We're both in relationships but really into eachother...

[DarkHelios]

I'm in a relationship with a guy I love but I feel like we're just not right for each other

My first thought is that you should deal with this issue before you start worrying about anything else.

Does he know you don't feel you're right for each other? Why are you in a relationship with him?

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

You should be talking about this with your respective boyfriends. If anonymous internet strangers deserve to know, so do the people whose feelings are involved.

It is a bit backwards to say you don't wanna hurt him then shove your tongue down Rico's throat. That says less "I don't wanna hurt him" and more "I don't wann get caught."

Have you told him about the kiss, your unhappiness, and this new stud?

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

It is backwards. And I won't make excuses for my behavior. But the physical and emotional attraction I feel for Sergi seems to be stronger than my desire and will not to hurt my bf.

The whole time in my head I knew I shouldn't have been doing it but couldn't stop it...........

So you're selling both of yourselves short, your bf and yourself. If you want Sergio, get him before somebody else steps up to the plate and does.

I dunno what to tell you about the bf, if he knows you're not into him and stays wit' you anyway he's got some other issues goin' on and I'd break it off ASAP just to avoid any crazy scene, the longer you stay wit' someone the messier the breakup can get.

 

[chillyboi]

Well fuck & see what happens!

 

[G-Lexington]

Either dump your current boyfriend, or tell your boyfriend that you've found somebody else and you want to have sex with him.

Lex

 

[Seasoned]

The "butterflies" come and go. Seems to me that Sergio likes playing. Remember, he'll be in London five times in a year. How long have you been with your boyfriend? It's up to the two of you to bring the tingle back. Even if you and Sergio moved in together, the constant tingle would disappear and you'd be looking for it elsewhere at some point. Stay home and put some spark in what you already have.

 

[Just_Believe18]

There's nothing wrong with honesty. Just tell your boyfriend you no longer feel intimate in the relationship and are feeling connections with other people. You want to end things now before someone gets hurt.

You've already made a mistake by getting physically intimate with Sergei. You need to fix it and be honest with your boyfriend by ending the relationship. Clearly, there's something missing that you want and maybe being single again will help you find it.

But if both of you cheat on your boyfriends, any kind of relationship you have with Sergei will be doomed. The infidelity curse will come and get you.