Virgin : Feeling of being fucked/fucking

[volumee]

Sup.. 19yo virgin here!

I'm not sure where this thread is soppose to belong under what category but I picked the best that sorta matches..
Anyways i'm a 19yo virgin, going to have sex the first time with a guy hehe
We're going to do everything except for rimming. I'm more versatile then my partner is.. he's only willing to top but he thinks the chemistry we have he's willing to bottom for me
Okay so my question is since im a virgin.. non experience - no oral or anything! I want to know what's it like being fucked? Watching my gay porn/ straight porn I see the bottom always screams and moans so loudly it seems to me it hurts like fuck! But then they also say "oh yeah, fuck me, oooh" so which is it? Is it soppose to hurt or pleasure? I always thought its only pleasurable to the top person
So please answer ps : I fingered myself.. it doesn't really feel like anything really.. it doesn't hurt either but it doesn't feel like anything; it only feels good when i'm about to cum. I also placed my huge highlighter inside, it hurt a bit but again I didn't feel any pleasure maybe it's cause it was hard to move back and forth? I really want to know how it feels so please don't tell me tojust wait and see
Second question, I want to know what's it like to fuck? Is it easy slipping the cock into the ass? Is it the same feeling as jacking off solo? Or better? How is it better?

and third.. which is better being top or bottom? or they both feel good?

thankyou!

 

[3x3is9]

Personally, top and bottom both feel good, but there's no other feeling in this world like getting off to being bottomed. I would suggest if you want to know how it feels (without actually having sex), then experiment more by yourself. I suspect you have been trying just to feel what it's like to have something in your asshole, but it's really the movement, and where it rubs against, that causes the pleasure, at least for me; it's different for everyone.

As for the pain/pleasure... it does hurt at first, but eventually the feelings of pain give way to the feelings of pleasure and it does feel good.

As for the feeling of topping... it's not always easy to actually slip your cock inside, haha, which is kinda awkward sometimes. It's definitely not the same feeling as jacking off solo, that is for sure. Sometimes it's better, sometimes not, depends on the person and the mood. How it's different, well, it's a different sort of pressure, and it's warmer, and... hmm... you know how the feeling of a hug just feels good because you're touching someone else... kinda the same.

Have fun, and be safe!

 

[Maccabee]

I'm also a virgin and curious too about the feeling.
Yesterday I experimented with putting a finger inside, but it didn't go very natural. Perhaps I should get accustomed to the feeling that it's not only an exit.

But I wonder, what do you guys do when slipping in the cock isn't working that well?

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>But I wonder, what do you guys do when slipping in the cock isn't working that well?

You slow down. You make out with the guy some more, relax him some more, open the hole up a bit more, and try again.

Lex

 

[KaraBulut]

volumee:

If you are ready to become sexually active, then congratulations and be safe.

The screaming and moaning and carrying on in porn films is done for effect for the most part. Every now and then you run into someone who screams like that but the average sexual partner is vocal- just not THAT vocal.

Most people (girls or guys) your age have trouble bottoming at first. This is not unusual. The anal muscles have to be trained to relax- just like any muscle. If you find that you have trouble at first, you might consider buying a reasonably sized sex toy and working with it. It gets easier with time.

First time experiences are a toss-up. I have heard many people say their first time was terrible. I have heard many people say that they got drunk, got it over with and don't really remember much about it. Other people say that their first time was good and that it only got better after that.

Personally, I think the most important thing is to have your first time with someone who is patient and who you can trust to go at your pace.

My advice to you is to remember that there are a lot of reasons to have sex. Among the best of the reasons is to enjoy the feeling of being with another person, to communicate something you are feeling at the moment and to just have fun.

Let us know how it goes.

 

[billybob109]

you will know what it feels like when you have a nice dick in your ass and you will then decide wheter to scream fuck me or moan lol. But if you are the guy in your avatar your partner is a lucky man!

 

[Gooey45]

volumee i was a virgin until today . Your not gonna like the first time they put it in unless uve put things in there already.It eels like you have to take a shit but nothing comes out i ran out the room lol.When i checked my butthole was bleeding >< which is a pain but it tears the skin bad.

Im not gonna try it for a while im gonna take my time.
My mate said that you have to go slow real slow at first.Really slow gotta watch what lubricant you use etc..youll know if its your thing or not the first time you try it just let him lead the way and relax.

 

[Invidious]

Well it has already been said, but using a reasonable sized Dildo to practice can make a huge difference. You almost have to get your ass used to having something up there.

 

[tallguy297]

Hey Volumee,

I'm not gonna tell you what it feels like... you'll find that out for yourself and chances are that feeling will be unique to you anyway. Suffice to say that plenty of guys love it so that sorta speaks for it self hey....

What I will say is this (because some replies here make me shudder and wince in pain...)

Go very very slowly.
You need heaps of patience and a partner who is willing to give you that time. And I mean TIME.
Do not rush this at all... unless you are the sort of guy who can just relax every inch of your body instantly then go slow. And I doubt anyone could their first time.
Start with a finger for a few minutes... just let it sit there. When you cant feel it as such get your guy to move it around.
Work your way up to 2 and the same again.
Get to 3 and so on.
Even if each of these things takes 5-10 minutes each it will be worth it.
And the hornier you are the better...

You need to understand your own body and doing this will help you learn... and to avoid some of the pain that comes with rushing and forcing...

The proofs in the guys willing to go leg up volumee... the numbers doing it suggest the feelings a good one when its done right!

 

[landers]

The most important thing in bottoming for the first time is lube, there's no reason there should be any blood. If you think about, stuff comes out of your ass all the time that can be pretty big, it's just not used to stuff going up. Also try different positions, some might feel better than others. Being on your hands and knees might be the best to start as you can move yourself up and down and back and forth fairly easily. The pain will go away, you just need to be patient and let your body get used to it but, as far as I know, there's nothing better than cuming with a dick up your ass.

 

[conrad]

My own memory of that important step into the area of anal is that it requires a great deal of emotional and physical foreplay--and I don't mean the kind of foreplay in one time encounter.

My teen partner and I were in love; we were enchanted by each other's body. And, there was lots of gentle and tender "fooling around in the area" until one day I gave him the go sign. I don't remember any pain, but we had lots of time and lots of lubricant. My memory of the afterglow was that my obvious pleasure at having experience his cock deeply embedded in my anus was enough to make him eager for me to top him, which we did a few days later.

Anal intercourse is not everyone's choice. But for me the bond of our friendship and love was always wonderfully confirmed while we were joined. We were friends in high school who had become much more than friends; I cannot imagine that anal sex is something one would want to have either as top or bottom with anyone except a person with whom one is in love at the deepest level.

My thought is: MAKE SURE THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS STRONG. When the partner loves you as fully as you love him the memory that lingers includes only the pleasure and forgets the bits of discomfort.

 

[jhnphilipps]

i got fucked for the very first time this july...he was a married man; and yes, he knew what he was doing. he was very gentle and it felt good to me while he went in and out of my ass.
we smoked some weed afterwards and it was a great feeling i got from being the recipient of anal sex...unfortunately, i never saw him again after that first time-which was expected bcuz he says he loves his wife. it was only a fling that was very enjoyable while it lasted.
hope you enjoy your first anal experience.