What do Straight/Bi men actual feel towards doing things with another man or if a man wants to do things with them? Or

[Kbtha0]

I'm gay but I've had a straight guy long ago that did not fear to show some sort of affection, that doesn't mean he wants to do anything with me, but he has kissed me on the cheeks because were like bros.

I also had given a straight married guy a few blowjobs and he treated me like a bro too.

 

[snakeeater1]

I'm gay but I've had a straight guy long ago that did not fear to show some sort of affection, that doesn't mean he wants to do anything with me, but he has kissed me on the cheeks because were like bros.

I also had given a straight married guy a few blowjobs and he treated me like a bro too.

I gave a married man a blow job once and not only would he not reciprocate, but he showed no emotion and wouldn’t even shake hands! He did say “thank you” though after I swallowed his cum….

 

[Kbtha0]

I gave a married man a blow job once and not only would he not reciprocate, but he showed no emotion and wouldn’t even shake hands! He did say “thank you” though after I swallowed his cum….

Did you think him not reciprocating or showing no emotion or shake hands made you feel anything? Or did you simply enjoy just satisfying his need?

 

[snakeeater1]

Did you think him not reciprocating or showing no emotion or shake hands made you feel anything? Or did you simply enjoy just satisfying his need?

Sucking him off was enough for me! I didn’t want a lover or a friendship, I just wanted his cock in my mouth!

 

[Kbtha0]

Sucking him off was enough for me! I didn’t want a lover or a friendship, I just wanted his cock in my mouth!

That's good ! I'm glad it turned out very well!

 

[BiBtm64]

I'm gay but I've had a straight guy long ago that did not fear to show some sort of affection, that doesn't mean he wants to do anything with me, but he has kissed me on the cheeks because were like bros.

I also had given a straight married guy a few blowjobs and he treated me like a bro too.

Straight (acting) or bi-curious guys (I used to be one) are often curious to try out male to male affection, and more. The key is in how comfortable they feel about being with you, and how much they trust you. The worst thing that can happen for an outwardly straight guy is to have his cover blown. He might have a family, certainly friends, who regard him as straight and he defines himself by his straightness. He fears losing that in the eyes of others.

It could be that your straight buddy feels comfortable enough with you to kiss you, which he could never do with a straight friend, and that's great. It doesn't necessarily mean he wants more, but you could drop a hint.

I've sucked and been fucked by several married men. They have deep-down curiosity, or they simply aren't getting it at home and need a blowjob, or she won't do anal. I've been happy to help them out. In their mind they've cheated already, I'm just facilitating the act for them and helping them out, and I'll keep their secrets. I've found that there are two types: (1) the bi-curious type who is delighted and relieved to get the experience. They're relaxed about it and want more, once they realise I'm discreet and will keep their secrets. (2) the straight, desperate type who just needs to get off with another human and he's fed up with begging and pleading at home. They come to their senses after cumming, feel ashamed or embarrassed, and can't get away quickly enough. Sometimes they'll have me back out of frustration or desperation. Many of these types stop after a while out of shame or fear they'll be found out.

 

[Kbtha0]

Straight (acting) or bi-curious guys (I used to be one) are often curious to try out male to male affection, and more. The key is in how comfortable they feel about being with you, and how much they trust you. The worst thing that can happen for an outwardly straight guy is to have his cover blown. He might have a family, certainly friends, who regard him as straight and he defines himself by his straightness. He fears losing that in the eyes of others.

It could be that your straight buddy feels comfortable enough with you to kiss you, which he could never do with a straight friend, and that's great. It doesn't necessarily mean he wants more, but you could drop a hint.

I've sucked and been fucked by several married men. They have deep-down curiosity, or they simply aren't getting it at home and need a blowjob, or she won't do anal. I've been happy to help them out. In their mind they've cheated already, I'm just facilitating the act for them and helping them out, and I'll keep their secrets. I've found that there are two types: (1) the bi-curious type who is delighted and relieved to get the experience. They're relaxed about it and want more, once they realise I'm discreet and will keep their secrets. (2) the straight, desperate type who just needs to get off with another human and he's fed up with begging and pleading at home. They come to their senses after cumming, feel ashamed or embarrassed, and can't get away quickly enough. Sometimes they'll have me back out of frustration or desperation. Many of these types stop after a while out of shame or fear they'll be found out.

