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I lived a gay life for years, but I found myself getting more and more attracted to women, so I decided to pursue it. Now I've discovered that I really enjoy having sex with women, more so than with men. The desires I'm now experiencing are the most intense of my life (I'm not so young). In many ways, I'm experiencing a season of joy in my life, going from woman to woman to woman.

But what am I now? Bi? But I've never seen a single thing in the media or elsewhere portraying a bi man in a favorable light. And a lot of women won't date bi men. Gay? I was comfortable with that label for years. But how can one be gay if one prefers to sleep with the opposite sex? Straight? Not after the life I've led. Ex-gay? Um, no.

Almost all of the porn I watch now features women. I went to a hetero strip club, got a lap dance from a woman, and loved it. I'm attracted to women all the time, wherever I go, somewhat more so than to men. Heterosexual desire throbs through my body every day.

So what now? Live a hetero existence? Wouldn't that hurt the gays? And what woman would ever want me? Live a homo existence? That would mean denying myself what I want most. I guess I could meet another guy and we could go to strip clubs together and beat off to straight porn together. But that seems odd.
 
You are sexual. I don't worry about labels. If you like women, go after them. If you like men, go after them. If you like both, go after them.

A buddy (friend with benefits) and I went to a Las Vegas strip club with half naked women everywhere (most of them with implants...but I was not complaining). Had private lap dances and made out with the strippers. Had a lot of fun and got really horny that night. He and I went back to the hotel and had sex. When the chemistry is right, sex is really hot whether it's with women or with men.
 
Sexuality is entirely fluid, let me tell you... it's like anything, really. I used to love movies. Now I HATE them. I'm sure I'll love them again someday. It used to be impossible for me to imagine a relationship with a man. Now, having dated men for a while, it's hard for me to imagine going back to women. I'm sure one day I'll want to be with women again - possibly. Who knows? You definitely have to just roll with it. Don't deny yourself of your desires if they're not harming you or anyone else...

My dream relationship is an open one with another bi, or fluidly-sexual guy. Oh, the times we'll have someday. *dreams*

People do have stereotypes about bi people, but it's not as prevalent as you may think. Many people just don't know HOW to react to it. Others will believe whatever they want to believe - "he's really gay" or, "he doesn't know he's straight". Which doesn't always go against your favor.

Also, I know for a fact some folks just don't care. These are the ones I dig. Male OR female. You just can't kickoff the relationship with the pretense of your bisexuality. You're you, s/he's him/her - the two of you will probably find something endearing about one another - and what you've done in the past will only speak to that endearment. If you weren't bi, you wouldn't be the same person, and s/he wouldn't even like you to begin with.

There are some chill people out there, trust me. Congrats on fearlessly pursuing your fluidity, sir! :)
 
People like all the time about their dick size, whatever. If you think you can't attract women because of your gay past, I don't see the harm in a lie. Better yet, never tell.
 
HunterM said:
You are sexual. I don't worry about labels. If you like women, go after them. If you like men, go after them. If you like both, go after them.

A buddy (friend with benefits) and I went to a Las Vegas strip club with half naked women everywhere (most of them with implants...but I was not complaining). Had private lap dances and made out with the strippers. Had a lot of fun and got really horny that night. He and I went back to the hotel and had sex. When the chemistry is right, sex is really hot whether it's with women or with men.
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Fuck, that's hot! I could definitely get into an evening like that. Of course, what would be make even better would have been if you guys had picked up a chick for a MMF. Not necessarily a stripper, maybe you two stopped at a bar afterward and met a married chick traveling on business. She's so bored with her husband, so macho and uptight, won't experiment at all. "Oh we'll show you experimenting...."
 
Thanks! Maybe I would enjoy a MMFF relationship, where everyone is bi.

alli-berri said:
Sexuality is entirely fluid, let me tell you... it's like anything, really. I used to love movies. Now I HATE them. I'm sure I'll love them again someday. It used to be impossible for me to imagine a relationship with a man. Now, having dated men for a while, it's hard for me to imagine going back to women. I'm sure one day I'll want to be with women again - possibly. Who knows? You definitely have to just roll with it. Don't deny yourself of your desires if they're not harming you or anyone else...

My dream relationship is an open one with another bi, or fluidly-sexual guy. Oh, the times we'll have someday. *dreams*

People do have stereotypes about bi people, but it's not as prevalent as you may think. Many people just don't know HOW to react to it. Others will believe whatever they want to believe - "he's really gay" or, "he doesn't know he's straight". Which doesn't always go against your favor.

Also, I know for a fact some folks just don't care. These are the ones I dig. Male OR female. You just can't kickoff the relationship with the pretense of your bisexuality. You're you, s/he's him/her - the two of you will probably find something endearing about one another - and what you've done in the past will only speak to that endearment. If you weren't bi, you wouldn't be the same person, and s/he wouldn't even like you to begin with.

There are some chill people out there, trust me. Congrats on fearlessly pursuing your fluidity, sir! :)
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Nooooo sexplorationisgood, don't go into the light!
You promised, don't leave us!:cry:
 
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