What Do You Think?

[TimHall]

Hi,
I have been reading these forums for a long time now but today decided to post for the first time.
I am not sure where I stand on sexuality, but that's beside the point. Last night I slept over in a friend's house and this morning we decided we wanted to go to the sauna. Initially we were only shirtless and had swimsuits on. The sauna was real nice and we both were enjoying it, talking about random stuff. Then I suggested that we take off our swimwear and rap ourselves in towels and continue the sauna session (each had a different towel, of course); he agreed and we did this. Things got even nicer inside the room and then I proceeded to suggest that we both remove our towels with the condition that we wouldn't look at each other's private region. He did not hesitate at all and we went ahead with this. The thing is that I caught him peeking more than a dozen times, and even while I was looking straight at him while talking, he would look down at my penis. I obviously stole a couple of glances at his thing and he knew I was looking.
The thing is that this friend of mine has been accused numerous times of being gay in school, something which he fervently denies. So I am not sure what to make out of the whole situation. To add to it, he invited me again to the sauna tomorrow. Is he gay?
To be honest I am not quite sure what I am, and maybe would be up for some experimenting; but I am not sure if he would. What would be the best way of approaching this senario without isolating him if he weren't to be gay or even interested in experimenting? I am breaking my head over this so any help would be very much appreciated.

 

[Bored]

If you enjoy it, go for it. If you want, try sitting a little closer to him and just act more comfortable in there with no clothes on. Maybe even get hard a little.

 

[sktguy]

First off, why would you make a silly suggestion like being naked but not being allowed to look at the other person's dick? It's just natural curiosity to check out a naked guys dick. Nothing unusual about that. It in no way means he's gay but it does sound like you have some bi tendencies.
If you go sauna with him again be honest and discuss your feelings. If he's gay he should be fine. If he's straight tell him you would never try anything without his permission or interest and not to worry about the whole matter.

 

[seven2go]

To add to it, he invited me again to the sauna tomorrow. Is he gay?
To be honest I am not quite sure what I am, and maybe would be up for some experimenting; but I am not sure if he would.

HE asked YOU......nuff said.......

 

[MrBubulino]

Yeah, he wants to keep peeking!

Don't rush. Just go ahead, do the same thing. Just sit closer to him this time, and maybe touch yourself a little bit. Act naturally, that's the best way of making people comfortable.

Just remember to smile and let him catch you glancing his dick too. He didn't hesitate to look at yours, so he obviously won't mind.

Please, let us know how it goes! Because this is really hot LOL

 

[mbamike]

Someone will need to make the first move. Established the rule that there will be no rules because you both were caught looking. Then compliment him on how attractive he is. Then just move on from there. He will let you know up front if he is straight. If not, I want details on how your experiment went.

 

[Bi Married Male]

Get a hard on and say "I don't know why, but look my cock is hard!" See what happens... then fondle yourself and see if he does the same.

 

[Emergency000]

Then I suggested that we take off our swimwear and rap ourselves in towels and continue the sauna session...then I proceeded to suggest that we both remove our towels with the condition that we wouldn't look at each other's private region. He did not hesitate at all and we went ahead with this.

I'd say he would have thought you were coming onto him leading him to start glancing. Of course he could be straight and just wanted to compare size or something.

To be honest I am not quite sure what I am, and maybe would be up for some experimenting; but I am not sure if he would. What would be the best way of approaching this senario without isolating him if he weren't to be gay or even interested in experimenting? I am breaking my head over this so any help would be very much appreciated.

Just let him make the move but make sure you don't seem too against it happening. You say you wouldn't mind, so that's half of the equation solved, let him do the rest. Do you really want something to happen between him and you though? It'd be detrimental to the friendship if something went wrong?