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Taralen

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I am of mixed race. Russian/Black to be exact, but anyways, I don't know why I just mentioned my race but back to why I'm making this thread.

About last summer, July 2010, (There I go being exact :P), I was sitting on a bus stop, waiting for the bus to take me home. I just got back from my night class. So this was about 8pm. Not really that late.

This bus stop was completely deserted. My town really isn't that big in population, so that explains why the roads were empty so early.w

So there I was sitting at the bus stop. When all of a sudden, this middle aged, bearish, balding ginger fellow comes up and smiles at me. He then rubs my neck, then my stomach, he then proceeds to take off one of my shoes.

Being gay, I'm not really scared, and he was pretty attractive, but at the same time, I know what he is doing isn't right. So I politely ask, "Can I help you sir?"

He then slaps me on the cheek, and since I was wearing glasses, those flew off my face, so I couldn't see a thing. By the time I put my glasses back on, he was out of sight, but he wasn't out of mind. I had a feeling he was still in the area.

For some reason, the bus decided not to show up at the stop that night, because about 30 minutes later, I'm still sitting on this bench. The gentleman once again shows up, this time, he just stares deeply at me. He then laughs like a cartoon character, and just walks away. This was the last time I saw this individual. The bus came a couple minutes after that, and I went home.

I never told anyone of this until today. I haven't even told my best friends, or anyone in my family. Or even the police. So I need your advice.

First, basically, what happened to me. Was this man a stalker? A mental case? A harrasser? A groper? I have always wanted to know the term of what happened to me, so I can do research and find out if it happened to anyone else.

Lastly, should I tell my friends and family, and the police?

Thank you so much for reading, sorry if it was too long.
 
Mentally ill or drunk from the sound of things.

Since it's been so long, it probably wouldn't do much good to report the incident to the police.
 
You're braver that I am. I would have been scared out of my mind/furious if someone came up to me at a bus stop at night and did that.
 
So....a complete stranger walks up to you at a public place and starts to rub your neck and stomach, removes one of your shoes then assaults you and you let him?? It's not his sanity you should be wondering about.
 
Wow! I'm not usually speechless, but...

It's not ok to allow someone into your personal space. But no one should be calling you names as you were and are the victim. You just weren't adequately prepared for the bizarre.
 
I would have to agree with others. He's mentally ill or drunk or all of the above. That's really creepy. Glad you made it home safely. Don't let strangers do that to you again...especially in a deserted place.
 
Seriously, that was just plain wrong, whatever the intent was.

You should have contacted the police then, however, it's a little too late for that now.
 
Hmm. I have a funny feeling that this is some sort of fantasy the OP is sharing with us. If he was really bothered by it, would it really be something that he shows the whole world?

But yeah if you exude too many 'I'm gay!' vibes, men will want to hit on you and some will try to hit on you. I have a love/hate relationship with all the attention, personally. On one hand it makes me feel attractive on the other, I just want to be left alone sometimes lol.

You will be hit on a lot, especially if you are a cute young gay thing who rides the bus. Riding the bus is very faggy and homoerotic.... there are all sorts of queers who cruise on those things.
 
Whoa...

That is BIZARRE!!!

My FIRST guess is that he was high on drugs...

But -- I suppose drunk or mentally ill could work as well...

Personally, I would just LAUGH about is (as all ended well) -- and embellish it into a REALLY GOOD STORY to tell friends!!! ..|

No point in worrying about it now -- just be prepared to NOT let it happen again (although it is SO OUT THERE -- I'm not sure HOW I would have reacted)...

:):):)
 
Whenever we gossip/complain about something, we secretly like it. True hatred of something is something you just don't put any focus to. Part of you really liked being noticed, even though it was really creepy and 'sex offender-ish' the way that he did it.

Most of us go our whole lives not being noticed, and so when we do get noticed, it feels great.
 
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