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Hey sexy boys! I am in a bit of a dilemma right now. I want to take a chance on this guy I like..he's really cute, my same height(a plus), into the same stuff as me, and he actually knows what he wants.
The catch is..that I start school on January 15th, don't have a lot of money(trying to find a job), and I am trying to move out on my own soon.

Do you think I should ask him on a date anyway regardless of my current situation? :help: lol

Thanks in advance for your answers.
Love ya <3
-Sky
 
Of course you should

You have things in common and share the same values

I say go for it ..|
 
why not? go for it..it's not as if you're marrying him :D;)
 
Yup. Money comes and goes. Great guys are difficult to come by.

Make it no secret that you are working towards your better life and that at the moment you are going through some hardship as the case may be.

Be truthful about it. If he gets scared and starts running away, you'll know. If he says, dude, shit happens, let's move on and do our thing, you'll know that, too.

SC
 
ok!! ill do it!! lol! when i get my new job im gonna do it so i actually have money to spend on the date for dinner or something! lol
 
Just be wary that if you still live at home and will be attending school (and soon to be working), that he knows that.

Also, if your parents are paying for school, it should be important to note that school should be your priority over anything else. I have been told a thousand times by my parents that if "I'm paying X dollars, I expect results." That doesn't mean not have fun but rather learn to prioritize.
 
SilverRRCloud said:
Yup. Money comes and goes. Great guys are difficult to come by.

Make it no secret that you are working towards your better life and that at the moment you are going through some hardship as the case may be.

Be truthful about it. If he gets scared and starts running away, you'll know. If he says, dude, shit happens, let's move on and do our thing, you'll know that, too.

SC
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I was gonna post the same thing Take him on a date and just be honest with him
hard times are hard times everyone goes through them if he cant see past it then boo on him

good luck man:D
 
Ditto all the above. You're not offering him a source of income. You're offering him a friendship, and perhaps more. Yes, dinner at a nice restaurant is great. But I think I speak for the crowd by saying "I'd much rather have a burger and play video games with a guy I like, then have a fancy dinner and a night on the town with a guy I don't."

Go for it. ..|

Lex
 
Hey Schuylerrr!

Mate this guy will love you for who you are and not what you can give him or what you have...you dont need money to be the amazing guy you are... he'll see that at first glance!!!

Just go for it mate.... and have fun!!
 
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