What is it with bi/curious guys and straight women?

[Piquechampion]

I mean I have real a lot of posts were they say I like straight women, I make out with straight women, I fuck straight women. Haven´t occured to you that there exists also bisexual women too. It´s like guys are soo full on themselves that they only think that women are there for pleasing us guys. And it´s not, they also have the same feelings and sexual complexity as us.

I start this rant, cause for the past couple of months the girl at the store where I buy my groceries is like hitting on me, and I have accepted to go out on a date with her. It allways seemed strange to me, that she hitted on me, cause she looks like a total lezbot (in a very boyish cute kinda way), and over the phone she told me that she is in fact bisexual (with a slight preference over women) and that she gets turned down by guys all the time just for that fact. It really got me thinking, cause all the time I didn´t even realize that women also go through with the same complexities as we guys go through. And it make me realize that being bi or curiuous should be a two way street, allowed to both guys and girls

A lot of guys here have posted that they like to get their sexual kicks with men, but in the end they want they little wife, and the little house with the little white fence. But, have it not ocurred to you that maybe the little wife, while you´re away, has her lesbian lover come over I say this cause, this girl told me she had a bf and he was seeing guys behind her back, but when he found out that she was also bi, he totally went ballistic, like it is exused for him to do that, but for her not, please... Talk about machismo...

So to all you bi/curious guys, would you mind if your gf/wife had bisexual/lesbian tendencies or not? Would you feel threatened by it or not? How about she going behind your back to get her pussy eaten by a girl (after all there are a lot of bi/curious guys that go behind their gf/wives back to be with men)?

Btw, do not give me the I would love to bang two lesbian chicks crap... I told this girl that, and many bi/curious women do not like to be the little play thing of men.

 

[lightkeeper483]

ok im stupid, whats a bull dyke

 

[-=Tom=-]

I always thought guys loved girls that have sex with girls.

 

[Underdog]

So to all you bi/curious guys, would you mind if your gf/wife had bisexual/lesbian tendencies or not? Would you feel threatened by it or not? How about she going behind your back to get her pussy eaten by a girl (after all there are a lot of bi/curious guys that go behind their gf/wives back to be with men)?

Btw, do not give me the I would love to bang two lesbian chicks crap... I told this girl that, and many bi/curious women do not like to be the little play thing of men.

Cheating is cheating, married or not, guys or girls already in a relationship. It's a values thing. You deal with the hand that is dealt to you.

 

[lyconthrope]

I mean I have real a lot of posts were they say I like straight women, I make out with straight women, I fuck straight women. Haven´t occured to you that there exists also bisexual women too. It´s like guys are soo full on themselves that they only think that women are there for pleasing us guys. And it´s not, they also have the same feelings and sexual complexity as us.

I start this rant, cause for the past couple of months the girl at the store where I buy my groceries is like hitting on me, and I have accepted to go out on a date with her. It allways seemed strange to me, that she hitted on me, cause she looks like a total lezbot (in a very boyish cute kinda way), and over the phone she told me that she is in fact bisexual (with a slight preference over women) and that she gets turned down by guys all the time just for that fact. It really got me thinking, cause all the time I didn´t even realize that women also go through with the same complexities as we guys go through. And it make me realize that being bi or curiuous should be a two way street, allowed to both guys and girls

A lot of guys here have posted that they like to get their sexual kicks with men, but in the end they want they little wife, and the little house with the little white fence. But, have it not ocurred to you that maybe the little wife, while you´re away, has her lesbian lover come over I say this cause, this girl told me she had a bf and he was seeing guys behind her back, but when he found out that she was also bi, he totally went ballistic, like it is exused for him to do that, but for her not, please... Talk about machismo...

So to all you bi/curious guys, would you mind if your gf/wife had bisexual/lesbian tendencies or not? Would you feel threatened by it or not? How about she going behind your back to get her pussy eaten by a girl (after all there are a lot of bi/curious guys that go behind their gf/wives back to be with men)?

Btw, do not give me the I would love to bang two lesbian chicks crap... I told this girl that, and many bi/curious women do not like to be the little play thing of men.

hhmmmm ok, a few generalisations in this little "rant" of yours, first off being that that you think the guys on here you refer too (whoever they are) havent considered that there are bi women out there and are only interested in their own pleasure.

it actually took you meeting a potential "lezbot" who turned out to be a bisexual woman to understand that gay/bi women suffer the same discrimination as gay/bi men? and it IS a two way street, people know that there are bisexual/curious women in the world, I imagine some straight men might find the idea of their girlfriend being with another woman at some point as a little threatening in a "why do you mean a woman when you have me" kind of thing. And not necessarily because they want the "nice little wife with the house and 2.4 children"

and cheating is cheating whatever your orientation is, and one girls/guys experience shouldnt be used to judge everyone else situation, or to make generalisations.

and as for lesbians not wanting to be "play things"......I think you'll find that pretty much everyone feels the same way, I am straight, I dont wanna be a play thing.
and the whole two lesbian thing is what we like to call a fantasy, most people would never indulge, they talk about it or watch porn to get off but bringing and extra person into the bedroom would make a lot of people uncormfortable and worried about the strength of their relationship if they need a third person to keep interest.

 

[Piquechampion]

lipstick lesbos.

What´s a lipstick lesbo?

Cause it sounds nice

 

[Piquechampion]

^^ Sorry for the generalisations

 

[Sofa-King]

ok im stupid, whats a bull dyke

when in doubt about slang, http://www.urbandictionary.com/!

 

[Joe King Jay]

hhmmmm ok, a few ..................................


..................................person to keep interest.

I agree with lyconthrope’s # 7 posts.

So to all you bi/curious guys, would you mind if your gf/wife had bisexual/lesbian tendencies or not? Would you feel threatened by it or not? How about she going behind your back to get her pussy eaten by a girl (after all there are a lot of bi/curious guys that go behind their gf/wives back to be with men)?

As a straight male, I would not feel threatened if my girlfriend had bisexual tendencies at all. The issue for me would be how she dealt with this disposition.

I would never be with someone I didn’t trust or if they didn’t trust me. What kind of relationship would that be?

Like others have said before – cheating is cheating. No excuses!

 

[rahzael2006]

Cheating is cheating, married or not, guys or girls already in a relationship. It's a values thing. You deal with the hand that is dealt to you.

Then what is cheating to people who don't believe in marrage?

 

[lyconthrope]

Then what is cheating to people who don't believe in marrage?

acceptable??

I dont really believe in marriage (for my own reasons and me personally) but I always kind of assume that unless you were a pair of swingers or had both agreed to an "open relationship" (dont even get me started) then its still cheating.......right?

 

[fireside]

I might as well give it up with trying to pass off a joke around here. A bull dyke is a butch lesbo while a lipstick lesbian is a very feminine lesbo. In order to get the joke, you probably have to read my post on the "Guys or Girls, which is easier?" thread.

Bear in mind that for some, English is a second (or third) language, so a lot of meaning can be lost in translation.

 

[Piquechampion]

Bear in mind that for some, English is a second (or third) language, so a lot of meaning can be lost in translation.

Like thank you
I always give the wrong impression in my posts

 

[TheTrish]

Hi, lug! Bisexxual girls rock!

My boyfriend is not thrreted, nor should he be. The only time he is disappointed when he wants to get laid and I'm out with the girls.

T

 

[RRRalph]

I love straight and bisexual woman. I don't come across much bisexual girls tho.