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What's your longest sexless period?

What's your longest sexless period?

  • less than a month

    Votes: 7 16.7%

  • 1 - 4 months

    Votes: 5 11.9%

  • 5 - 8 months

    Votes: 3 7.1%

  • 9 - 12 months

    Votes: 2 4.8%

  • more than a year

    Votes: 2 4.8%

  • more than two years

    Votes: 23 54.8%
  • Total voters
    42
Since the hand doesn't count....the last three years of my married relationship were sexless ... of course since I came out the longest time has been what it took to type this message! Ha!
 
If oral sex isn't considered sex, then I have to erase the '91/'92 thing and replace them with 1978.
 
6 years here, and unfortunately I probably have 40 or so to go because there is nobody on the horizon.](*,) ](*,) :cry: :cry:
 
Iam a little surprised by the number who have gone for 2+ years. I know that for some it is due to medical issues. For me it is purely emotional. After a 10 year relationship ended I went for a couple of years without, then went for a couple of years of nothing more than sport fucking and then that slowed down. I was finding that the whole experience of casual sex or friends with benefits was worse than no sex at all. I would find that it became a vicious cycle that would feed on itself. I would feel lonely and unloved, go out and find someone, and for the time that we spent together it was physically gratifying, but afterwards I felt even more alone. I spent a great deal of time getting to know myself, what I wanted and needed in my life. I made a deal with myself that I would not settle for anything less than what I want, need or deserve. And that meant that unless there was a deep emotional and spiritual connection, then there would be no sexual connection either. Now mind you, I see a good looking man, or I meet a man with a that undefineable "something" that just gets me going, but I will not have sex without the possibility of something more. Unfortunately I just have not found the right man yet, many of these great guys I have met have turned into some very good friends, but that is all.

Unless he has my heart, he will not have any other part of me. I figure that the act of sex and the intimacy that goes with it is the ONE thing that makes it special, that makes it the one thing that you share with that certain someone. I know that not everyone feels this way, and that is cool. I am not saying that I am right, or anyone else is wrong. All I am saying is that for me, this is the right thing to do (or not to do as the case may be these past 3 very long years).
 
It is like 3 days today. This is bad nuf.

Guys, with all the due respect, don't you feel like foolin' around?

SC
 
Not counting the first 20 years, I doubt a month or so hasn't gone by and I didn't shag someone. I've even weaseled a women in here and there. But that takes a bit of scotch!

I'm a slut, and I love it.
 
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