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What is your coming out story?

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If it's not too much can you post your experience with coming out?
I like hearing other people's experiences with coming out and it is also nice knowing what to expect based on other peoples experiences.

Hopefully I will be posting in this thread by next year...
 
Some kid in high school turned around and asked if I'd ever kissed a girl. I said, "No." Then he asked if I was gay, and I said, "Yes." Then he freaked out and started yelling, "Dude, he just said he's gay!" like it was the craziest thing he'd ever heard. The next day, everyone in school knew I was gay.

I never did come out to my family. A couple years ago, I started seeing someone, and I had him over the house all the time. My parents pretty much figured it out, but we don't talk about it. Even though I know they wouldn't care and they already know, it would be embarrassing to bring it up because we're not an emotional family.

The end.
 
when i came out to my parents and my friends i was drunk both times....what does that say about me? :confused::(
 
I never came out to anyone, save to a very good friend, who though an bright dude in his own right, being very close to me, came to ask me, I was gay???

He had known me for 10 years by that time and had met both of my BFs as one relationship ended and the next one started. I have never had a GF at that time and he knew that, too.

All the other guys had the smarts about them to figure it all out for themselves.

I always go by the dictum that actions speak much louder than words.

SC
 
I have a really wimpy story. I was on vacation with a friend and I wanted to tell her but I couldn't figure out how. I didn't want to just blurt out "I'm gay" so I told about a dream I'd had the previous night in which someone asked me if I was gay and after that my friend asked me if I was gay. I was such a relief to just say yes.
 
when i came out to my parents and my friends i was drunk both times....what does that say about me? :confused::(

That coming out can be scary and difficult?

...I did that a few times in college and later. Not the best way to do things. But, in some ways, effective.
 
The only person I've told was my brother (who is gay). That was the same night I told him I had a 66 year old boyfriend. What a bad night... He was playing video games, it went like this:
....
ME: *No response*
HIM: Come on, tell me... how old is he
ME: *2 min interval*
He's ... 66.
HIM: Oh my god Randy!

What happened next?
 
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