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What the fuck just happened? Another ex thread.

Run away, the other way, away from the pain and the crazyness.

You broke up, you don't need to be friends. I get that you want to be able to say hi to him and not have this awkward tension whenever he's around but hey...It seems he doesn't want to talk to you at all, why would you force things? Just let it go. You'll be better off :).
 
backpacker said:
Since you say he's 18, I'm going to assume that you are around the same age. Sometimes when we are young we tend to lose perspective on the situation. All the little he said, he did don't really matter. The only important fact is that you are no longer together. You are obviously having a hard time fully accepting the break up. Your brain tells you one thing, but your heart says something else.

The first thing you have to accept is that you have no control over him. If he doesn't want any type of relationship, then there won't be a relationship. He is now free to do what and who he wants. You have no say in it. I have to tell you, given your behavior, I'm not surprised that he doesn't want any contact. People often go through a period of not talking after a break up. After a few months most go back to talking. You just need to give both of you some time.

For now you should focus your energy on finding a new guy. That will be the best medicine for you. Good luck!
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Not that I disagree with any of the recent advice given, but come on, given MY behavior? My reactions to being totally hurt by his hypocrisy and lies were completely legitimate. For the record, I don't want to us to be friends yet, I don't expect that, I just don't want us to hate each other either.

Anyways the advice that I've gotten so far has been worthwhile, the last generic bits less so. Thanks all the same!
 
Thanks! I dunno what to say. I care less and less every day. He was just really bad for me and I think he really fucked with my confidence and my self esteem and stuff. He's not really the kind of person I want to be with, I think I just pulled back because he was being so distant after I flipped. But really he's just immature. I saw him again tonight (we go out at similar clubs) making out with some new random guy. It's kind of sad. I realized that of course I'll find someone better because really he won't be hard to top. I'm starting to gain some peace about the whole thing. Thanks guys!
 
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