When you're extremely drawn to and attracted to guy--does that mean...?

[FatherGhostface]

..does that mean he's gay or bisexual or at least bi-curious? I'm gay (obviously) and I have come across men that I like but through out my whole life I've only met two men who I've been extremely drawn too. A guy named Kyle who I went to high school with and a male model named Clint Mauro. Why am I so drawn to these guys? I keep looking for hints or clues as to whether they themselves are gay or not but I simply can't tell.

I'm not some psychotic stalker or anything, I just wanna know WHY I'm so drawn to these men. Why they have this power over me? I don't expect a relationship from either them, I just want to know why...I realize this is wishful thinking and all but could it be that I'm drawn to them because my 'gay-dar' is picking up something from them? I don't personally know Clint Mauro so that's pretty hard for me to tell but there is something not so 'straight' about that guy, I can feel it..

 

[bw92116]

Complete this sentence for us and it will help us analyze:
"I am extremely drawn to and attracted to him because _______________ ."

 

[billybob109]

I do not understand why you keep saying you are attracted to this clint model when you do not even know him. Im sure every gay guy is attracted to him i googled it he is very hot, but you are taking it to a different level.

 

[Rolyo85]

No, the fact of your attraction has absolutely NO relevance to their sexuality. In fact, I'm going to go out on a limb and assume that a) you're in the closet, and b) they're both completely straight.

Actually, according to some statistic, MOST male models are straight.

 

[Seasoned]

I'm glad to hear you report that you're not a stalker, but can you understand how crushing, if left unchecked, could lead to that. It's time to put effort into meeting people that could give you back what you could get from them. It's good that you posted because it's a reality check. If we'd let it our mind by itself has the potential of making us believe anything. Try to figure out why these guys create such interest for you and then look for that in someone accessible. Good luck.

 

[elGeniuoso1721]

I Googled this Clint guy too. He's sexy as shit. But if you don't know him then you are simply infatuated. Don't confuse infatuation with actual feelings of "like." Sometimes it's hard to differentiate the two, many of us understand that and actually empathize. But just be logical about the situation.

 

[DeadRussianSpaceMonkey]

I don't know if it's just me this morning, or do these threads just make no sense this morning.

No just because you find someone attractive- Doesn't mean they are gay or bi. Your mom can look at me with lusty eyes, and that wont make me any straighter. Most of these guys will just always be eyecandy for us anyways, so what does it matter if they are gay or straight. I'm sure you'd feel more connected if you knew they were gay, rather then straight, but ideally what does it matter. Just wait and see, maybe they will turn out to be gay, and open about it. If not it's there choice.

Just start a Clint Mauro thread in the the forum subgroup I listed before. Pine over him by posting pictures with flattery subtext of why he makes you umn-lust, wank off, and proceed with your life. You aren't alone in being lustful towards someone- look at all these threads. There was even a thread of people jacking off onto pics of celebs. Post a picture of you doing that to clint if you want.

Just don't get the hope that he's gay, and start stalking him or thinking you are soulmates because you can feel this connection with him that no one else can.

This thread really belongs in http://www.justusboys.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=38 but with pictures.

Goodday sir.

 

[ben9651]

Just googled the Clint guy too , he`s fugly.

 

[Haunted187]

^x2 different strokes I guess...

Fyi I've had some really attractive girls chase me before, it sucks because nomatter what it doesn't make me any straighter.