Did you enjoy giving the service to them and not feel like youve ruined anything they may be afraid to be ruined for?

 

[BiBtm64]

Did you enjoy giving the service to them and not feel like youve ruined anything they may be afraid to be ruined for?

I do enjoy giving that kind of service, as a cock sucker and a bottom, it's a pleasure for me to give pleasure. This is a complex thing as a bisexual, the giving and receiving, and I could talk more about this in the right forum or thread if you want to know. It's enough to say here that I'm fascinated by cocks, I enjoy feeling them, sucking them and feeling them inside me, and I enjoy the psychological satisfaction and connection of pleasing a cock owner.

I don't feel that I've ruined anything. They're seeking out a mouth or ass, either out of curiosity, a secret gay desire, or simply frustration or desperation to be pleasured by another human if they're not getting it at home. For a married man to go through with that, he's likely to have played it out in his mind and assured himself that it's what he wants, visualized himself doing it. I'm only making it a reality for him. How he feels about his relationship, or about his sexuality, is for him to deal with. I'll keep his secrets, and I'm happy to chat it through with him, but I'm his cock sucker / bottom, not his therapist. If he gets his cock sucked then realizes he's not straight any more, that's not be ruining anything. All I've done is help him along his journey. I see it as a harmless win-win situation: we both get what we want.

 

[ricksvca]

My first time giving a man a BJ was fantastic as was the first time I received a BJ from a man. Both of these experiences took place in a gay bathhouse. I have had hookups with men since then a few times that were not as satisfying as I had hoped or expected and that taught me to be more diligent about who I actually would decide to meet up with. I still got to suck a man's cock and have him cum in my mouth and I still got to enjoy being sucked off by another man so it was still fun just not as fulfilling as I had expected.. Sometimes the chemistry is there and sometimes it isn't.


As a result I became more careful about my screening process before actually getting together with another man. This involved e-mails and phone calls so I could get to know the person better that I was considering hooking up with. We would talk at length about what we liked sexually, what we wanted. how experienced we each were etc. This more detailed screening process has definitely been successful so that when I decide to actually hook up with a man for sex I am pretty certain that we both are going to thoroughly enjoy each other.

 

[Kbtha0]

I do enjoy giving that kind of service, as a cock sucker and a bottom, it's a pleasure for me to give pleasure. This is a complex thing as a bisexual, the giving and receiving, and I could talk more about this in the right forum or thread if you want to know. It's enough to say here that I'm fascinated by cocks, I enjoy feeling them, sucking them and feeling them inside me, and I enjoy the psychological satisfaction and connection of pleasing a cock owner.

I don't feel that I've ruined anything. They're seeking out a mouth or ass, either out of curiosity, a secret gay desire, or simply frustration or desperation to be pleasured by another human if they're not getting it at home. For a married man to go through with that, he's likely to have played it out in his mind and assured himself that it's what he wants, visualized himself doing it. I'm only making it a reality for him. How he feels about his relationship, or about his sexuality, is for him to deal with. I'll keep his secrets, and I'm happy to chat it through with him, but I'm his cock sucker / bottom, not his therapist. If he gets his cock sucked then realizes he's not straight any more, that's not be ruining anything. All I've done is help him along his journey. I see it as a harmless win-win situation: we both get what we want.

I truly like that.

 

[Kbtha0]

My first time giving a man a BJ was fantastic as was the first time I received a BJ from a man. Both of these experiences took place in a gay bathhouse. I have had hookups with men since then a few times that were not as satisfying as I had hoped or expected and that taught me to be more diligent about who I actually would decide to meet up with. I still got to suck a man's cock and have him cum in my mouth and I still got to enjoy being sucked off by another man so it was still fun just not as fulfilling as I had expected.. Sometimes the chemistry is there and sometimes it isn't.


As a result I became more careful about my screening process before actually getting together with another man. This involved e-mails and phone calls so I could get to know the person better that I was considering hooking up with. We would talk at length about what we liked sexually, what we wanted. how experienced we each were etc. This more detailed screening process has definitely been successful so that when I decide to actually hook up with a man for sex I am pretty certain that we both are going to thoroughly enjoy each other.

It always good to kind of , in my opinion, know a little bit about the person before you do something as it helps the play be more enjoyable.