Was asked to make a mold.

[03psyche11]

A gym buddy of mine, that's gay, asked me if he can make a mold of my junk. I'm strait but I am willing to do it. How do I nicely let him know that just cause i can get hard infront of him and keep it hard doesn't mean I get 'hard for him'?

 

[SJB69]

How about some pics? There may be more guys that want a mold of some hot straight cock...just sayin'...

 

[03psyche11]

Thanks but not into 'showing off', lol.

 

[Thrasher12]

A gym buddy of mine, that's gay, asked me if he can make a mold of my junk. I'm strait but I am willing to do it. How do I nicely let him know that just cause i can get hard infront of him and keep it hard doesn't mean I get 'hard for him'?

Well have you actually told him that you are not into guys? With most gay men that usually suffices lol and it should with him unless he is some kind of weirdo or something.

 

[swerve]

I see where you're coming from -- and its a really good question...

He PROBABLY WILL be thinking that you're up for MORE than just the mold...

I'd say -- sorry dude -- I'm not into it...

Better to just let him down and let it go...

jmo...

 

[EuroSoccer]

A gym buddy of mine, that's gay, asked me if he can make a mold of my junk. I'm strait but I am willing to do it. How do I nicely let him know that just cause i can get hard infront of him and keep it hard doesn't mean I get 'hard for him'?

Does it fucking matter?
Let him at least suck your dick, or have you got such a low confidence in your sexuality?

 

[03psyche11]

Thanks for the advice guys, I'll tell him no I'm not into it.

Eurosoccer, this has nothing to do with my confidence in my sexuality.

 

[BrianPGH]

03psyche11 -- I just wanted to say I think it's pretty cool that you're not narrow-minded and weren't freaked out by his request. We need more "straight but not narrow" guys like you in the world.

 

[evanrick]

this is the most bizzare thing i have seen all day.

how bout a little backstory?

 

[EuroSoccer]

Thanks for the advice guys, I'll tell him no I'm not into it.

Eurosoccer, this has nothing to do with my confidence in my sexuality.

It does.
You are already going defensive without even trying to verify his intentions.
How do you know he is going to try something?
Remember that even if he fancies you (which is probable), a gay guy will never make the first move on a straight guy.
If he touches you inappropriately, you can tell him politely to remove his hands because you are not interested........end of.
All this building barriers before a war is even declared, doesn't looks like a confident behaviour IMO

 

[looseliam]

I'd recommend against it. Thank him for the offer and tell him you're flattered and all.

Here's what I'm thinking: I don't know if I could get a mould of my friend's cock, use it, and not begin to wonder what the real thing feels like.

 

[Thrasher12]

It does.
You are already going defensive without even trying to verify his intentions.
How do you know he is going to try something?
Remember that even if he fancies you (which is probable), a gay guy will never make the first move on a straight guy.
If he touches you inappropriately, you can tell him politely to remove his hands because you are not interested........end of.
All this building barriers before a war is even declared, doesn't looks like a confident behaviour IMO

Dude the guy once to make a mold of the OP's cock, not borrow some salt, that's rather intimate and if he feel uncomfortable then he shouldn't do it - end of story.

 

[HunterM]

I really want to know where to order the OP's molded cock

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

YOU making a mold for him -- that's one thing -- HIM - participatng in the project is quite another.
I can see if you're willing to make it for him and give it to him - knowing full well what he's gonna do with it -
but if you let him "help you" make it - then yes, you're inviting trouble - or at least teasing him or IDK what else.

He shouldn't be thinking he can "get you" to do anything else -- unless he's totally dilusional - but if you're his friend soo BFF that youre willing to give him your molded cock for play time - and you REALLY REALLY don't want anything else tohappen - then just tell him you'll make it for him and spare him any opportunity for additional disappointment. he should be dripping pre-cum as it is -- just knowing that you're gonna "give him" what he wants -- figuratively speaking,that is.

 

[bijockdude]

Buddy just get the kit from him and make it at home and let him enjoy the fantasy of you inside him...what a great compliment to you

 

[EuroSoccer]

Dude the guy once to make a mold of the OP's cock, not borrow some salt, that's rather intimate and if he feel uncomfortable then he shouldn't do it - end of story.

Dude, he has already agreed to do the mold...........he just want some extra guarantees.
The gay guy asked him if he could make a mold of his cock, he didn't asked him if he could suck his prick.
So it's either he trusts his word or not.
Assuming that every gay gay is a nymphomaniac who cannot control his sexual urges is kinda disrespectul, in my honest opinion.
If he has to do it with that spirit, it's better he declines the offer alltogether, rather than humiliate the poor guy.

"Yes you can make a mold of my hard cock faggot, but no funny business ok?"
How charming is that?

 

[hjsimp_992]

Thanks for the advice guys, I'll tell him no I'm not into it.

Eurosoccer, this has nothing to do with my confidence in my sexuality.

Yea, let him suck you. Its a wet mouth, not a marriage, plus you would be surprised how good guys are at it.

 

[Thrasher12]

Dude, he has already agreed to do the mold...........he just want some extra guarantees.
The gay guy asked him if he could make a mold of his cock, he didn't asked him if he could suck his prick.
So it's either he trusts his word or not.
Assuming that every gay gay is a nymphomaniac who cannot control his sexual urges is kinda disrespectul, in my honest opinion.
If he has to do it with that spirit, it's better he declines the offer alltogether, rather than humiliate the poor guy.

"Yes you can make a mold of my hard cock faggot, but no funny business ok?"
How charming is that?

He actually hasn't agreed to do anything - just as he pointed out a few posts later - nor do we know what the gay guy has specifically asked him to do aside from the mold. Which is a mold of a rather intimate part of a man's body as we all are aware of.

So my advice was to get more info and in case he chose to do it to set clear boundaries.

Yours on the other hand was to attempt to get him to do something that he was obviously not comfortable with and when he shot that down you promptly threw a random accusation at him. All which by the way was as charming as the italic part of your latest reply.

 

[EuroSoccer]

Yours on the other hand was to attempt to get him to do something that he was obviously not comfortable with and when he shot that down you promptly threw a random accusation at him. All which by the way was as charming as the italic part of your latest reply.

Attempt to get him to do what? Avoiding to embarrass himself and the gay guy?
I think it is a wise advice actually.
If people are not confortable with this kind of situation, they should keep their dick in their pants.
That's as simple as that.

 

[Thrasher12]

Attempt to get him to do what? Avoiding to embarrass himself and the gay guy?
I think it is a wise advice actually.
If people are not confortable with this kind of situation, they should keep their dick in their pants.
That's as simple as that. .

Yes we can all tell that that was exactly on your mind....

Does it fucking matter?
Let him at least suck your dick, or have you got such a low confidence in your sexuality?