what to do

[gsdx]

Again, thanks for all the input - so many comments in so little time.

Fewer things take more priority than someone's safety.

 

[slobone]

Byt he way, Newbie, if you listen to the inner voice that made you hesitant this time, you will hardly ever go wrong. I wish I had learned so much earlier in life to listen to that inner voice, it knows what it is talking about.

Peg, I've tried listening to my inner voice, but all it ever seems to say is "Eat... more... chocolate..."

 

[mike_n_herrin]

i wouldn't do it unless it was with someone i knew pretty well and trusted totally. Certainly wouldn't do it with someone i meet online.

 

[teh_nathan]

I wouldn't do it.
I wouldn't do threesomes unless I know the people involved (and in my life, I've only been in one and it wasn't that good).
Bareback is just...NO. Not unless I was in a relationship with that person (and for me, I'd place sex somewhere around the last priority).

Nothing in life is worth more than your own safety and peace of mind.

 

[JUB_newbie]

Hey, guys... just wanted to update you all on my situation. I ended up talking to the guy last night online and he asked what I thought about the situation. I told him that I was not into barebacking especially with someone I'd never met, and he said he and his guy were a little hesitant about it too.... makes me wonder why he asked in the first place! Anyway, I passed the opportunity off and he said that they were still willing to experiment if I wanted to...... only we'd do it differently. I think I'll pass that one off too and wait for someone else to come along...... anyone??? anyone??!!!

thanks guys.

 

[teh_nathan]

Sounds good. Makes me wonder why he asked in the first place too.
*steals you and runs off*

 

[dolphwasser]

PLEASE just say no to this proposition. If they want to bareback - who knows what other path they would want to travel, and you may never find your way back.

 

[Riverrick]

I think I'll pass that one off too and wait for someone else to come along...... anyone??? anyone??!!!

If I could find the right cable to climb down, I'd pop right out of your monitor and into your lap so fucking fast your head would spin.

Newbie, you have a good head on your shoulders. You'll do well if you keep using it the way you have been. Keep up the good work!

 

[teh_nathan]

Riverrick: I agree. People with good heads on their shoulders are so hard to find.