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I've written before about my suite-mate coming out about being bisexual to me last semester (http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=200953).

Things are coming to a close in school and things are kinda getting heated. For the past three days we have been jacking off together. He was watching straight porn and I was watching gay porn and we've been racing to see who could finish first. BUT, he looks at my computer sometimes too and doesn't turn him off. He has also been teasing me with his dick. like ill be doing ab crunches and he will get under my legs and make sure I can feel his boner. Or just walk out the door and he will grab me around my neck and start humping, in laughter.

I think he will let me suck him off, and I'm fine with that but, is that a smart move? We haven't kissed yet and I think he will be more comfortable with a BJ and not a kiss, which is backwards for me. This is just confusing for me. I wish he were just gay and accepting of that so I wouldn't feel like I'm walking on coals when I flirt with him#-o

What do I do next? Touch the hot topic buttons? Just kiss him? Ask him how he is feeling about his bisexuality?
 
I've written before about my suite-mate coming out about being bisexual to me last semester (http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=200953).

Things are coming to a close in school and things are kinda getting heated. For the past three days we have been jacking off together. He was watching straight porn and I was watching gay porn and we've been racing to see who could finish first. BUT, he looks at my computer sometimes too and doesn't turn him off. He has also been teasing me with his dick. like ill be doing ab crunches and he will get under my legs and make sure I can feel his boner. Or just walk out the door and he will grab me around my neck and start humping, in laughter.

I think he will let me suck him off, and I'm fine with that but, is that a smart move? We haven't kissed yet and I think he will be more comfortable with a BJ and not a kiss, which is backwards for me. This is just confusing for me. I wish he were just gay and accepting of that so I wouldn't feel like I'm walking on coals when I flirt with him#-o


Just talk to him,about stuff. He's into you. Be honest. Don't be affraid to ask the Hard Questions. ei. You want a Blow Job? or would you like to experience more than that in the world of Man on Man sex/Love making?

Good Luck to You...|Just play it Cool,and continue to be Yourself:cool:
 
You apparently want to take it to the next level, so do it. Next time you're jacking off together, say "why don't you let me do you, too?" and put your hand on his.

Just don't expect too much. I think he enjoys the sex, but I doubt there's much beyond what you're doing in store...

Lex
 
You apparently want to take it to the next level, so do it. Next time you're jacking off together, say "why don't you let me do you, too?" and put your hand on his.

Just don't expect too much. I think he enjoys the sex, but I doubt there's much beyond what you're doing in store...

Lex


Also you could try the next time you are jerking each other off just slowly rub his chest and work your hand slowly down to his penis and then jerk him off. And if that works then move in for the blowjob because he will not make the first move
 
No, it's not a smart move.

Nor is rushing to see who can finish first - that just makes for bad sex.

Kissing is not going to happen. If you give him a blow job you'll simply demean yourself, he's unlikely to reciprocate, and you'll regret it in the morning.

It's important that you keep the upper hand. You might consider cutting all these erotic shenaningans completely. If he starts jacking off in front of you or interfering with your ab crunches then simply leave the room. If he responds by pursuing you that's when you call him on it - he's an immature cock tease and he should put up or shut up.
 
Stand your ground and be in control. Keep having fun, test his limits and see where it goes from there. I understand the hormones are driving you crazy, but any hasty decisions can ruin this. You're lucky to have this dude, don't mess it up!
 
Next time, reach on over and give him a hand *|*

I'm still wondering how you two ended up watching porn together and jerking off in the first place. :confused: It's seems pretty obvious that he's horny and sexually comfortable with you. Given the current circumstances though, it doesn't sound like this is going in any sort of relationship direction. Have some fun and see where it goes. It sounds like both of you are still exploring a lot--take advantage of what sounds like an excellent opportunity to do so!
 
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