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When sex with the wife ends.

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My wife is my best friend. We get along really well. Everywhere EXCEPT in bed. We’re both too polite to even find a way to resume sex. Sadly, I’ve been sexless with her since the early ‘aughts.

Now Gents, I’ve had sex since it stopped with wifeypoo. With American masseuses, I’ve sucked a dick, buttfucked men and had mine sucked. And had cam to cam sex. These encounters weren’t cuz she wasn’t putting out. These were just me being Horney. Getting release. I even fucked a Hoe and came back home and fucked her just to have 2 women in one night once back when I was screwing wifeypoo.

My question is how can you restart sex with your wife after decades of no nookie? Rather than spending my nights posting to all my bi friends about my escapades. And wacking off to your peckers.
Has this happened to any of you? Long dry spells that you ended. What did you do? I mean she’s right next to me right there to screw. What can I do?
 
You know she's the only person who can let it happen, and she's probably not reading this forum to find out what you're thinking. The only way is to talk with her about it.
 
Well you don’t know her. She’ll find this iPad then…oh boy.( Kidding)

Agreed, but how does one start that conversation. I mean we’re ice cold here.
 
Well you don’t know her. She’ll find this iPad then…oh boy.( Kidding)

Agreed, but how does one start that conversation. I mean we’re ice cold here.
"Hey darling, I love you and you're my best friend and all that shit, but jeez a fuck wouldn't go astray" 😄
 
My wife is my best friend. We get along really well. Everywhere EXCEPT in bed. We’re both too polite to even find a way to resume sex. Sadly, I’ve been sexless with her since the early ‘aughts.

Now Gents, I’ve had sex since it stopped with wifeypoo. With American masseuses, I’ve sucked a dick, buttfucked men and had mine sucked. And had cam to cam sex. These encounters weren’t cuz she wasn’t putting out. These were just me being Horney. Getting release. I even fucked a Hoe and came back home and fucked her just to have 2 women in one night once back when I was screwing wifeypoo.

My question is how can you restart sex with your wife after decades of no nookie? Rather than spending my nights posting to all my bi friends about my escapades. And wacking off to your peckers.
Has this happened to any of you? Long dry spells that you ended. What did you do? I mean she’s right next to me right there to screw. What can I do?
The easiest thing to do, just say "Hey, it's been a while.... let's play!" I have to initiate things with my partner. He's too shy to initiate.
 
The easiest thing to do, just say "Hey, it's been a while.... let's play!" I have to initiate things with my partner. He's too shy to initiate.
Well that’s one thing she never does… initiate. And I don’t know if you’re old enough to get this reference. But, my wife championed the Lorena Bobbers defense fund. This is a woman who famously charged her husband John with rape and cut off his wang. She drove away and threw it out of her car window. He found it and famously had it reattached. Needless to say me initating is a me too movement no no.

Thanks for the simple advice but I hope someone here who’s experienced this can answer this thread.
 
Well that’s one thing she never does… initiate. And I don’t know if you’re old enough to get this reference. But, my wife championed the Lorena Bobbers defense fund. This is a woman who famously charged her husband John with rape and cut off his wang. She drove away and threw it out of her car window. He found it and famously had it reattached. Needless to say me initating is a me too movement no no.

Thanks for the simple advice but I hope someone here who’s experienced this can answer this thread.
Wow! bro! I know the story about the woman who cut off her husband's dick! I don't know what other advice to give you.
But, I can offer to be here for you. Us horny guys have to stick together. I'll send you a suggestion in a PM.
 
Have patience. Pray a little. Settle your thoughts and feelings. Did I mention prayer? Then take her out to dinner, show her that you love her by paying close attention to her, what she says, what she does. Compliment her hair. Compliment the way she moves. Be very, very gentle with her. You have to turn her on. She won't like aggression. Try a little tenderness. And very important: stop philandering. That's a No-No. Make her feel that she is the most important woman in the world.
Try it, and did I mention prayer?
 
Stop philandering? Give up hoes and cock. Not bloody likely.
I take her to dinner all the time. Compliment her cooking all the time, spend her money all the time, (she out earns me.) go on gay sites all the time when I could be in bed with her. ….wait a sec. Could that be it??.
Nah.
What can I do in bed to get her not to cut my dick off.
And Pray? I’ll,have you know I’m a lector at my church. I’m the voice of the lord. That isn’t a joke.
 
You must change your attitude. Consider that you are lector at church. Are you serious about your religion at all? Consider the commandments, how many are you breaking? Are you making an effort to correct your behavior? You are not the voice of the Lord, just a lector. Get real!
 
Well, there’s a hot spit in Hell with my name on it. I’m resolved to that. Don’t worry. I know what I’ve done.
 
From what you said in your first message that your a married man and don't really get any action from her. Lots of married men that are in the same situation that you are in. Sounds like you love your wife but no sex with her much yea you could talk to her about that your not getting what you want. So you've already had sex with men would you say your bisexual? Anyways good luck and hopefully reading these other comments from people help you out
 
From what you said in your first message that you’re a married man and don't really get any action from her. Lots of married men that are in the same situation that you are in. Sounds like you love your wife but no sex with her much yea you could talk to her about that your not getting what you want. So you've already had sex with men would you say you’re bisexual? Anyways good luck and hopefully reading these other comments from people help you out
I appreciate your thoughts thanks ever so.

I guess maybe I thought there be somebody here who had a similar experience as me in a sexless marriage. and told me how they handled it.

I am amused though in this thread to receive a Commandment breaking treatise. (Not from you MusicMan, BTW do you have 76 rusty trombones??)
 
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