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Virgin, about to have sex but worried.

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Hi all,

Im new here and new to everything gay.

Im a 22 year old guy and I think Ive found the perfect guy to make take this step with.

I have a big problem, Im quite obsessed with hygiene and I can be quite susceptible to illnesses (I was born very sick + weak immune system) so I have to be careful. The thing is Im a top and Hes a bottom and today we were talking about what we would do to each other when the time comes. He said he would do what ever turnd me on, he just wants to please me. The thing is, I care about him and want him to get pleasure from this as well. he likes being rimmed and I said I don't mind but i was lying. The truth is Im really scared of doing anything oral as Im teething! yep my wisdom teeth are coming out. and the gum is exposed so i'm worried about bacteria getting in and causing problems. In not even sure if i should be kissing him. Can anyone give me some advice on just how to go about this. I cant really afford a dentist right now so thats out of the question.


ive also noticed that in-dept oral hygiene information is seriously lacking on the internet. Can lack of info explain why oral infections are on the rise. please help.
 
If you are having Dental work done hold off until you are completely healed,Don't take the chance.
 
If i may add a thing or two.

1 if you and your "partner" are really into each other. Why lie? Talk, communicate, be open with your thoughts. Let him know. :)

2 anything with the mouth and cuts or wounds with anything sexual can be dangerous.

Be safe and have fun :)
 
male55746 said:
If i may add a thing or two.

1 if you and your "partner" are really into each other. Why lie? Talk, communicate, be open with your thoughts. Let him know. :)

2 anything with the mouth and cuts or wounds with anything sexual can be dangerous.

Be safe and have fun :)
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Does kissing count as sexual stuff? Sorry if its a stupid question. I did say I was a Virgin afterall. Lol
 
Quite a few germophobes anticipate that they won't be able to enjoy sex for fear of disease.

But somehow when the pants come off, these things don't seem to matter. At least until you come. :)

The only sex that doesn't come with risk of disease either involves your right hand or a webcam. Everything else has different degrees of risk but the more you know and the more informed your choices, the better prepared you will be.

The things that you would catch from kissing are pretty much the same things that you would catch being around children, being on a plane or a train or attending public schools. These are conventional respiratory illnesses that aren't sexually transmitted. Kisses doesn't really show up on the radar for STDs.

The real issue here is that you haven't been honest with this guy. It sounds like there's been a lot of "I want you to fuck me" kind of discussion but not a lot of emotional honesty about "I'm not experienced, I'm nervous about this and I want to take it slow". And if you have these anxieties, why don't you just ask him if he's been tested and offer to go get tested together before the clothes come off and the judgment goes out the door?
 
KaraBulut said:
Quite a few germophobes anticipate that they won't be able to enjoy sex for fear of disease.

But somehow when the pants come off, these things don't seem to matter. At least until you come. :)

The only sex that doesn't come with risk of disease either involves your right hand or a webcam. Everything else has different degrees of risk but the more you know and the more informed your choices, the better prepared you will be.

The things that you would catch from kissing are pretty much the same things that you would catch being around children, being on a plane or a train or attending public schools. These are conventional respiratory illnesses that aren't sexually transmitted. Kisses doesn't really show up on the radar for STDs.

The real issue here is that you haven't been honest with this guy. It sounds like there's been a lot of "I want you to fuck me" kind of discussion but not a lot of emotional honesty about "I'm not experienced, I'm nervous about this and I want to take it slow". And if you have these anxieties, why don't you just ask him if he's been tested and offer to go get tested together before the clothes come off and the judgment goes out the door?
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Hi, thank everyone for the replies first off.

Why should I get tested? But it doesn't matter as we've already discussed everything you said above.

Yeah we've said straight from the get go that we are going to take things slow. No sex until at least the 4th date. Lol The emotional connection will indeed happen. Plus, I'm a bit OCD so jumping into bed with anyone is not my thing. We only discussed sex once and that was on the phone. I wasn't worried about catching STDs from kissing, I was more concerned about stuff like gingivitis or other infections such as mono, herpes etc that can be passed from kissing.
 
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