Well... There's this boy...

[silentalk]

I know that this post is similar to many others. I would normally be patient and prefer to figure things out for myself, but I discovered that I haven't got much time.

This is (more or less) the summery of what heppened. Here goes...

About a month a go I went to this amusement park with some friends. One of the rides (which you had to take individually) had to do with a swimming pool. So we decided to check it out. I was standing in a queue and just before my turn, I looked around and saw this extremely cute boy. He was a lifeguard. I would say that he was 19 - 21. He told the two boys in front of me that if they sat on the right side, it would be more enjoyable. He talked in a casual manner... It was one quick sentence with no smiles or anything.

So, I took the ride, left my friends and came back to have a second look. This time there was no queue. I decided I would say something, and this (as awkward as it was) is the summery of our conversation:

Me: excuse me, can I ask you somthing?
Him: yeah!
Me: Have you tried all the rides here?
Him: Yeah...
Me: Which one do you like the most?
Him (and he answered this with an amazing smile, I wish I knew what his smile meant): Which one I like most?? See that one there (and he pointed towards a distant ride) I think that one's the best.
Me (I had already tried that ride and it, indeed, was the best): Yeah, it's really fast and twists and turns.
Him: Yeah. (still smiling)
Me: Tha - (I wanted to thank him, but he interrupted me)
Him: Which one do you like?
Me (I didn't expect him to ask, so I got nervous): Yeah... I like that one too. I think it's really fast. Alright... Thanks. (he was smiling the whole time now!)
And I turned away and started to get in the ride he was supervising.
Him: see ya (this also was unexpected, since I already turned. I mean, they'd normally leave you alone, right? or am I thinking too much about it)
So I just mimicked him: See ya

I returned for a third time some ten minutes later. At first I thought he wasn't there, so I looked around, then he popped from behind a - a ... something. He appeared from behind something which I cannot clearly remember. I couldn't find anything to say, so I just moved towards the ride. This time, there were no smiles

Anyway, I was so optimistic (maybe a bit too much) that I returned the next day.
I was with my friend, and for some reason we were walking backwards, when we passed across the boy. I told my friend where he thought the boy was from based on his accent, Australia or England (my friend was and is unaware of my intentions and acted innocently) so he simply went and asked. The boy said (without smiling) that he was from the UK.

Anyway, as we moved (still walking backwards) I kept glancing at the boy as he watched over the pool. He was looking in all directions, including ours, so I couldn't keep my eyes on him. But as we were far away (still walking backwards), I knew he couldn't exactly see where I was looking, so I dared to fix my eyes on him. By that time he had stopped looking in other directions. I couldn't see which point he was looking at, but it was in our direction.

Now, am I making too much out of this??? Still, this is not my point, although an answer would be appreciated...

I discovered that the park would be closed at the beginning of December for the winter. So, I'll have to act quickly to figure out if I've got a chance.

I've decided that tomorrow morning I would go to the park and stay till about 4 p.m. Any suggestion? How can I start a coversation with him that would give me a general idea without outing myself??

 

[orem244]

Honestly it sounds like he was just being friendly. I think you're reading way too much into things. I'd recommend just moving on to someone who actually shows more definitive interest.

 

[rareboy]

Sorry, but I think he was just being polite. If he had wanted to pursue anything, he very likely would have given more indication at the time; I mean you were being pretty obvious.

Go back one more time, but on your own and see if there's really a spark or whether he was being friendly in his work.

 

[Gardenboy95]

You have to figure out how to make friends with him. Spend time with him. I know it may be easier to label people, but you will far much more happier to forget it and become freinds, or freindly, and go from there. Now I think you can take this concept and develop it for your own personality. If you were the life guard, what would you want him to do. ?

 

[silentalk]

Thanks guys.... That's why I posted, I thought there was a posibility I was making a big deal out of it, and here's my wakeup call...

 

[billybob109]

I would ask him what he does on his spare time.. maybe something in common or that might be to weird i would just straight up ask him if he is interested even if he does turn u down he lives in uk and u would never see him again

 

[jxbryant]

i have a similar problem....but i know the guy....he did a bunch of weird things like putting his gum in my mouth or hugging me a lot....should i go for it?its strange because all this happend when he talked about his current gf

 

[silentalk]

i have a similar problem....but i know the guy....he did a bunch of weird things like putting his gum in my mouth or hugging me a lot....should i go for it?its strange because all this happend when he talked about his current gf

I would say there's a good chance, but you have to investigate further... maybe he's bi...

 

[spreadeagle]

Personally, I think this is a perfect opportunity.

Your problem is that you're shy, inexperienced and in the closet. If you want to change any of that then at some stage you're going to have to aknowledge to another man that you want to have sex with him.

You're turned on by a very cute and attractive guy. He's responded to you in an overtly friendly way. You know where to find him. In all likelihood he's in the US on a student working visa - he's away from home with no one to judge him or to observe his behaviour. He's probably interested in enjoying some local hospitality. All the balls are in your court.

Go up to him and tell him you find him very attractive and that you'd like to meet him after work for coffee and a movie. If he rejects you then simply walk away. He has no way of knowing who you are or where you live. It's unlikely that he'd be violent because he'd risk losing his job.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. the first one is the hardest but practice makes perfect.

 

[silentalk]

Personally, I think this is a perfect opportunity.

Your problem is that you're shy, inexperienced and in the closet. If you want to change any of that then at some stage you're going to have to aknowledge to another man that you want to have sex with him.

You're turned on by a very cute and attractive guy. He's responded to you in an overtly friendly way. You know where to find him. In all likelihood he's in the US on a student working visa - he's away from home with no one to judge him or to observe his behaviour. He's probably interested in enjoying some local hospitality. All the balls are in your court.

Go up to him and tell him you find him very attractive and that you'd like to meet him after work for coffee and a movie. If he rejects you then simply walk away. He has no way of knowing who you are or where you live. It's unlikely that he'd be violent because he'd risk losing his job.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. the first one is the hardest but practice makes perfect.

Ok... I don't know if spreadeagle's comment was for me or jxbryant. However, I was thinking of forgetting about the whole thing last night untill I saw this comment. Right now, I'm thinking of doing something crazy, the sort of the crazy things I do in such situations. So... honestly, is there anyone out there who thinks that the boy was being more than friendly?? Is there anyone who thinks I have a good chance???

 

[FloridaBoi]

Why not? You only live once so make it count! It might turn out to be the best thing that has ever happened to you! Good Luck!


-Matthew