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Hey there everyone!


I have a situation in which i dont know what to do.

I met this 36 yr old bear type cute guy on a gay chat ( I myself am 18 ), we talked and also cammed and talked more on MSN.
After some days of talking he got to know thru me that my birthday is coming up in some weeks. Now he wants to send me a present and asked me what I want.

Now I am in a dilemma. I dont know what kind of signal it wud give it to him if I ask him for a present (I dont want a sugar daddy - toyboy relationship). And if I dont ask a present he wud maybe take offense.
And even if I take the present and we stay on a friendly basis I still need an alternative address to get the present deliverd as I am not out and my parents dont know about my cam/chat contacts.

So what should I do?
 
ask for something that is not expensive and that lets you both know a little bit about eachother, try a CD or a DVD if you like movies or music, if not try a book, se how much he know you or thinks you would like and also lets you see what his taste is like.

hope this helps

ps: happy bday, gemini rule!
 
Tell him you don't want anything from him, except to keep the relationship going and growing. :) If he really wants to send you something, ask for a greeting card. I doubt your parents will freak out upon seeing a greeting card addressed to you. :) However, only do this if you don't mind giving out your address at this stage of the game.

Lex
 
Well it is worth a celebration, you seem to have lost 9 years in this post alone. Celebrate while you are still legal ;)
 
trawler69 said:
Well it is worth a celebration, you seem to have lost 9 years in this post alone. Celebrate while you are still legal ;)
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Hahaha Yes I am going to be 19. 1980 is just a random number i chose! Nothing to so with the age!
 
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..........................

I guess the age posted as 27 has nothing to do with your maturity level either.

And 1980 plus 27 is????????????????

Hopefully you're more honest in your relationships than on line.

My advice is that you need to grow up.
 
rareboy said:
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..........................

I guess the age posted as 27 has nothing to do with your maturity level either.

And 1980 plus 27 is????????????????

Hopefully you're more honest in your relationships than on line.

My advice is that you need to grow up.
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I am 18 (19 in some weeks), I just put it up 27 cause i was a bit insecure when I registered here!
Thats it.!

Please stay in topic!
 
>>>Please stay in topic!

Your true age is very much on topic. The fact is - you've played fast and loose with your age on this board at least once, and so we have reason to doubt it. And the advice I'd give to someone over the age of consent would be completely and utterly different from the advice I'd give someone who was underage. On another occasion, I told someone who claimed to be 22 that sure, he should go hook-up with somebody he met online. Ends up he wasn't 22 - he was 15. Because of that, I no longer give advice to people who have shown they may not be as old as they claim.

Lex
 
ok! Then I let my age get modified woith the administrators
 
Ok, I'm going to assume you are at least 18 with this advice.

I wouldn't accept a present. Tell him he can buy you a coffee at the local java joint. That would be "present" enough.

If you however are under 18, under no circumstance should this person send you a gift, or should you meet up with him.
 
I just talked to the guy and told him im not ready for a present. And if he really wants to give me something , then give me an online greeting card. And he really respected my opinion!
So this case is solved, thanks for your help!
 
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