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i need help please don't be rude.

so im with this guy that likes fast sex(by fast sex i mean its over in 5 minutes). im not bragging but i last a long time cuz i love passionate slow sex and he likes to finish fast cuz he says it hurts him after awhile. he's told me a couple times to give him advice to help me cum fast but i just told him its not him, i just like to go slow. i know i shouldn't be complaining about the sex cuz its great and happening 3 times a week. idk it may be bothering me more than it is him.

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any moves i should know? or maybe a way to slow him down? idk please just tell me wat u think i should do cuz at this point i don't know wat to do. :help::help:
 
LH

If you are hurting him, you might try a different position or introduce more lubricant if things are getting dry.
 
we've tried alot of different positions and it all ends up hurting him after awhile "(

and we always use lots of lube....

thanks though
 
5 minutes? 5 MINUTES?!?!?!

I don't even have my clothes off after 5 minutes.

I don't know what to tell you. Perhaps a butt plug? I honestly have no idea, I just felt the need to make my "5 minutes? 5 MINUTES!?!?!" sentence. lol

#-o
 
i know! i don't like it as well but i really like him and im not the type of person who would break up with someone just cuz of sex.... but he likes going at it three times in a day thats good right??
 
idk i haven't asked. i just know it hurts him but its not the first time i've heard that from a guy, one time this other guy finished first and then wouldn't let me finish cuz it was really hurting..... "( im frustrated
 
More foreplay, much more foreplay is my suggestion.
 
idk i haven't asked. i just know it hurts him but its not the first time i've heard that from a guy, one time this other guy finished first and then wouldn't let me finish cuz it was really hurting..... "( im frustrated

One word.

Communication.
 
so i've been thinking of maybe trying a new lube cuz idk wat kind we use cuz he buys it (i get shy buying things like that idk why!?) lol but anyways i was thinking maybe we should try something new since we seem to have to reapply the lube alot throughout the sex....
 
I would suggest lots of foreplay, especially anal foreplay. Finger and kiss slowly release the tension.
 
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