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Who was the first person you came out to?

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I first came out to my friend from high school. He always insisted in taking girls to his apartment to have sex, and I always put it off, and one day I just turned to him and told my sexual preference. I thought he would turn away and never talk to me anymore, because he was so homophobic, but the opposite happened, we became more friends than never.
 
Two of my (female) friends, at the same time.
Last Tuesday, at a big house party.
 
Hmm thats a tough one but these are the different experiences not sure which one is the more official...

1) the newsagent who I bought my gay mags from... (age 15)
2) my compter diary where I first wrote my decision I was gay
3) the first person I had sex with (age 18 )
4) my female best friend a month or so after #3

I think in offical terms #4 is the most accurate but I am sure that I had be "comming out" on a subconscious level for years before that (esp to my life saving teacher who I enjoyed watching in his speedo's as that nice trail of hair slid under his togs :) (age 12)...

Is there an offical greetings card for this event, lol?

G
 
I guess I kind of have a variety of firsts, depending on how you want to look at it, but the first person I told, face-to-face, was a girl friend of mine (who recently came out to me). It was back in '98 when I was 15. I was never really comfortable (for some reason) saying "I'm gay" so I would always make the person guess who I liked (a guy, obviously) and then they'd figure it out. Strange...
 
To my best friend of more than 15 years. I was so afraid, but he then told me he was already 95% convinced I was gay. He was totally cool with it!
 
My female friend online. That isn't really a person to come out to physically. So the first person I came out to physically was my Dad.
 
A school mate when I was 14 /15 though I did fool arround with another when I was 13 but we were just experimenting and I did not admit my prefereces.
 
one of my brother's gay friends asked me. and i told him yes. i think i was a senior in high school or a Freshmen in college. i don't remember.

well, actually, there was that one guy when i was a junior in high school. every day before chemistry, id meet him in the restroom and we'd play around with eachother.
 
Like a few others I have had several firsts - though I still haven't come out completely, so maybe none of them count.

1) I told my best friend in high school that was attracted to some guys, but didn't actually say I was gay. He later told me HE was gay! (I still haven't told him I am...)
2) After Freshmen year of college I hooked up with a guy - so I guess he kind of assumed. Again, I never said "I am gay".
3) Earlier this year I officially told someone (in person....JUB doesn't count, no offense) using the words "I am gay". However, so was she, so it was less of a big deal to me. Also, she is someone that none of my friends know and I don't even get to see anymore.
4) A few days ago I told one of my best friends who knows EVERYONE I know that I had a relationship with a guy (while drunk)- but I chickened out of saying "because I am gay" and let her believe that I was just "a really open-minded guy", her words. So maybe that doesn't count either. I kind of wish I had told her so it would just be out there finally, but at the time I freaked out. (refer to my drunken thread the night I told her, haha.....embarassed!!)

Now that I kinda-sorta told someone who actually matters, I can see it only being a matter of time before I tell someone else. Like I put a crack in the dam. I've gotten close many times since I came out to myself officially (earlier this year).

Sorry if that's slightly off topic since I'm not fully out.
 
My twin brother. Actually, I think we had both reached the conclusion when we were 17 that the other was gay. We had a conversation which went something like, "Do you like who I think you like?" followed by another question, "And do you like them too?" "Yep!"

And that was our coming out to each other. It certainly was no big drama and we went on living our lives.
 
My older brother when I was about 25.

Because he asked me if I was gay.
 
Effortless_Pro said:
MYSELF!

Then a my friends (closest friends) oh and then momsie.
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Me too! I had to admit that to myself and I remember the first time I said it out loud. As soon as I did I literally looked around to see if anyone had heard me even though at that time I lived by myself in my own apartment. A little while after that I told my cousin.
 
Gmoney:
Re: Who was the first person you came out to?

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To my best friend of more than 15 years. I was so afraid, but he then told me he was already 95% convinced I was gay. He was totally cool with it!


You've got a damned fine friend there, don't ever, ever let him go. (*8*)
 
Disregarding the people on the internet and the few guys I had sex with prior to coming out, the first person I came out to was a college friend. She was a lesbian, I was an emotional wreck and I finally told her. It felt good, and of course she was reassuring and such.
 
Actually, it was my step-sister, Cathy.

Oy ! What a story....I'm not sure you guys would even want to hear it.
 
I came out first to my Aunt. She was a belly dancer and I used to help her with her costume. She had already figured out that I was gay. I could talk to her about anything. I confided in her many times and she helped me a lot. She died in June of this year.
 
The first person I ever told was my best friend. At the time we'd only known each other for 3 or 4 months, but we'd talked every day and for some reason just "clicked." For about a week he kept asking me which girls I thought were hot, etc, and when I always seemed to hesitate or draw blanks, he'd go "oh, then are you gay? Do you think _________ is hot?" and he'd name a guy. I denied it two or three times and then finally said "YES, you're right, I'm sorry for lying" etc and then we both laughed for like an hour when he immediately said "Thank god you admitted it, cause I am too! I figured we trust each other already so we should be able to talk to each other about it."

We're still best friends and haven't ever "done" anything or taken it further... for risk of hurting our tight bond.... but I hope it will turn into something one day... :-)
 
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