Who made you realize you were gay?

[Cobyforrester]

Draco Malfoy played by Tom Felton in Harry Potter The Philosophers Stone made me realize I was attracted to men/boys. I don't know why but I asked if he was a boy and said he was pretty when watching. I was told that he was a boy and realized I was gay. He made me feel tingly inside even though he was a Slytherin. I didn't watch the rest of the episodes but I was close in age when I watched the first movie so it made sense. He became less attractive to me physically but his character seemed fitting at times.

So who made you realize you were gay? Could be a friend, relative, singer, actor, etc. If you want, share a hot picture of the person.

 

[kallipolis]

My realisation was not a person, rather a book read with enthusiasm convincing me that I empathised with more than one of the novel's characters, inviting me to participate in the adventures weaving through John Recky's, City_of_Night.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/City_of_Night

 

[gsdx]

You won't know who this is, but it was Wally Cleaver (Tony Dow). I knew I liked boys before him, but Wally made me understand why.

 

[TickTockMan]

Matthew Broderick in Torch Song Trilogy. My mothers and uncle was watching so I did as well. I was six.

 

[Cormac135]

Nate Richert from Sabrina The Teenage Witch and Paul Rudd.

 

[rareboy]

When I was 3 or 4 I realized that I found one of my uncles friends incredibly handsome and appealing. I always loved the masculine smell of men and not of women with their perfumes and this guy was everything. When My uncle and aunt were married, I gloomed onto this guy and ended up falling asleep in his arms.

Melt.

 

[Charon]

Well I already felt an attraction to other boys when I was a kid, but it in 6th grade I had a huge crush on the star football(American) player in my school, and I thought: "Oh yeah, I'm Gay."

 

[Cobyforrester]

You won't know who this is, but it was Wally Cleaver (Tony Dow). I knew I liked boys before him, but Wally made me understand why.

He is quite a looker! A twink of his time.

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[Cobyforrester]

Cute!!!!! And you knew so young too that's awesome. I don't have a strong sense of smell, but I do usually know when I am compatible with men if I can smell their crotch and their armpits. Pheremones are something else!

 

[Drugstore Cowboy]

Mario Lopez <3

 

[Cobyforrester]

Oh yes! Literary figures are definitely on the table for this! Want to read the book too. I should have the time and privacy nescessary to read it when I get to Germany and get it ordered and all of that.

 

[PalacePaul]

A guy I met on my second day in high school. He was so tall and cute. While walking back home I realised why I couldn't stop thinking of him.

 

[blublud]

Johnny Crawford in the Rifleman did it to me.

 

[journo25]

The guys in high school gym class. For basketball we were divided into two teams, Shirts and Skins. Patches of chest hair were sprouting. Treasure trails growing under my friends' belly buttons and disappearing into their gym shorts fascinated me. It was difficult to concentrate on the game. I had games of my own I fantasized about. And then a close friend--Dutch, blond, smooth, uncut...everything I was not--suggested we explore. He didn't have to ask twice.

 

[tarallucci]

Nice question.

When I first found out about soft porn on tv I was looking at men more than women. I remember saying in my mind all bored "ok I know what a vagina looks like, now show me how a cock looks please"
One day I was at a restaurant with my family and there was a pool near the tables, out of it came this man in a red speedo, all wet, and I could see the line of his dick. I could not stop watching him, even if he wasn't my type judging by my new standards

That also happened when I saw a woman taking a shower completely naked at the beach

 

[eddielee]

I was a "crotch watcher" when I was a young lad, always taking peeks at bulging male crotches. Of course, at that age, I did not have an understanding of why I found males attractive. When I hit puberty, oh boy! "Saved by the Bell:, Mario Lopez showing his hot ass in that wresting singlet, and MarK-Paul Gosselaar in tight blue jeans also had a nice ass. Wanting to fuck the hell out of them, and every hot man I saw, it was very easy to accept that I was gay. My first sexual experience confirmed it, and also confirmed that I am a bit of a slut, always wanting to go back for "second and third helpings"!

 

[Cobyforrester]

Do you write erotica! This was so descriptive and I remember those days. Changing in the locker room, young boys in their late teen years. I wish I would have looked around more. But fear kept that away from me!

 

[refujiunderground]

Doing a regular routine of humping my moms mattress when I was 12 to a video game ad featuring some bodybuilders in speedos in gamepro magazine. Never thought much about masturbating to guys because I would always do it as well as to females. It was that this time there was a realization and it really hit home.

 

[peeonme]

For me it was complicated. As a pre-pube I always messed with girls, play doctor etc. At about 12 I had a dream, it was a girl coming into my room and stripping, before she got too far my mother woke me up.
Then at 13 I was in a an all boys school, sex was common, one day I found a strange attraction to my friends crotch, so I thought that what I did there was just from being around guys in an environment that made it easy and accessible.

To my dismay my fondness for males never left even after I was back home. At 16 I knew, but I was in deep denial. I tried my best to go straight for years, I know it's a weird story, but true.

 

[jockofstrap]

In my junior high days had up then interest in girls but once puberty set in going to PE class and seeing what locker room held. Fell in love with the jockstrap and never was jock but loyal athletic supporter. Plus has crush on Tab Hunter, Ricky Nelson, Tony Dow to name few.