.

The reason I bring this up is because a lot of gay men go through a similar experience, using "bisexuality" to test the waters of their sexuality. Once they "graduate" to full fledged homosexuality they often look down on guys who say they are bisexual because they personalize the experience and believe that you are going through what they did and want to save you from making the same mistake. This becomes a problem when they refuse to accept that even though you like men you still like women. So you may find some guys don't react well to your being bi. But you know what, to hell with them. You do what you want, enjoy who you are attracted to, and be who you want to be. No apologies, no regrets.
 
Teeny beeny said:
Hi im Danny

I dont know what it is but the thought of being dominated turns me on.

But i still have feelings very strong ones for girls.

I feel helpless and need advise please help.
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Everyone has fantasies.

The question for you is whether you're ready to explore you fantasies in real life. Or whether you will just have fantasies.

Until you meet someone you trust- whether male, female or somewhere in between- who will help you explore those fantasies, you won't know the answer whether you're gay, straight, bisexual or just sexual.

Stop worrying about it. It will sort itself out over time.
 
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