What's your opinion about this?

[HornybiHubby59]

I have to be honest with you guys...I love to feel like a little girl while I am getting fucked...that always turns me on and I even moan like a girl while being penetrated...I actually beg sometimes to them to fuck me harder...but a couple of nights ago this guy I have been having sex with (he is married bi)..slapped me in my face and said..."YOU ARE JUST A HOLE FOR ME"..." YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A HOLE"...I felt like a fucking object and I got mad...I didn't say a word..I just got dressed up and left the room... he laughed and repeated the phrase " YOU ARE JUST A HOLE FOR ME "...Next day he called me, I didn't answer...he left me messages apologized...I didn't answer...that made me feel like a piece of shit...

 

[BiBtm64]

I have to be honest with you guys...I love to feel like a little girl while I am getting fucked...that always turns me on and I even moan like a girl while being penetrated...I actually beg sometimes to them to fuck me harder...but a couple of nights ago this guy I have been having sex with (he is married bi)..slapped me in my face and said..."YOU ARE JUST A HOLE FOR ME"..." YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A HOLE"...I felt like a fucking object and I got mad...I didn't say a word..I just got dressed up and left the room... he laughed and repeated the phrase " YOU ARE JUST A HOLE FOR ME "...Next day he called me, I didn't answer...he left me messages apologized...I didn't answer...that made me feel like a piece of shit...

I'm sorry man. I think it was really fucked up on his part, and you have a right to feel angry, and objectified. I understand the dynamic involved when you feel and act submissive, and beg to be fucked harder, but the any sort of dominance/submission should be consensual. If you beg to be fucked harder, that's consensual. You didn't ask to be slapped, verbally abused and humiliated. What makes it worse, as I see it, is that he laughed and repeated the abuse as you were leaving, not even during the heat of the moment when caught up in the sexual excitement. I think you're doing the right thing if you continue to ignore him and don't return his calls.

 

[rareboy]

It is called self respect.

 

[HornybiHubby59]

I'm sorry man. I think it was really fucked up on his part, and you have a right to feel angry, and objectified. I understand the dynamic involved when you feel and act submissive, and beg to be fucked harder, but the any sort of dominance/submission should be consensual. If you beg to be fucked harder, that's consensual. You didn't ask to be slapped, verbally abused and humiliated. What makes it worse, as I see it, is that he laughed and repeated the abuse as you were leaving, not even during the heat of the moment when caught up in the sexual excitement. I think you're doing the right thing if you continue to ignore him and don't return his calls.

I appreciate your response and opinion about this situation...THANK YOU

 

[HornybiHubby59]

It is called self respect.

Thanks for your opinion...

 

[MusicMan321]

Nobody should be treated like that for no matter what

 

[LilBit]

Nobody should be treated like that for no matter what

It's perfectly fine if it's consensual. There's a very legitimate degradation kink, but it involves serious negotiation beforehand, and there's aftercare as well. This particular case, however, was none of the above.

 

[HornybiHubby59]

Thanks for your opinions

 

[HornybiHubby59]

It's perfectly fine if it's consensual. There's a very legitimate degradation kink, but it involves serious negotiation beforehand, and there's aftercare as well. This particular case, however, was none of the above.

I think you are right about this...thank you