Although you are attracted (presumably physically) to this person and you question his sexual history, I say hold off on anything sexual. Although a 1,000 is possible, I am gonna say he's boasting (alot). If you are cautious and both like to persue it, have him get tested and show you the results.
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When is it too much?
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There is always safe sex, if temptation is overwhelming.
No, your fears are not unfounded and it is right for you to be hesitant. In fact if I were you, I'd run from this guy. Smoking it a huge turn off with me whether it is pot or anything else.
I too doubt his 1000 guys claim - seems a little inflated. That is a different guy every night for 3 straight years. he's 23 so maybe he started young, but still being with a lot of guys in high school just isn't very conveniant. So if you started at age 18 - I suppose it is possible to be with 1000 guys by age 23, but more than anything it is rather sad and IMO pathetic.
I wouldn't want to be with a guy who has been with that many guys (besides the STD possiblities) just seems to be he probably has become callous to the whole idea of being with guys.
If I were you, I would run away from this guy. You deserve a lot better. I'm guessing he's pretty hot though - but the appeal of that will wear off pretty quick
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Dude... you need to forget about this guy. I think the fact he's saying he's been with 1000 guys at the age of 23 is a direct result of the pot smoking he's doing. You don't need to get tangled up with an idiot like that... you definitely deserve better!
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if you like him meet up with him
don't fool around with him
if he actually likes you then chances are his pot smoking habits will decline....
people change based on the kinds of peopel they hang around with.. if he spends a lot of time with you and you don't smoke pot then chances are he will end up smoking it less
I doubt he has slept with 1000 guys... that would be like 3 different guys a week since he was 14 years old
but whatever he was just saying he has been around the block... which means he already had his slut stage and is probably better adjusted to his sexuality and not some rampaging whore
if he respects you then he will wait for you BUT if you want to fool around with him and he really has been with a lot of guys.. make sure he has been screened for STDs and is clean
don't fool around with him
if he actually likes you then chances are his pot smoking habits will decline....
people change based on the kinds of peopel they hang around with.. if he spends a lot of time with you and you don't smoke pot then chances are he will end up smoking it less
I doubt he has slept with 1000 guys... that would be like 3 different guys a week since he was 14 years old
but whatever he was just saying he has been around the block... which means he already had his slut stage and is probably better adjusted to his sexuality and not some rampaging whore
if he respects you then he will wait for you BUT if you want to fool around with him and he really has been with a lot of guys.. make sure he has been screened for STDs and is clean
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WRONG!
yes meet up with him... no judging by first impression....
first impressions mean nothing... i've met lots of guys that i get a good first impression from and they all turned out to be douches...
3rd impressions.. 3rd impressions are the best... (or maybe 2nd impressions)
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Dude, when a person makes false claims like that to get your attentions..
When you give in a fuck them, you'll be just another number..
or even another set of numbers (if he lies.)
Why would someone keep track of how many guys they've been with to the thousands? I mean, bragging like that already shows a lying character. What, fuck as many guys as you can and log them down in a notebook?
I don't care if I'm just in for the sex or not... when I meet with a person, their personality counts more than their body. I am not going to fuck an asshole and regret later when he kicks me out the door.
When you give in a fuck them, you'll be just another number..
or even another set of numbers (if he lies.)
Why would someone keep track of how many guys they've been with to the thousands? I mean, bragging like that already shows a lying character. What, fuck as many guys as you can and log them down in a notebook?
I don't care if I'm just in for the sex or not... when I meet with a person, their personality counts more than their body. I am not going to fuck an asshole and regret later when he kicks me out the door.
SilverRRCloud
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No half-way smart dude will ever share the contents of his score board with another dude, he is trying to bag, if you'll pardon my French? That alone tells you, that more likely than not, he might have smoked a bit too much b4 he came up with that 1k number.
True or not, his history is his and not yours to live and cope with.
You want to decide, what is it that you aim to do?
I'd say, I would not place this dude on the top priority list of my future BFs.
If I find him attractive, and if he finds me attractive, we'll find SAFE ways of getting our rocks off together and pick it up from there.
In a nutshell: You want to decide, if you need a serious emotional link before you have sex with someone, or if the mutual attraction does it for you?
Personally, I could not care less about anyone's sexual history. Most people keep it for themselves only. Or lie.
I also believe that there is no need to get very seriously emotionally involved with a dude, just because he wants to suck on your dick and help you get your rocks off. It is fun and you need that in your life, too.
SC
True or not, his history is his and not yours to live and cope with.
You want to decide, what is it that you aim to do?
I'd say, I would not place this dude on the top priority list of my future BFs.
If I find him attractive, and if he finds me attractive, we'll find SAFE ways of getting our rocks off together and pick it up from there.
In a nutshell: You want to decide, if you need a serious emotional link before you have sex with someone, or if the mutual attraction does it for you?
Personally, I could not care less about anyone's sexual history. Most people keep it for themselves only. Or lie.
I also believe that there is no need to get very seriously emotionally involved with a dude, just because he wants to suck on your dick and help you get your rocks off. It is fun and you need that in your life, too.
SC
bluedragon4
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just check his dick for bumps,scars,and phone numbers first.
